Topic:
Need someone!
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Need someone to call my own, yea, but why is that some ladies play hard to get, someone should help me out? because they all test us to see if we are who we say we are..........WHY..??? BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.....THIS NOT A GAME FOR THEM, ITS SMART....... |
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good one need has become slang for 'strongly desire' just as 'preference' has become slang for 'mandate' the name of the game is justification........... |
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Topic:
long distance relationships
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IT TAKES A COMMITMENT BACKED UP A VALUE SYSTEM OUR (OUR CONSCIENCE )....AND WE DO NOT SEE AT LOT OF THESE DAYS.... |
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Topic:
long distance relationships
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IT TAKES A COMMITMENT BACKED UP A VALUE SYSTEM....AND WE DO NOT SEE AT LOT OF THESE DAYS.... |
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Worlds of difference between 'want' and 'need'. Perception, like. yep..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/16/16 10:07 AM
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THE TRUTH IS ALMOST EVERYTHING WE HUMANS DO IS BECAUSE OF OUR EMOTIONS AND THEN JUSTIFIED BY OUR LOGIC.....want suggests external, need suggests internal... |
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Topic:
How to break the ice?
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Hello As we all desperate males using this and all other dating apps to get to know girls around the country so my question is how to break the ice while in conversation with totally random person. Mostly girls think they men are creep or stalker while they keep looking into their profiles and messaging them. To answer that, girls either block that account or report it which in case it's really hard to get to know someone. Do you have any ideas or past experiences or any suggestions, feel free to write it so it can help others to motivate themselves to the next step Thanks [/quote READ THE BOOK ''DOUBLE YOUR DATING''.......WATCH GUY'S WHO ARE GOOD WITH WOMEN, READ, GET A DATING COACH. OR LIFE COACH.....WOMEN AND MEN TAKE IN AND PROCESS INFORMATION DIFFERENTLY.....THEY HAVE DIFFERENT WANTS AND NEEDS....THEY SEE SEX DIFFERENTLY.....I AM GENERALIZING, IT ALMOST ALL......... FOR INSTANCE A LOT OF WOMEN ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SEX UNTIL THEY THEY ARE DOING IT...... THE BIGGEST MISTAKE MEN MAKE IS ''THEY THEY USE ON WOMEN WHAT WORKS ON THEM...... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 10/16/16 09:01 AM
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why in the first place you let it happen though... This is so foul... good question.......she's just not that into you.....if she was, well wake up smell the coffee.... |
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Topic:
long distance relationships
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Sun 10/16/16 08:27 AM
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very few last...relationships need to be taken care of or they can dry up....you got into the relationship with expectations of getting something in return and so did the other person.....we all need to be good to ourselves by seeing to it that we get our needs met.....unless it's a game to reinforce a belief about yourself or others by keeping them or yourself at bay....really nobody can answer that question without knowing the two of you....the movie ""THE NOTEBOOK'' was about an exception...... |
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Topic:
2 Questions...
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go where like minded men hang out...... |
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Topic:
