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being there for her is priceless.....and far more valuable in every way... |
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Topic:
Positive relationship
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Wed 08/24/16 05:43 PM
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It has more to do with our unconscious beliefs about ourselves and others...not all the surface noise created by our persona's, that is where most are stuck. It is so important that each person feels good about themselves when they are in the company of there other....its really hard for most to realize that we are separate people with our own wants needs. you have to give your mate what they need so you can get what you need.....when it come to males and females they both take in info differently and then process it differently....that's why most women are starved for there mate to ''just listen to them''....empathy between two people forms a strong bond....  bottom line the first person we
need to introduce ourselves to is ourselves....most people do not realize that they have favorite feelings and emotions. or that they have a starting gate position in the drama triangle....thats my two cents.... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 08/23/16 06:14 PM
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I have had this happen in the past but I handled it differently. I confronted him (boyfriend not husband) with my suspicions and when he said he wasn't cheating, I knew him well enough to know he was lying and I told him that and he confessed that he had cheated on me with my best friend. I gave both of them their walking papers and have never spoken to either one since. ITS SEEMS A PERSONS VALUE SYSTEM IS ONE OF THE MOST OVER LOOKED TRAITS....OF COURSE ''ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE'' (NOT A CONSCIOUS CHOICE)..EMOTIONS ALWAYS WIN OUT WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION....ITS OUR ''IMAGO MATCH''WE THIRST FOR.... |
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Topic:
Love
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Love and sex are both are equal when a girl love her boyfriend she can do anything same boy can love his girlfriend he is can do any one equal death i think love dating are equal say yes or no friends OK ....MEN TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY THEN WOMEN AND ALSO PROCESS THAT INFO DIFFERENTLY...THEY DEAL WITH THERE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS DIFFERENTLY..EXCEPT FOR ANGER BOTH ARE REQUIRED TO STUFF A LOT OF ANGER IN THAT WAY THEY COULD BE SAID TO BE SIMILAR ......WE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME...AND SHOULD NOT BE EXPECTED TO BE....SO MUCH FOR EQUAL..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Tue 08/23/16 05:52 PM
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amazed at the amount of interest from younger men in older woman. Blows my mind why.? opinions??? i am only interested in my age..BUT I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY YOUNG GUYS ARE ATTRACTED TO MATURE WOMEN....THE YOUNG ONES LOOK GOOD BUT THEY LACK LIFE EXPERIENCE FOR MOST PART LIKE THE YOUNG GUYS DO.... |
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commitment to a mate is good thing....you can not win with only one foot in the game..a mate needs to know they can win with you......today a lot of relationships never get to the point of mature love when the relationship knows it can withstand rough times...hence a lot of wounded and disillusioned . and a lot are not willing to give there mate what they need so they can get what they need...being all in is part of the process to get ''real love''. |
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Topic:
haydaa
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aaaaa fonz ?????? |
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Topic:
Hard habit to break
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Been burned so many times but for some reason I still have hope REALLY,,, TAKE A LOOK AT THE COMMON DENOMINATOR ...WHEN YOU DO THE THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AND EXPECTING A DIFFERENT OUTCOME ITS TIME TO FIND OUT SOMETHING ABOUT WHAT IS CAUSING YOU TO KEEP REPEATING THE BEHAVIOR ...WE CAN NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE BUT OURSELVES...''CHANGE A BELIEF, CHANGE A OUTCOME''...STUDY SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS FOR A WHILE IS ONE OPTION...GOOD LUCK... |
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Topic:
MALE IGNORANCE ABOUT LOVE
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 08/21/16 07:49 PM
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ITS NOT SO MUCH THE IGNORANCE OF LOVE IT'S THE IGNORANCE OF OUR AND WANTS AND NEEDS AND OUR MATES WANTS AND NEEDS, BOTH EMOTIONAL OR PHYSICAL...MEN AND WOMEN TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY AND PROCESS IT DIFFERENTLY.....BOTTOM LINE ITS SELF AWARENESS IS THE FIRST STEP.....ITS REALLY HARD TO UNDERSTAND OTHERS WHEN WE DO NOT KNOW OURSELVES.... |
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Topic:
what is love....?
