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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 10/04/16 11:00 AM
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THE NUMBER ONE THING IN OUR LIVES THAT CAUSES MORE PAIN THAN ANY THING IS BEING A SLAVE TO THE ''GOOD OPINION OF OTHERS''. THE ONLY WAY WE CAN BECOME AUTONOMOUS IS TO GIVE UP OUR CHILDHOOD WISH TO BE LOVED BY EVERYONE......THIS MAY BE A SHOCKER FOR YOU,,,''EVERYTHING ANYONE HAS SAID OR DONE TO YOU WAS ABOUT THEM''...ANYWAY YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY GIVE UP BEING A SLAVE TO THE GOOD OPINION OF OTHERS,,,AND THIS ALSO INCLUDES NEGATIVE OPINION OF OTHERS.....YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH JUST THE WAY YOU ARE....NO ONE SHOULD LIVE BY SOMEONE ELSE'S YARDSTICK....GOOD LUCK AND YOU DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO........ |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 10/04/16 09:25 AM
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Hello everyone.,how wil u know if a man really loves you and not just sex?? SOUFIHERE ''When he surrenders his soul to you. (He hands over the remote.)'' I HAVE NO SHORT ANSWER FOR THIS QUESTION......WE NEVER REALLY KNOW IN SHORT TERM BECAUSE WE ALL BRING HIDDEN AGENDAS TO THE TABLE....AND COUPLE'S ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO KEEP A COMFORTABLE DISTANCE BETWEEN EACH OTHER EMOTIONALLY.......ALWAYS MAKE HIM EARN YOUR LOVE, HE WILL NOT APPRECIATE FREE LOVE, WHY BECAUSE BOYS WILL BE BOYS.... |
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Want something that will last no fake **** THEN your the one that has to get real first.....relationships are never one handed......I HAVE A VERY GOOD FRIEND AND MENTOR WHO TOLD ME ''THE CLEANER MY TRANSACTIONS ARE, THE THE BETTER PEOPLE I WILL ATTRACT INTO MY LIFE.....WHAT I MEAN BY TRANSACTION IS IT'S A ''UNIT OF RECOGNITION ''...GOOD LUCK......EVERYTHING STARTS WITH US AND ENDS WITH US........HAPPY ENDING...... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 10/04/16 08:57 AM
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fact:: a woman can NOT be talked into being into a man......your talking to outside when the truth is on inside.....i lot of guys think ''if i just had the right words''....if you talk to a woman long enough and she forms a opinion of you and she IS INTO you there is nothing SHE can do about it, on the other hand if she is NOT INTO YOU there is nothing you can do about it.....  
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THEY MUST BE LIVING IN STONE AGE....PLASTIC MONEY IS MUCH HARDER TO TAKE OUT OF YOUR HANDS...AND HAVING ON REAL JEWELS WALKING THE HOOD IS ''STUPID IS, STUPID DOES'' |
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I HAVE MET TWO PEOPLE IN MY LIFE THAT WOULD REALLY LISTEN TO ME WITHOUT JUDGING
ME AND HELPED ME FIND THE ANSWERS FOR MY SELF THAT I NEEDED...THEY WERE BOTH WOMEN WHO BECAME CAME GOOD FRIENDS....AS FAR AS LOOKS, NOBODY IS MORE BEAUTIFUL TO MY EYES THAN THOSE TWO PEOPLE..AFTER TALKING TO ONE OF THEM I ALWAYS FELT BETTER ABOUT MY SELF...BEAUTY IS MORE THEN SKIN DEEP......I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO FIND A MATE THAT I COULD SHARE MY FEELINGS WITH LIKE THOSE TO FRIENDS.... |
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I think you're putting way too much stress on this "will I still be able to find someone" bit. You haven't been alone for that long, don't expect things to happen overnight. Take your time to find your feet again, take your time to start dating again and to feel comfortable with it without immediately expecting to meet prince Charming, but just to enjoy and have fun. If you can just let go a little bit and enjoy the process, your chances will increase. And there's no reason whatsoever why you shouldn't meet someone. The right guy won't mind getting to know each other via phone, internet etc. If it's right it's right. Simple as that. No, you're not living in cuckoo land, but do what you say you do: grab life with both hands and enjoy it. But don't let having a partner define that you enjoy it or not. Be happy, love life, love yourself, then it'll come. And accept it may take some time. Could be next week, could take another 2 years. But if you're truly happy and grabbing life with both hands, does that matter? If you can manage that attitude, it may come sooner than you think. GOOD ADVICE...... |
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Topic:
When sparks are gone
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Mon 10/03/16 09:21 AM
