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Topic: Only one date...
Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:29 PM
I've only ever been on one real date and that was just recently. ohwell
Sad I know, what I am concerned about is that I always seem to cling to the guys that I meet and show any form of interest of kindness to me. This makes it extremely difficult to have any sort of relationship with the opposite sex and so therefore I am single. I don't have any problems with obbsession or anything more along the facts that I get nervous so I over act in a way. I am so shy and insecure at times that I start to think that I'm not doind enough and then the vicious cycle of over clinging kicks in....frown
The question is.... Is there any possible way to overcome this terrible habit of mine?

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:31 PM
bounce fabric sheets... suppose to free the cling!!!

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:33 PM
Cute lol! laugh

Peccy's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:34 PM
Flash your bewbs to him.......not sure if it will help, but he will sure smile!

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:35 PM
That might get me laid but that's not hat I'm looking for dude. embarassed

awolf1010's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:38 PM
date a truck driver......he's gone alot and if you call it will only keep him awake on the road...

Peccy's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:38 PM
Oh no, it will I promise!

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:39 PM

date a truck driver......he's gone alot and if you call it will only keep him awake on the road...
Lol I should try that, always work with your flaws right? laugh

JTstrang's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:41 PM
See a shrink while you're young, I am 26 and have never been on a real date. I wish I would have worked on this before I got married and now divorced. I kind of have the same problem as you though except I either cling kind of hard or push away really hard

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:45 PM

See a shrink while you're young, I am 26 and have never been on a real date. I wish I would have worked on this before I got married and now divorced. I kind of have the same problem as you though except I either cling kind of hard or push away really hard

I've been seeing shrinks since I was 8 years old, they only seem to make my problems worse than better. When I am on my own I can handle myself just fine, but when I see one of those certified nuts I suddenly feel as if I can't do anything without them saying its okay for me to do so. I really don't think they can help me with this problem. Thanks for the suggestion though.flowerforyou

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Wed 06/18/08 04:49 PM

I've only ever been on one real date and that was just recently. ohwell
Sad I know, what I am concerned about is that I always seem to cling to the guys that I meet and show any form of interest of kindness to me. This makes it extremely difficult to have any sort of relationship with the opposite sex and so therefore I am single. I don't have any problems with obbsession or anything more along the facts that I get nervous so I over act in a way. I am so shy and insecure at times that I start to think that I'm not doind enough and then the vicious cycle of over clinging kicks in....frown
The question is.... Is there any possible way to overcome this terrible habit of mine?
take it easy girllaugh

JTstrang's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:52 PM
Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:52 PM


I've only ever been on one real date and that was just recently. ohwell
Sad I know, what I am concerned about is that I always seem to cling to the guys that I meet and show any form of interest of kindness to me. This makes it extremely difficult to have any sort of relationship with the opposite sex and so therefore I am single. I don't have any problems with obbsession or anything more along the facts that I get nervous so I over act in a way. I am so shy and insecure at times that I start to think that I'm not doind enough and then the vicious cycle of over clinging kicks in....frown
The question is.... Is there any possible way to overcome this terrible habit of mine?
take it easy girllaugh
lol yea I guess I should huh?:tongue:

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:53 PM

Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.
lol! Drinking is no fun when its alone sugar. Plus I do believe alcohol makes me even more clingy and very jumpy.laugh

JTstrang's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:57 PM


Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.
lol! Drinking is no fun when its alone sugar. Plus I do believe alcohol makes me even more clingy and very jumpy.laugh


True, but I have a lot of good stories and cool scars from drinking in general but oddly a lot of rejection stories too.
But yeah drinking alone leaves me hitting on the Telemundo chicks/

chris1979's photo
Wed 06/18/08 04:58 PM

I've only ever been on one real date and that was just recently. ohwell
Sad I know, what I am concerned about is that I always seem to cling to the guys that I meet and show any form of interest of kindness to me. This makes it extremely difficult to have any sort of relationship with the opposite sex and so therefore I am single. I don't have any problems with obbsession or anything more along the facts that I get nervous so I over act in a way. I am so shy and insecure at times that I start to think that I'm not doind enough and then the vicious cycle of over clinging kicks in....frown
The question is.... Is there any possible way to overcome this terrible habit of mine?
just be yourself, who cares what others think of you. your beautiful and will be very happy one day.TRUST flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou MEflowerforyou flowerforyou

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 05:00 PM



Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.
lol! Drinking is no fun when its alone sugar. Plus I do believe alcohol makes me even more clingy and very jumpy.laugh


True, but I have a lot of good stories and cool scars from drinking in general but oddly a lot of rejection stories too.
But yeah drinking alone leaves me hitting on the Telemundo chicks/

lol wow. I don't need alcohol to have those rejection stories but at the same time I kinda wish I did have the alcohol it might justify the rejection better...ohwell

Pirategirl89's photo
Wed 06/18/08 05:00 PM


I've only ever been on one real date and that was just recently. ohwell
Sad I know, what I am concerned about is that I always seem to cling to the guys that I meet and show any form of interest of kindness to me. This makes it extremely difficult to have any sort of relationship with the opposite sex and so therefore I am single. I don't have any problems with obbsession or anything more along the facts that I get nervous so I over act in a way. I am so shy and insecure at times that I start to think that I'm not doind enough and then the vicious cycle of over clinging kicks in....frown
The question is.... Is there any possible way to overcome this terrible habit of mine?
just be yourself, who cares what others think of you. your beautiful and will be very happy one day.TRUST flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou MEflowerforyou flowerforyou
Why thak you sugar! flowerforyou

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Wed 06/18/08 05:01 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Wed 06/18/08 05:02 PM


Well you can always do what I always did, drink until you lose your fears and inhibitions. THough that hasn't worked out too well for me. Second thought don't try that.
lol! Drinking is no fun when its alone sugar. Plus I do believe alcohol makes me even more clingy and very jumpy.laugh
you can have a drink with me and i let you be a "klingon" for a whilelaugh

chris1979's photo
Wed 06/18/08 05:02 PM



I've only ever been on one real date and that was just recently. ohwell
Sad I know, what I am concerned about is that I always seem to cling to the guys that I meet and show any form of interest of kindness to me. This makes it extremely difficult to have any sort of relationship with the opposite sex and so therefore I am single. I don't have any problems with obbsession or anything more along the facts that I get nervous so I over act in a way. I am so shy and insecure at times that I start to think that I'm not doind enough and then the vicious cycle of over clinging kicks in....frown
The question is.... Is there any possible way to overcome this terrible habit of mine?
just be yourself, who cares what others think of you. your beautiful and will be very happy one day.TRUST flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou MEflowerforyou flowerforyou
Why thak you sugar! flowerforyou
anytimeflowerforyou

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