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can I trust u?
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I don't know if I can still find a true man... EVERYTHING IN THIS LIFE IS ABOUT BELIEFS THATS WHY WE HAVE, HAVES AND HAVE NOT'S.....''WHAT YOU SEE IN YOUR MINDS EYE YOU WILL HOLD IN YOUR HAND''...IT ALWAYS STARTS WITH US AND ENDS WITH US......HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF AND OTHERS AND HE WILL BE IN YOUR LIFE.......THERE ARE A GREAT MANY REALLY GOOD GUYS OUT THERE FOR YOU......IF HE IS NOT IN YOUR POND LOOK IN ANOTHER POND.....GOOD LUCK |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/23/16 10:56 AM
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Hi I've used a number of dating sites in the past as my lifestyle can be hectic at times and i don't get the chance to meet people in the normal manner of pubs and clubs as its just not my thing at all. Ive met a few people in the past some ok some made a friend and some turned out to be a mistake. Like most I've been lied to and cheated on and hurt .the thing is with sites there is deception. How do we know if the other person is actually telling the truth ? Lies from age to there relationship status. Why can people just not be honest about there situation and what they seek IF I FIRST MET YOU AND YOU TOLD ME EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU AND YOU TOLD ME THE BAD AND UGLY ALONG WITH THE GOOD WOULD YOU EXPECT ME TO HANG AROUND????????????? THERE IS NOBODY ON THE PLANET POO FREE...AND I EXPECT NOTHING BUT THE GOOD STUFF UNTILL A BUTTON IS PUSHED.....THATS WHY WOMEN WHEN THEY MEET A GUY THEY WILL TEST HIM..............AND I EXPECT TO FAIL MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE THESE ARE HER MOST SENSITIVE ISSUES SHE IS USING TO TEST ME....WHEN WE LOOK AT A ISSUE AND WE SEE ITS NOT ''ALWAYS'' OR ''EVERY TIME'' ITS LIKE MAGIC THE THE ISSUE GOES AWAY..... |
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Topic:
WHY
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/23/16 10:36 AM
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Why is it hard to find true love ? I say becouse men and women see true love differently ... Hard to find becouse you have your own idea of what your true love is ... and you have not found a women with those same principles yet ... this is why it is so hard ... for men and women ... to agree on a life and future... together you both feel will make you and her the happiest ... and you have a profile that says tell you later ![]() YES WE SEE IT DIFFERENTLY,AS MEN AND WOMEN,,,,WE ALL HAVE FILTERS BASED ON OUR EXPERIENCES AND HOW WE JUDGED THEM AT A TIME WHEN WE WERE NOT PREPARED TO FULLY UNDERSTAND.....THE NATURAL CHILD IN US WANTS SO BAD TO LOVE AND BE LOVED AND THEN THE ADAPTIVE CHILD IN US GETS IN THE WAY..... |
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Company Needed
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Bronx ny? WALK OUTSIDE AND SMILE....... |
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Chicken or the egg...
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what came first... the chicken or the egg... why is this such a difficult ? to answer ... and it is always one or the other... that is said ... if you can explain your answer ...after choosing ... one or the other ... AN EGG CAN NOT LAY A CHICKEN,,,,,HOW EVER A CHICKEN CAN LAY AN EGG.....AND I DO KNOW FOR SURE MY ANCESTORS CAME FIRST........ |
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Topic:
WHY
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/23/16 07:56 AM
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True love is of a voluntary nature, so think about this aspect ... Maybe you will get a clue .. Are you ready to fulfill her wishes, to justify her hopes? Is she eager to share her happiness with you in return? SO TRUE,,,,WHEN TWO PEOPLE START OUT ITS ABOUT ''ME'' ''WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR'' TO PEOPLE LOOKING FOR THE OTHER TO FILL THERE CUP....ITS SO HARD TO FIND SOMEONE IT SEEMS TO RISK TO GOING FROM ME TO ''WE''.AND WHEN IT DOES, AFTER A WHILE COMES THE POWER STRUGGLE WHERE ITS THE WOMAN WANTING TO GET ''ME '' BACK......BECAUSE THEY FOR THE MOST PART ARE THE GIVERS AND THE MALES ARE THE TAKERS .......I SEE THE ANSWER AS GETTING TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN US AND THE OTHER GENDER.....SO OFTEN WE BELIEVE THEY ARE LIKE US AND THEY ARE NOT......WE SEE LOVE DIFFERENTLY, WE NEED TO BE LOVED DIFFERENTLY.....BOTTOM LINE WE NEED TO DO ONTO AS THEY NEED US TO DO ONTO THEM......I HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART FOR TWO WOMEN THE THAT I KNOW LOVE ME ''FOR WHO I AM'' WITHOUT CHANGING ANYTHING.....AND THEY WERE NOT MY ''LOVERS'' THEY WERE THE BEST FRIENDS ANY PERSON COULD POSSIBLY HAVE....I GUESS YOU COULD SAY THATS ''TRUE LOVE''..... |
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Self awareness seems to be a real big problem in the US, not many have it its everything including awareness about who they elect .......they turn a blind eye to all there dirty deeds..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 10/22/16 01:20 PM
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the rest of the word knows how stupid it is to elect liberals...thats it every time her mouth opens out comes poo..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 10/22/16 01:15 PM
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yep, and i am afraid we are getting another liberal sob for prez....she has already cost to many lives......should be in jail for taking money from foreign government agents and the list goes on........they do not care about us vets...... |
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Topic:
Two of a kind
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Actually it takes both to be worthy and to do what is needed to facilitate support. [/quote IN ALMOST ALL CASES THE FEMALE IS THE GIVER,,AND THE MALE IS A TAKER.....SO MUCH FOR POO..... |
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Why need to lie?
