i believe friends have ''matching illusions'' looks like a match see no, hear

no, and speak no.....

Most of the time... the min. sex or romance is part of the relationship or even mentioned or the notion entertained.... the friendship is over. (Because at least one of them will always want more).

Few friendships, actually become a couple.
(Now days anyway), & even fewer stay together.

If people can't figure out or have a real friendship, with respect & boundaries, how can they have a 'real life', 'couple relationship' ?

SO SAD, THE GOOD NEWS , THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO BECOME LIFE TIME FRIENDS AND

LOVERS.......

Absolutely, we both posted on this before.
It is just rare, now days. People don't want to invest in the time, that it takes, to build it. To be friends first.

But, if that it the case, I think those relationships last the longest.

2 out of the 4 life positions are ''not o.k.'' positions which are driven by

beliefs about themselves and others which causes self fulfilling prophecies

.AS AN ADULT WHEN WE LOOK AT ''WHY WE KNOW WHAT WE KNOW'' (AN EPIPHANY) THEN
WE CAN MOVE PAST BEING STUCK AND GROW..LOTS OF TIMES A PERSON DOES NOT SEE THERE OPTIONS TO MOVE PAST A ISSUE...ITS LIKE THERE ADULT EGO STATE IS POLLUTED BY THERE CHILD OR PARENT EGO STATES.....BOTTOM LINE ITS ABOUT OUR OWN BELIEFS THAT PREVENT OUR GROWTH NOT OTHERS....

hyy

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