2 Questions...
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have you tried the single groups at church......... |
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IN AMERICA THE RICH, AND POLITICALLY CONNECT DO NOT GO BY THE SAME LAWS AS THE REST OF US....THEY ARE PROTECTED......THEY APPOINT THE US ATTORNEY AND SUPREME COURT SO THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH THERE EVIL DEEDS...... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 10/15/16 11:04 AM
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pays belong too you,each and every step i take i will always bring back to you,you have a special place in my heart and i want to spend my life with you..always thinking about you and i love you...dont think the thing called love its just a tip of tongue,its should come from your heart and mind I HAVE FOUND THAT ITS AN OPINION BASED ON OUR OWN REALITY......LOVE FOR ME IS A COMMITMENT TO THE WELL BEING OF ANOTHER THAT I VALUE AND SELF LOVE IS A COMMITMENT TO YOU OWN WELL BEING..... |
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Reality Check: DNC Chair Donna Brazile Did Leak Townhall Question To Clinton Campaign proven by Wikileaks Podesta email leaks http://www.facebook.com/BenSwannRealityCheck/videos/1231075773624037/ I DID NOT HEAR ABOUT IT ON TV.....LIBERAL PRESS HIDES THE TRUTH ABOUT DEM'S DIRTY DEEDS..... |
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Topic:
How you guys approach a gal
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Fri 10/14/16 03:50 PM
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CRYSTAL:
ONE TRAIT THAT WE WERE BORN WITH THAT CAUSES A LOT OF TROUBLE THAT WAS TO INSURE SURVIVAL SPECIE WAS TO LEARN ABOUT WHATS GOING ON IN OUR WORLD.FAST....... FROM THE TIME WE ARE BORN AS WE LEARN OUR BRAINS DECIDE THAT ''NOW I KNOW THE ANSWER'' AS WE GET OLDER LIKE INTO ADULTHOOD UPDATED INFO COMES ALONE AND WE SAY TO OURSELVES ''I ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER'' BECAUSE THE OLD ANSWER WAS REINFORCED MANY TIMES....ADULTS FEAR CHANGE BECAUSE THEY KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF THEY KEEP THERE BELIEFS THE SAME.....ITS THE UNKNOWN THEY FEAR.....I SEE IT EVERY DAY FROM ALMOST EVERYONE I TALK TO.....THATS WHY MEN ARE SO ''BULL HEADED''... |
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Topic:
How you guys approach a gal
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Fri 10/14/16 02:13 PM
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CRYSTAL: IN THE LAST FIFTY YEARS OR SO THERE HAS NOT BEEN THE MODEL ROLES TO
TEACH BOYS HOW TO BE A MAN...GROWING UP BEING RAISED BY SINGLE PARENTS OR PARENT WHO CHOOSES A SAME SEX MATE....THEN THE LACK OF KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES IN EMOTIONAL PROCESSES GOING ON IN A WOMAN AND A MAN.....WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT WE ARE NOT THE SAME, WE DO NOT TAKE INFO THE SAME THEN WE DO NOT PROCESS IT THE SAME.....WE DO DO NOT HAVE THE SAME NEEDS EMOTIONALLY, AND SEXUALLY.....AT ONE TIME I BELIEVED THE GUYS WHERE THE ONES WHO NEEDED TO GET THERE ACT TOGETHER. THEN I SOON LEARNED THAT THE GALS NEED TO ALSO LEARN MORE ABOUT HOW MEN THINK AND PROCESS INFO EMOTIONALLY.... AS LONG AS HOLD ONTO THE BELIEF WE ALREADY KNOW ENOUGH ABOUT ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX AND OUR SELVES WE WILL END UP WITH MUCH LESS THAN WHAT IS TRULY POSSIBLE... |
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Topic:
separated
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Tue 10/11/16 07:27 PM
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why not just say still married with complications or separated from original self whos still tied to another person lol very common, traditionally woman are the givers and the men are the takers. after a few years comes the power struggle when the woman struggles to get her sense of self back.....she was a partner in the creation of the lose of her sense of self. when we give to others when we really do not have it give takes from our essence.....learning to ask for what we need, even knowing what we need in some cases goes a long way to prevent it from happening...''believing you deserve to be happy and you are lovable is the core issue''....no matter how bad it gets or how good it gets it starts with us and ends with us...... |
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Topic:
Hard Working Men
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 10/11/16 08:46 AM
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now a days if they think thy can NOT get those needs met
from a guy some will try to get it from another woman.......whole new set of problems are introduced into there lives..... |
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Topic:
Hard Working Men
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the little girl in a woman is looking for a alpha male to be there for her, to comfort, protect, and also have a soft side to listen to her and understand her and most of all not judge her so she can relax and be herself....and there is a part of her thats yearns for the little girl in her to connect with the little boy in him..... |
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Topic:
Is it really impossible...?
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Mon 10/10/16 08:48 AM
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I don't want to get intimate until after marriage...Is it really impossible to ask that much these days...? To wait until marriage for sex? Not "impossible." Just not very realistic. My late wife and I didn't have sexual intercourse until after our wedding. AND THOSE ARE THE MARRIAGES THAT LAST....THE REASON IS SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS FOCUSED ON SEX AND NOT THE GIRL....WHEN YOU MAKE A COMMITMENT BEFORE THE GOD AND EVERYBODY THE FOCUS IN ON THE GIRL......YOU CAN NOT HAVE THE BEST SEX WITHOUT LOVE FOR THE OTHER PERSON..... |
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