BECAUSE WE FOCUS ON THE SURFACE NOISE NOT WHATS REALLY GOING ON.....MAINLY OUR

CORE BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS.....PEOPLE ONLY STAY IN THERE AWARENESS

AT THE TIME......


MAKES FOR A LOT OF SOCIAL INTERCOURSE AND PAIN.........P.S. YOU CAN NOT HAVE A

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER WHEN YOU HAVE A LOT OF UNRESOLVED ISSUE'S

ABOUT YOURSELF OR OTHERS......''TRUE''LOVE COMES FROM HAVING A CLEAN PLATE....

us guys are to quick on most things normal for the guys the get to the point,

most we think we know its the thinking that gets us in trouble..there is a lot

to be said about taking your time and taking your cues from the ladies...

YES YES YES

IN TODAYS WORLD A LOT OF PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE A COMPASS MUCH LESS A MORAL COMPASS

AND WILL LAY DOWN WITH ANYONE OR ANYTHING ......IN A ENDLESS CIRCLE SEARCHING

FOR THAT SOUL FULFILLING CONNECTION.....

SHE IS A WOMAN DOING WHAT WOMEN DO....WOMEN ARE ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, WE

SHOULD NEVER EVER GIVE THEM A REASON TO BELIEVE WE HAVE A RELATIONSHIP OTHER

THAN FAMILY WITH ANOTHER WOMEN....AND RIGHTLY SO, SO MANY MEN ARE CHEATING THESE

DAYS.....AND THEY ALL TEST US TO SEE IF WE ARE WHAT WE SAY WE ARE.....SHE WAS

MOST LIKELY HURT BY A GUY IN THE PAST.......BOTTOM LINE YOUR EITHER SENSITIVE TO

HER FEELING OR NOT.......I DO NOT BELIEVE SHE IS ''THE ONE'' FOR YOU.....

ONE OF THE HUNGERS WE HUMANS HAVE IS INCIDENCE HUNGER.....WE NEED TO RECYCLE OUR

FAVORITE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS GOOD OR BAD BECAUSE IT GIVES US THE FEELING OF

BEING ALIVE.....

A VERY WISE PERSON TOLD ME ''THE RIGHT PERSON IS ALWAYS THERE AT THE

TIME''...MYSELF AND JUST ABOUT EVERY EVERY ONE ON THE PLANT HAVE A TENDENCY TO

PUT ''THE BLAME OUT THERE'' FOR THE DIRECTION THERE LIVES HAVE GONE.....

WELL THAT ONE FLEW OVER THE CUCKOO NEST.......

NOT GOING TO HAPPEN,,,,NOBODY IS POO FREE.....FIRST YOUR EXPECTATIONS HAVE TO BE

REALISTIC......

MILF IS SEXIST TERM.....A BRO, DUDE EXPRESSION.......

THIS WILL HELP.......

THE BIGGEST ISSUE I SEE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMAN AS I SEE IT...WHEN HE THINKS SHE

WANTS SOLUTIONS SHE REALLY NEEDS EMPATHY....I SAY THIS BECAUSE THE BIGGEST ISSUE

AND MOST COMMON THE LADIES HAVE IS ''HE DOES NOT LISTEN''.....WOMEN TALK TO

OTHER WOMEN ABOUT THERE PROBLEMS SO THEY CAN FORGET THEM..A MAN WILL ONLY TALK

TO ANOTHER MAN WHEN HE NEEDS HIS HELP....MOST WOMEN NEED YOU TO TOUCH THERE

HEART BEFORE YOU TOUCH THE ''HAPPY PLACE''....PRACTICE REFLECTIVE LISTENING WITH

EVERY WOMAN. IN OTHER WORDS HER EMOTIONS NEED TO BE VALIDATED. SHE JUST NEEDS TO

GET STUFF OFF HER CHEST..NOT A SOLUTION TO A PROBLEM YOU HEAR HER EXPRESS....

THATS ''REAL AND IT WILL HELP YOU FIND ''REAL''.....GOOD LUCK......

EVERYONE HAS NOISES IN THERE HEADS....ITS NORMAL THESE NOISES ARE DRIVEN BY

FEELINGS AND BELIEFS FROM THE PAST......THE REASON THAT ALL RELIGIONS HAVE

MEDITATION OR PRAYER IS TO QUIT THE NOISE IN OUR HEADS SO WE CAN SEE MORE

CLEARLY.....TRY REGULAR MEDITATION EVERYDAY IT SHOULD HELP..AND TRY TO PUT

EFFORT INTO HELPING OTHERS WITH THERE PROBLEMS IT WILL HELP TAKE YOUR MIND OF

YOURS......GOOD LUCK.....

I LOST MINE WIN I WAS 15.....AFTER THAT THERE WAS NO HOPE......WOMEN ARE NOT

ATTRACT TO NEEDY GUYS.....BE FRIENDS WITH ALL WOMEN EVEN THE ONES YOUR NOT

ATTRACTED TO BECAUSE THEY ALL NOTICE AND IT WILL MAKE YOU MORE ATTRACTIVE TO THE

TYPE YOUR LOOKING FOR......AND ALWAYS BE CONGRUENT WITH WHO YOU ARE......

THE VERY WORST IS BEING ALONE IN A CROWD....EVEN THAT IS EASILY

FIXED......FEELING LONELY IS A WAY OUR MINDS TELL US THAT THAT WE ARE NOT

GETTING OUR NEEDS MET.........????.WE NEED TO GO OUT AND RECYCLE SOME FAVORITE

FEELINGS??? ITS EASY WE ALL HAVE STARTING GATE POSITIONS......

REBECCA HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD WITH THIS ONE....WE ARE THERE FOR PEOPLE WE

CARE ABOUT EVEN WHEN ITS NOT CONVENIENT OR PLEASANT FOR US........

YES IT DOES......THATS WHY I HAVE HOBBIES THAT INVOLVE OTHER PEOPLE AND A

PUPPY.....WOMEN LOVE LITTLE PUPPIES........I HAVE MET A LOT OF WOMEN AT

WALL-MART'S EVEN.....

AMEN......

Ummmm........what ever you believe your correct, beliefs usually become

self-fulfilling......beliefs are the crap underneath the surface noise......(

surface noise is social intercourse instead of real intimacy)......

Ummmm......