I love her so dam much and she knows it and she said she will always love me back to HELP ME PLZ

Well ... sorry to say, but typically when you split up, you are not each other's true love. Otherwise you wouldn't have split up.

She says she will always love you probably means as a friend, as another human being, not as a partner.
Even when you split up you can still care for the other. But that's not the same as loving him/her as a partner. That kind of love has gone.
And she may also say so because she sees you're hurting, in an attempt to ease your pain a bit.
Bummer is that you latch on to it and see hope where there is none.

When you feel like your heart is broken you always feel like you've lost true love, the only one for you. That's cause you're in pain. The only thing you can do is to stop latching on to things that aren't there, go through the motions from hurt, anger, denial, to acceptance and healing.

And don't date till you're there. Not fair on another woman, and why would you want to hurt someone else just because you are desperate?

Good luck

It seems that she wanted out of this relationship... so let her go.
See right now, the more you pursue her, the more she'd run away.

This saying might be true for you...

Just how do you expect the people on this site to help?

I am going through a similar thing. I know advice can be tough to digest...:( But it is advice none-the-less. Maybe remain friends and contact less ... what we all think is subjective, no one knows for sure as the party hasn't said .. if friendship is what is offered, then take that if you feel so inclined. It will get easier ...

I guess Crystal said it all but if you truly love her and she has not been taken already then u can try and win her over

This is going to sound a $ $ backwards. ..but hear me out. ...

I'd say don't do ANYTHING for HER....meaning don't go shopping with her if you hate it, because that what you THINK she wants....don't become a genie meaning you try to perform her every wish and command because you hope if you DO enough she'll want you back...refuse the urge. ...

INSTEAD

Do something JUST FOR YOU, without her. Instead of spending time shopping with her, cooking for her, etc...maybe go to the gym if that's your thing, or go catch that movie you've wanted to see, or go suntan on the beach, play poker with friends, the point is go do something that YOU enjoy doing....anything that makes YOU happy.

There is a reason for this, if you spend all your energy on her, and it's getting you nowhere you'll become more and more miserable feeling, the more miserable you are the less people(including your significant other) want to be around you.....

on the other hand if you are enjoying the things you're doing, people will see that and want to be part of it which may include your significant other or may not, hopefully it does...but if it doesn't you'll be in a better position to attract someone else

This is to the point, how to get them back.
Jealousy is a wonderful maneuver.

If they feel anything at all for you, they
will be bothered if you turn your eyes elsewhere.

Nothing focuses their attention faster than
losing what they took for granted.

If they do not care..prima facie evidence
my good man.

fact:: a woman can NOT be talked into being into a man......your talking to

outside when the truth is on inside.....i lot of guys think ''if i just had the

right words''....if you talk to a woman long enough and she forms a opinion of

you and she IS INTO you there is nothing SHE can do about it, on the other hand

if she is NOT INTO YOU there is nothing you can do about it.....

You don't.
Once you lose it, once one person has decided to leave, what you had is over.

At best you can try to build something new.
But if you still feel you "love her so dam much," it means you are biased and can't build something new.


When I was 6 I loved my mom so much I said I'd marry her.
What people say at one point in time is only relevant at that one point in time.
That's why we have contract law.
And that's not to remind people how they really feel now, only to be responsible for crap they said a long time ago, to force behavior.

It doesn't matter what she said.
Only what she does.
What she does is more relevant communication.
You say you love her...but you're not really listening to her.


There's no helping you if you're chasing the dragon of how you feel.

Hello, the best thing to do in such cases is to tell your feeling to your girl and ask what should you do in future about the relationship. Then you will get good conclusion of your situation.

That's easy...buy her a puppy.

I pretty much agree with this, Crystal.

I agree with most of what others have said.

In my experience people who actually love being with you, who see you as being intrinsic to their lives, don't leave. The fact that someone DOES leave, means that they DON'T see you as intrinsic to their lives, regardless of how they feel about you.

In addition, I've found it's VERY common for people to claim that they will always love someone, but not because they actually feel love for them. They say so, because they want to reaffirm their belief in love itself. Especially younger people, and those who are still hoping to have the fairy tail version of love come true for them, will say all sorts of wonderful nice things to the person they are forever leaving behind, because subconsciously, they want to avoid annoying one of the invisible gods of love, who might be listening in.

If nothing else, you should take everyone's advice and JUST GO, because if she really DOES love you in the way you wish she did, she will come back to you BECAUSE you JUST GO.

But I'm sorry to tell you, most people who talk like that are really mostly concerned with comforting you enough that you will go away as quietly and politely as possible. NOT because they feel a deep and tragic pull to return to your life.

thanks people this one spoke to me and gave me a knock in the head

this about says it ... and then take the answer and let it be ...
we move on from a love in many different ways ... and when it is time then you will know ... I have heard others say then why did you break up ... that should be enough of a reason to move on ...

Bud the only advice I can give you is don't speak to her when your emotional, just be a good friend and open and honest with her and if it's meant to be then it's meant to be, if not the best way too look at it is there is someone else out there for you who you will love even more and she will live you back just as much! There is one person out there for all of us... go find her! Good luck man and keep your head up.