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This is the reason why i cant trust a man.... Why they need to find someone else if u have your someone u love already...? Thats why u have her bcuz she all u wanted and u accept everything about her bcuz u love her? But why still need to flirt with other girls behind her back ? And then if he caught he lie and deny... DID YOU READ WHAT I ALREADY SAID ABOUT THIS....LET GO....GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. NOT ALL MEN ARE EXACTLY ALIKE.......IF THAT WERE THE CASE ALL WOMEN WOULD BE THE SAME......AND FOR HEAVENS SAKE TRY AND SEE YOUR PART IN THE RELATIONSHIP...... |
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Topic:
Looking for friend
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 10/22/16 09:14 AM
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Looking for friend WALK SOFT AND CARRY A BIG STICK.......I KNOW THAT FRIENDS ARE USUALLY PEOPLE WITH'' MATCHING ILLUSIONS''.....NOTICE I DID ''NOT SAY SAME ILLUSIONS'' ALL THOUGH THAT CAN HAPPEN....... |
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Two of a kind
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Who believes that there is a woman that helps encourage and motivate a man to be successful in life and everything that they do. They probably all do. The question is, how to be worthy of her when she comes along. YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GREAT POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!OFTEN SHES LEFT EMPTY,,, ,AND HE IS FULL.......... |
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hi
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how do u know if a man is really true? Time. SO TRUE..... |
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As they say 'you must choose the one who loves you not the one you love' is that true?? ''WASTED DAYS,WASTED NIGHTS'' WHEN ITS NOT MUTUAL ADMIRATION....''EVERYBODY LOSES''......''BOTH PEOPLE AND EVEN KIDS IF THEY HAVE THEM LOSE''. WITH LOVE ITS NOT HOW MUCH ( THE SECOND YOU KEEP SCORE ITS OVER ), ITS YOU DO OR DO NOT......MEN AND WOMEN SPEAK AND SHOW LOVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS THAT CREATE MISUNDERSTANDINGS......HOW WE SEND AND RECEIVE LOVE SO OUR PARTER WILL UNDERSTAND IS CRITICAL.......WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THEY ARE NOT US AND WHAT WE NEED IS NOT WHAT THEY NEED WHEN IT COMES TO MALE AND FEMALE NEEDS....THIS FACT IS SO SIMPLE I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY MORE PEOPLE ''GET IT''.... |
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love
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how much do you love your woman? WHAT MOST WOMEN BELIEVE LOVE IS AND WHAT MOST MEN BELIEVE LOVE IS NOT THE SAME....THIS REAL COMMON SHE GIVES HIM WHAT SHE NEEDS, AND HE GIVERS HER WHAT HE NEEDS NOW WE HAVE MISUNDERSTANDING....ITS NORMAL FOR PEOPLE TO USE ON OTHERS WHAT WORKS ON THEM, THATS WHY MORE TIME IS NEEDED TO UNDERSTAND THE OTHER SIDE....THE PRESENT TREND IS FOR MOST WILL NOT UNLESS THE PAIN GET BAD ENOUGH TO MOTIVATE THEMSELVES TO FIND OUT HOW THE OTHER SIDE THINKS AND FEELS.....YOU CAN NOT GIVE A WOMAN THE SAME EMOTIONAL SUPPORT THAT A MAN NEEDS .......''SO ITS NOT ONLY HOW MUCH, ITS HOW YOU SHOW LOVE TO THEM.''....ONE AREA THAT WILL REALLY HELP WOMEN IS TO GIVE YOUR MAN MORE ADMIRATION MOST MEN REALLY DO NOT FEEL APPRECIATED ENOUGH.. WHEN HE DOES FEEL APPRECIATED HE FEELS LOVED.....ITS SO IMPORTANT THAT WE ALL FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES WHEN WE ARE WITH OUR MATE..... Well said... Truth enough... ![]() Oneec, you are wise beyond your years...most of what i say will go through most peoples ears spin around and come out the other ear for naught....thanks for the complement.... |
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lord please help me find her
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just looking to start all over in a better and everlasting relationship. just hook me up ALPHA MALES DO NOT NEED A WINGMAN....... |
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love
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love without limits ![]() never happen.......even if your knight rides up to you on his horse you will still have to clean up the horse poo......NO RELATIONSHIP IS WITHOUT POO.....SETTING ''LIMITS'' KEEPS US ON SAME PAGE......THEN YOU WILL NOT SAY ''WHY DID HE DO THAT TO ME''... |
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Topic:
Why need to lie?
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Thu 10/20/16 03:04 PM
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He said he love me but he also loved someone else the same time with me... YOU WERE NOT ''THE ONE''.....HE PROBABLY DID LOVE THINGS ABOUT YOU AND LOVES OTHER THINGS ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE.....MEN DO NOT LOOK AT LOVE THE SAME WAYS WOMEN DO....MEN DO NOT FEEL LOVED IN WAYS WOMEN DO......WE DO NOT TAKE IN INFO SAME WAYS WOMEN DO AND WE DO NOT PROCESS THE INFO THE SAME WAYS.....A WOMAN WANTS TO FEEL CHERISHED AND LOVED A MAN NEEDS TO FEEL NEEDED AND APPRECIATED....AS MEN WE WOULD LIKE WOMEN TO WANT AND ENJOY SEX AS MUCH AS WE DO. BUT THE FACT IS FOR A LOT OF WOMEN THE ONLY TIME THEY FEEL LIKE DOING IT IS WHEN THEY ARE DOING IT AND A LOT NOT INTERESTED AT ALL,,I CAN UNDERSTAND A WOMENS LACK OF INTEREST BECAUSE SO MANY MEN ARE PLAYING SOLO......... |
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Hello? Im new here.
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o.k. is there something to say next...... |
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