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Wed 06/18/08 04:57 PM


Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.
lol! Drinking is no fun when its alone sugar. Plus I do believe alcohol makes me even more clingy and very jumpy.laugh


True, but I have a lot of good stories and cool scars from drinking in general but oddly a lot of rejection stories too.
But yeah drinking alone leaves me hitting on the Telemundo chicks/

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Wed 06/18/08 04:52 PM
Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.

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Wed 06/18/08 04:47 PM
Edited by JTstrang on Wed 06/18/08 04:48 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh it's either a boy or a lesbian girl, because it ends up on the shirts of many large women that seem to hang out in wal-mart parking lots.laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 06/18/08 04:42 PM

I can not speak for your house guest, that is something you will need to feel out once he arrives. Personally, I would just be impressed by the gesture of inviting me to dinner in the comfort of your home. If you know of anything that he truly enjoys such as sports or a specific team, leave little hints around like a magazine article about that team, left open on the coffee table. Maybe playing his fav music/band softly in the background. Just little things like that. If he is a decent guy, he will notice and be impressed that you went the extra mile for him. Just a thought...



No, that would scare me away. It seems a bit too obsessive and 1950's.

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Wed 06/18/08 04:41 PM
See a shrink while you're young, I am 26 and have never been on a real date. I wish I would have worked on this before I got married and now divorced. I kind of have the same problem as you though except I either cling kind of hard or push away really hard

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Wed 06/18/08 03:32 PM
Cheese Nits

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Wed 06/18/08 03:28 PM
Porn. PBR and Pizza

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Tue 06/17/08 11:44 PM
I very much dig Nick Cave, I can understand him and love his lyrics.

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Tue 06/17/08 11:32 PM
Yeah thanks now you tell me.

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Tue 06/17/08 11:29 PM
As my daddy used to say - goodnight, sleep tight, don't let the boogie man murder you in your sleep.

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Tue 06/17/08 11:24 PM
Hung over again at work
****ting brick it's starting to hurt
no place to sit except in my car
5 dollars in gas wont get me too far
Just too depressed to go and drive
Wondering if I'm ready for another ride

I've got nothing to live of die for
Just tired of the cheap beer I can't afford
I just don't any misery again
So why would i want another girlfriend

Put out the cigarettes smoldering on my arms
No tears just defiantly doing myself harm
I can't please everyone or anyone
after she left and told me I'm dumb
alcohol fueled procrastication and mutalation
Just trying to stop this neolithic brain from racin

Lonliness and no home left to go to
Sleep on couches and my car when i have to
Spiteful of this race she put me back in
It goes to fast and at the end i'm not even placin
I just get stuck in between gears end up dead last
Can't yet repair the damage from the past

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Tue 06/17/08 11:10 PM
Not a big fan.

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Tue 06/17/08 11:08 PM
My brother says hello.......



Hooray for speech therapy

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Tue 06/17/08 10:58 PM




So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck



hey JT these past bad experiences/women were probably not worth a crud anyway. if any one of them cared about you they would not have been so harsh and actually acted like a grown up woman and said "yo this is what i like/don't like, etc." u need quality not quantity.


I never got complaints from the sex, it was just the fact that I got cheated on that made me question my manhood. When my wife cheated on me, it was when she was saying we needed and "open" relationship and wanted me to be violent in bed, I tried but I am always afraid of hurting people cause I hurt people when I don't try. I still got her off more than I got to. but what does that say about me that I wasn't able to keep her interested where she pursued another man. It made me question if she was lying to me about the times she said it was good and the few women after that said that. I am a bit insaine I know, but these worries seem legit to me.

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Tue 06/17/08 10:54 PM




So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck


Well I can't verify that but as you've seen most wouldn't say that even if it were true.. Confidence is found attractive by women.. Sometimes you just have to say "maybe she wasn't for me, doesn't mean anything is wrong with me"...


I probably should say that, but there are a lot of things that i should do that i don't. Give me time to heal, maybe I will be ok someday. It just isn't happening right now


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Tue 06/17/08 10:48 PM


So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?


JT that's why we've been telling you to work on your self-esteem.. You ALWAYS think the worst and negative....


I am sorry I just have had a lot of bad experiences, and am tired of being dissapointed and lied to and told I suck

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Tue 06/17/08 10:45 PM
I didn't even make it 3. Man I must suck.

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Tue 06/17/08 10:43 PM
So most likely then I wasn't lied to and being patronized?

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Tue 06/17/08 10:37 PM

What does the "infected" have to do with telling a guy he sucks or is good in bed???huh huh


It's from a song by electric Six. i thought it would garner some attention from people so peeps read it.

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Tue 06/17/08 10:34 PM
SO I have a question for the ladies.
Do you lie to a dude about how the sex went?
Like do you tell all the guys it was the best you have had in a while or the best ever type stuff?

Just wondering