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Sun 08/21/16 04:08 PM
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whoever tell me...? ITS EXACTLY WHAT YOU BELIEVE IT IS NO MORE.....HOW WERE TREATED BY THE ONE'S WHO WERE SUPPOSED TO LOVE YOU GROWING UP AS A CHILD...CHECK OUT THE BOOKS AND VIDEO'S OF LEO BUSCAGLIA YOU SHOULD FIND THE ANSWER. DO A SEARCH ON INTERNET YOU WILL FIND LOTS OF INFO ON HIM....THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE TO HAVE A EPIPHANY IN YOUR SEARCH....GOOD LUCK.... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Fri 08/12/16 10:45 AM
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AND THE DEMS ARE COMMUNIST PARTY USA BUNK BUDDIES...''OF THE NEW WORLD ORDER
TAKE OVER'' |
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Topic:
love
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NOW A DAYS INTROSPECTION IS THE KEY..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Fri 08/12/16 10:32 AM
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DOG WORKS FOR OBAMA....HE APPOINTED THE HEAD DICK AND DEMOCRATES AFFIRMED HIM.....ITS A STACKED DECK OF #@$%&*ERDS. TOP LEVELS OF GOV SHOULD NOT BE APPOINTED IT LEADS TO CORRUPTION EVERY TIME ANY GOV...... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Fri 08/12/16 10:23 AM
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lol thanks for the advice will write a new post then men like to feel they can win with a woman...i know because i are one.. i know how hard it is to stuff your feelings... women for the most part are not allowed to express anger, there are ways to to get feelings across to others without others feeling like a victim... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Fri 08/12/16 09:48 AM
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I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures. I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask? thats it be suppository that will bring them around...'' when you focus on what you DO NOT want you will only get more of the same, focus only on what you DO WANT''.. P.S. ON THE OTHER HAND PAIN SOME TIMES CAN BE A GOOD TEACHER....
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Topic:
Dinero.
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What is it with guys who like buying stuff for girls? As in "spoiling" when they're just starting to date. It's weird how generous they try to be. Are they trying to buy me? Is it a sexual thing? (Because I've known guys who get off on being forced to buy things for women.) It baffles me. Isn't dating about things you can't buy in life? Mayhaps I should clue them in. REALLY WANT THE TRUTH READ ''MEN ARE FROM MARS ,WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS BY JOHN GRAY...OR ''THINK LIKE A MAN ACT LIKE A WOMAN BY STEVE HARVEY'' ....OR SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS.... |
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Topic:
Love 😻
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Tue 08/09/16 10:48 AM
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It is wonderful when the person you love, loves you back for all your quirks and imperfections. And yes, I would also call that unconditional love. And I think it is something we all wish for. 
FEW A WILLING TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO GET IT..LETS FACE IT PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS TO GET WHAT THEY NEED AT FIRST....TAKES COMMITMENT OVER TIME.....EVERYONE NOW A DAYS HAVE ONE FOOT IN ONE FOOT OUT WITH THERE EYES ON THE EXIT...BECAUSE WE DO NOT HAVE A NEED TO WORK ON THE RELATIONSHIPS LIKE MY GRAND PARENTS HAD TO WHILE LIVING MILES FROM THERE NEAREST NEIGHBOR.... THERE IS A LOT TO BE SAID ABOUT
PEOPLE WORKING TOGETHER FOR A COMMON CAUSE THAT BENEFITS BOTH.... |
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Topic:
Help Windows 10 taskbar
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Tue 08/09/16 10:02 AM
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A while ago, my taskbar has malfunctioned lol. The "start" button in the bottom left corner doesn't work, as to bring up the programs, go to documents, my computer, ect. The volume control doesn't work properly, like if I click on it, the little bar to adjust doesn't come up. I have to right click it and tell it to open volume manager... any suggestions on the fix? I've tried using reg cleaners, general cleaners, virus scan and so on. Out of ideas lol did you make a system restore repair cd or stick and save image of your hdd to a usb hdd drive.??? if not you did not good luck. next time do it.. or try restore in control panel.... 
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Topic:
Love
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I wonder were my Love is gone you still have it. its inside your heart anytime you need it....
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Topic:
hypothetically
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hypothetically,in this very moment you will meet your lifelong partner. do you have any specific expectation in mind from that person? WE ALL HAVE UNCONSCIOUS EXPECTATIONS.....THEY NEED TO FIT OUR FAMILY TRIANGLE... |
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