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WHEN ALL THE BUSINESSES GET RID OF EMPLOYEES THERE WILL NO LONGER BE ANYONE WORKING TO BUY THERE GOODS AND SERVICES........EVERY CHAIN STORE IN AMERICA WANTS SELF CHECK OUT........''ITS AMERICAN GREED''.... |
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Topic:
What's good ?
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Wed 09/14/16 04:00 PM
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THE COOKIE AND WATER MELON ...  
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Topic:
A Small Kindness
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ENJOYED YOUR STORY...  
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Topic:
"The right person"
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 09/13/16 06:20 PM
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You try them on for a while :-) the right person is always there......i guess you have heard that ''we teach people how to treat us'' its pretty much the the same thing with attraction....the more we clean up our act the more we attract people who have worked on getting there act together.....most people have limiting beliefs that causes them there problems in relationships.....attraction is not a choice. it not a conscious choice anyway because its an emotional choice......good luck....
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Topic:
truth
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 09/13/16 04:12 PM
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True love is really had to find its what you believe it is....everything in life is about our beliefs.......our reality we make up in our own little heads.....those beliefs become self fulfilling.....because our unconscious wants to validate them.....''change the belief, change the outcome''...... the path to true love is commitment to another over time......its learned and earned not just found..... |
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Topic:
about loyalty ..
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there value system will give the answer.....and or very strong parental tapes..... |
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we all want to feel connected .....the truth is there is no way we can
not be connected...... to emife500...you are already complete....if that
were the case you would loose yourself,happens a lot with women in relationships  ....
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Topic:
Wondering if it works.
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I signed here today, and am kinda want to know if this site is actually met for those in this century. Just thinking out loud. yep..
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Topic:
Love
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yes i understand you. your very good at english. better than a lot of people who where born here....you are taking a lot for granted about this guy....the problem with young people is they lack life experience which is necessary for wisdom....not spending time with him in person before committing your heart may very well be a problematic .......everyone has hidden agendas...there is nothing that can replace eyeball to eyeball and thats not perfect.....the question i have is what is going on with you to put yourself in such a frustrating situation??????????...... there is love  all around you where
you live and you pick love just out of reach  ,
why..???????????.good luck... |
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i read your profile....thats a lot of issues, what about a time when couples went out together to enjoy themselves and get to know each while they were at it....and besides thats a lot to put on someones plate all at once....i met someone one time that had a issue with people lying to to them.there were liars around every corner and under every rock...once the person found out that not all people will lie to him all of a sudden all the liars were gone.....WE ATTRACT WHAT WE BELIEVE....ALWAYS WISH FOR WHAT YOU ''DO WANT''..NOT WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT....WHEN YOUR MIND IS FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU ''DO NOT'' WANT YOU JUST GET MORE OF WHAT ''DO NOT'' WANT....ALL SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE KNOW THAT........ ....................... 
Let's just agree to disagree. O.K.
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Topic:
love
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Not so sure. I worked for a company and travel was a big part of my job. While how love is expressed may be different in other cultures the "Feelings" seem to be the same. This is very obvious when visiting shopping or open market places. Looking at a young couple stare into the others eye's in a park it's very easy to see how they feel. Whether in China, America, Europe or South America one can see the expression of love is very similar to ours. Some countries are more restrictive in physical contact, i.e. Arab cultures but one can still perceive their intentions. It's difficult to hide when a couple is seriously in love. Sort of refreshing to see as well. IF A 60 FT TREE HAD PARENTS AND BRAIN IT WOULD BE A 2 FT TREE......OUR EARLY YEARS OF BRAIN WASHING IS SOME TIMES CALLED ENCULTURATION FOR GOOD REASONS....
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Topic:
Hot tempered partner
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OUR OPINION OF OURSELVES SELDOM MATCH'S WHAT OTHERS BELIEVE ABOUT US...THERE BELIEF SYSTEM IS DIFFERENT....BEING FREE OF THE OPINION OF OTHERS IS PATH TO SELF ACTUALIZATION AND ESCAPING THE ILLUSION OF AUTONOMY....
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Topic:
More than friends
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Most of the time... the min. sex or romance is part of the relationship or even mentioned or the notion entertained.... the friendship is over. (Because at least one of them will always want more). Few friendships, actually become a couple. (Now days anyway), & even fewer stay together. If people can't figure out or have a real friendship, with respect & boundaries, how can they have a 'real life', 'couple relationship' ? 
SO SAD, THE GOOD NEWS , THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO BECOME LIFE TIME FRIENDS AND LOVERS....... Absolutely, we both posted on this before. It is just rare, now days. People don't want to invest in the time, that it takes, to build it. To be friends first. But, if that it the case, I think those relationships last the longest. 2 out of the 4 life positions are ''not o.k.'' positions which are driven by beliefs about themselves and others which causes self fulfilling prophecies .AS AN ADULT WHEN WE LOOK AT ''WHY WE KNOW WHAT WE KNOW'' (AN EPIPHANY) THEN WE CAN MOVE PAST BEING STUCK AND GROW..LOTS OF TIMES A PERSON DOES NOT SEE THERE OPTIONS TO MOVE PAST A ISSUE...ITS LIKE THERE ADULT EGO STATE IS POLLUTED BY THERE CHILD OR PARENT EGO STATES.....BOTTOM LINE ITS ABOUT OUR OWN BELIEFS THAT PREVENT OUR GROWTH NOT OTHERS....
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Topic:
More than friends
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Most of the time... the min. sex or romance is part of the relationship or even mentioned or the notion entertained.... the friendship is over. (Because at least one of them will always want more). Few friendships, actually become a couple. (Now days anyway), & even fewer stay together. If people can't figure out or have a real friendship, with respect & boundaries, how can they have a 'real life', 'couple relationship' ?
SO SAD, THE GOOD NEWS , THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO BECOME LIFE TIME FRIENDS AND LOVERS....... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 09/11/16 06:35 PM
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i read your profile....thats a lot of issues, what about a time when couples went out together to enjoy themselves and get to know each while they were at it....and besides thats a lot to put on someones plate all at once....i met someone one time that had a issue with people lying to to them.there were liars around every corner and under every rock...once the person found out that not all people will lie to him all of a sudden all the liars were gone.....WE ATTRACT WHAT WE BELIEVE....ALWAYS WISH FOR WHAT YOU ''DO WANT''..NOT WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT....WHEN YOUR MIND IS FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU ''DO NOT'' WANT YOU JUST GET MORE OF WHAT ''DO NOT'' WANT....ALL SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE KNOW THAT........ .......................
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Topic:
More than friends
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 09/11/16 05:25 PM
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i believe friends have ''matching illusions'' looks like a match see no, hear no, and speak no..... |
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LYING TO ME.....I BELIEVE IN ORDER TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP THAT A COUPLE MUST BE STRAIGHT WITH EACH OTHER.... AND BE WILLING TO WORK ON ISSUES AS THEY COME UP....AS THEY WILL........ to klc...''account book'' some call it a ''love bank''... |
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Topic:
Breakup
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BAD IDEA IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF AND WHY YOU WERE ATTRACTED TO THE LAST ONE .......A RELATIONSHIP THAT WE DO NOT GROW
EMOTIONALLY I BELIEVE IS A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY.. P.S. LIKE WHAT
NEED WERE YOU TRYING TO SATISFY IN THE LAST RELATIONSHIP ? |
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I LOVE TO READ THIS STUFF BECAUSE I KNOW ITS THE UNCONSCIOUS EMOTIONAL PART OF US THAT'S REALLY CONTROLLING OUR CHOICES...
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