I recently couldn't keep my sexual feelings for women to myself and told my husband of less than a year. He told me he's glad I told him and wants me to be happy if that involves being with a woman. He did say that if I do date I can't hide anything from him which I do believe it's cheating if hide things. I want to live a man and a woman at the same time!

That is great rationalization!
It is not cheating if you give details.

be careful what you wish for..!!!..in the game of life some people have to keep

going to next level to get the same rush.....you could even end up even loosing

him to her....there are so many ways every one could get hurt emotional or

physically....your young and still can not see the consequences of your actions.

for some pain can be a good teacher or the only teacher.....you said your

''husband'' so you promised to forsake all others body and mind.....i would say

that morally that it not morally correct to do that.....

Why are you calling for help?

Your one year old husband approved, you know what you want. All you need now, is a woman who is good with you spending half or more of your time with your husband, and you're jake.

I think myself, that the biggest thing that people who decide to go the multiple-mate relationship routes overlook, is the TIME ELEMENT.

Next to that, is the potential contradictory commitments challenges.

For a relationship of any kind to thrive, all members need to feel that they are with each other "enough." If they feel shortchanged time-wise for any reason, be it due to another mate, or due to work time, there will be problems.

Contradictory commitment problems come up, when the person who is ducking between two or more others, has to decide which one to honor or cater to under various circumstances. Anything from who stays with who when someone is sick, to who is willing to pull up stakes and move, when the other one gets a job opportunity requiring it.

But good luck with it all, at least you are lucky enough to live during a time when a lot fewer people are being physically attacked for wanting to live that way.

I really appreciate your input, it's tough being yourself!

LMAO

Thank you

alternately the husband may find this arrangement satistfactory for all imposing conventional morality on all may prove to be less than adequate given our sexual diversity. The average person is married three times which suggests the institution of marriage based on fidelity is an ideal that fails to meet the needs of most people though we still are tied to judeo Christian dogma and all suffer upholding what obviously has been demonstrated to be inadequate.

So basically you're on here trolling for a three-some?

Topic: Polyamory?! Help I'm Pansexual

I wasn't aware that Peter Pan was sexual.
Then again, he does have a thing for Wendy.

we are inadequate and unable to accept restraint while tied to the political dogma of 'freedom'