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When sparks are gone Sparks will always come and go. Commitment lasts. As Igor says, tis hard to understand this when young as experience feeds it. But the body simply cannot sustain peak periods of 'sparks'..it would overwhelm the system. Better to understand, over a lifetime, that love and attachment can ebb and flow...tis up to the people involved to work through it. Maintain it. Build it daily. Recognize when the spark is gone and fan the flames. I WAS SO HAPPY FOR MY PARENTS WHEN THEY FOUND MATURE LOVE BEFORE THEY PASSED... IT WAS BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP.....WE CAN ALL HAVE IT IF WE TURN DOWN THE NOISE IN OUR HEADS LONG ENOUGH TO LISTEN..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Mon 10/03/16 09:00 AM
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LIBERAL TOILET MOUTH.....THEY SPREAD LIES ABOUT ANYBODY WHO IS NOT LIBERAL BECAUSE ''THOU SHALL NOT LIE'' IS SOMETHING THOSE WITHOUT A GOD KNOW ABOUT....P.S, THEY WORSHIP MONEY AND POWER.... |
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Topic:
Love
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THERE IS NO FREE LUNCH OR BEER.........UNLESS YOUR LOOK'N FOR A MOMMY...... |
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MSMBC, OWNS THE DEMOCRATIC PARTY.....BOUGHT AND PAID FOR WITH OUR MONEY.... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/02/16 01:01 PM
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be careful what you wish for..!!!..in the game of life some people have to keep going to next level to get the same rush.....you could even end up even loosing him to her....there are so many ways every one could get hurt emotional or physically....your young and still can not see the consequences of your actions. for some pain can be a good teacher or the only teacher.....you said your ''husband'' so you promised to forsake all others body and mind.....i would say that morally that it not morally correct to do that..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/02/16 11:38 AM
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THE DECK IS STACKED...1111111111 our dick, prez,..commmander in chief picks the attorney general,,,the fbi, and secrete service all work for him....him and his liberals can do no wrong.......and that includes hell-ory..... |
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I think its absolutely ridiculous women are held accountable for their husbands choices anyway,,,, Hillary Clinton isn't being held accountable for her husband's misdeeds. Hillary Clinton is being held accountable for her own misdeeds. This thread is simply a red herring. AMEN...SHE COST PEOPLE THERE LIVES , AND SHE SAID TRUMPS NOT FIT AND STUPID LIBERAL'S BELIEVE IT....... |
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get a life coach, or at very least a wing man..... |
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he is a slick snake....and had oral sex with young women while in office...and married.....morals, what morals..... |
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Topic:
photo
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you do not need face book....!!!!!!!!!!!! logon from internet and do it....
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1.profiles with no pictures 
It is a dating website " If I can plaster my pic on my profile so can you . 2. profiles with pets  Gee I know they are your best friend and you love animals but I don't want to date your
pet . 3.profiles with no shirt or barely any on  but your looking for a relationship lol!
4. profiles no recent pic  surprise !
5. Did you even read it ! 
6.Profiles that tell nothing about you  why would I want to meet you
the ones with no shirt, really show how much men do not know about women....and women have there poo also..... |
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Topic:
When sparks are gone
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there will always be changes, as we age,as we mature. when people get into relationships most are running on auto with little or no self awareness or awareness of the important differences between men and women...for example ''attraction is not a choice'' because its a emotional choice not a logical choice......men and women take in info differently and the we process it differently.....and a few needs thats are different....there is a lot more to this you need to learn....do not feel bad because no one poo free, even all mental health professionals have there ups and downs...only focus on what ''you do want'' never focus on what you don't want.....good luck... |
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Topic:
how do I upgraded
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there is a orange box top right side of page, click it........ |
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