Community > Posts By > splendidlife
Topic:
suffering
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If kind, pitying words of loved ones around me can't inspire me to get off my ass and look at what misery I, myself, have created, haven't they really just been tip-toeing around, allowing me to continue in my life's sleep-walk?
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I think there's WAY more to dreaming. Most of our memories haunt us. Perhaps we upload to clear some of the garbage to an unknown data base.
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Edited by
splendidlife
on
Fri 03/13/09 11:05 AM
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I wonder how neural activity in the hippocampus compairs during dreaming...
Could only our "conscious" memory reside in this part of the brain? Wonder where subconscious memory resides... Just picked this up on: http://www.scaruffi.com/science/dreaming.html Winson's hypothesis is that, during sleep, the hippocampus processes the day's events and stores important information. Winson postulates a strong connection between dreaming (or whatever causes dreaming) and long term memory. |
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I was the same way when I was a child and my daughter is the same way but since it took me almost 16 years to have my first baby when my wife and I were together she slept with us all the time and now that were divorced she still sleeps with me when I have her on the weekends and I get her every weekend because my X would rather party with her new boyfriend and thats just fine with me anyway my daughter and I both have problems with our legs hurting at night,mainly after a busy day of hiking or running or sometimes they just ache in the knees we both take a little ibuprofen about half hour before bed and that seems to help a lot and about the sleeping with you I'm not sure what to tell you my daughter doesn't sleep with her mom anymore and when she stays with me,even if she falls asleep in her room she usually climbs in my bed sometime in the middle of the night and since i'm still single its not a problem right now anyway,your daughter being only 2 probally feels more secure sleeping with you at this time and she'll probally grow out of it what might help is having some of her friends over for a slumber party,maybe not at this age but in the near future it will get her used of being a little more independent,maybe lol Yeah... What helped my daughter to be more willing to sleep apart from me was being around a boyfriend's girls and sleeping with them. That was a key ingredient. Slumber Parties... What an awesome idea! And from a dad, no less. |
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Topic:
Why do you bother?
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Yeah, like when I post stuff like this from research on the Bible, people just ignore it: 2) The first set of stone tablets was given to Moses at a subsequent trip up the mountain (Exodus 31:18). In this farcical story, Moses petulantly destroyed those tablets when he saw the people worshipping the golden calf (Exodus 32:19). 3) So he went back for a replacement. God told Moses: "Hew thee two tables of stone like unto the first: and I will write upon these tables the words that were in the first tables, which thou brakest." (Exodus 34:1) Here is what was on the replacement tablets (from Exodus 34:14-26): 1) Thou shalt worship no other God. 2) Thou shalt make thee no molten gods. 3) The feast of unleavened bread shalt thou keep. 4) Six days thou shalt work, but on the seventh day thou shalt rest. 5) Thou shalt observe the feast of weeks. 6) Thrice in the year shall all your menchildren appear before the Lord God. 7) Thou shalt not offer the of my sacrifice with leaven. 8) Neither shall the sacrifice of the feast of the passover be left until the morning. 9) The first of the firstfruits of thy land shalt thou bring unto the house of the Lord thy God. 10) Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk. Keep this in mind next time you are tempted to boil a goat. This list differs, obviously, from the one in Exodus 20 (was God's memory faulty?), but it is only this list that is called the "Ten Commandments": "And he wrote upon the tables the words of the covenant, the ten commandments." (Exodus 34:28) I have a tendency to pass on reading words other than those of the actual poster. Especially when I see copied bible quotes. I probably miss a lot. These laws... these commandments have been used like cook book instructions. I tend to be a loose cannon in the kitchen (so I've been told) and prefer to veer as far away from outdated rules/contexts as possible. If each of us is mostly seeking self validation, of course we'd routinely ignore each other. We're blind to each other. Lone atoms waiting for something outside ourselves to spawn any chance collision. |
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Topic:
Why do you bother?
Edited by
splendidlife
on
Fri 03/13/09 08:22 AM
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like i said dan...i think you answered the question for yourself. others may have different reasons. attacks come from all sides. all sides tell the others they are wrong. but you get the picture anyway I think i was probably asking for the opinion of others rather than working out why it is that i do it. I dont often get involved with religion, so i am more interested in the reasons of people such as yourself, Abra, Krimsa, Morningsong, Feral, Tribo(where is he?!). i.e the people that argue(for want of a better word) day in day out about the same thing. Tribo got tired of big brother's online involvement and moved to the Philippines. I think people "argue" day in and day out because they desperately want to be heard and validated. To be heard and understood by another and to have them agree with one's own "reality" seems like the ultimate cure for loneliness. It's illusion. We seem addicted to being "right", no matter what the belief and no matter the cost or isolation. When ever I can't see past having to be right, I feel isolated and dumb... Not because I haven't been able to prove I'm right... It's more because I haven't fully embraced the fact that I have my head shoved just as deeply up my ass as the next guy. As I stumble about, wondering who the hell I am, I stop in here and look around for any words that might link to some possible universal connection between all things. It's not any religious dogma that has me feeling any more connected to the whole. It's in the words of each person (right or wrong). It's in the fight to be right and the break-down into understanding that we are all toddlers in this thing. |
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Topic:
No Line On The Horizon
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Huge fan, had a copy weeks before it came out and was pretty stoked. I've seen them a total of 3 times, the first time was on The Joshua Tree tour, the 2nd and 3rd were from the elevation tour. The first show was in april of 2001 (pre-9-11) and then the 2nd was here in Austin in November after all the chaos had happened. I'm hoping to catch them again if they come through here :) As far as the album itself, I really like their last 2 since they went back to a lot of the people they worked with in the 80's for the producing and such. They got a little obnoxious there for a while with the whole Zoo Tv thing and all that madness, I missed that tour on purpose actually as I heard they weren't playing older songs on it. They played a TON of older stuff when I saw them at that November show here, it was pretty sweet. I've been listening to them since before cd's were popular, I still have several of their albums on cassette What do you think of this album? |
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Topic:
No Line On The Horizon
Edited by
splendidlife
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Thu 03/12/09 12:08 PM
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Have you seen them live? If not, their US tour starts in the fall, I would highly recommend trying to go if you can afford it. You don't really get Bono and the band until you see it live. I saw them for the 1st time in 83 or 84, one of their first tours. That was when I truly became rabid Last show I saw was their All that You Can't Leave Behind Tour, I miss them. Gonna try to be able to afford to see them when they come in September. I have not seen them live yet. Perhaps this time it will be made more affordable (single mommie here, with no assistance). Something tells me it WILL be possible. |
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Topic:
No Line On The Horizon
Edited by
splendidlife
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Thu 03/12/09 11:35 AM
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Actually, it does not sound nutty to me. U2 has always been an incredibly spiritual (and political) band. Much of their music, especially the stuff not played on mainstream radio, is about their struggle with God, spirituality, religion, the human soul, the state of humanity, etc. And, they practice what they preach, which is refreshing. They are the band that got me politically active in college and opened my eyes to the fact that there is so much more to life than what we see right in front of our faces on a day-to-day level. Yes... As I look back on their lyrics through the years with a slightly clearer head, I see this. There seems to be something much greater that they give these days (or perhaps I just have the eyes to see more). Seems highly unprecedented for a band as huge as U2 to have shown up on Letterman for 5 nights in a row and to make public appearances all over NY and to perform on a College Campus during that week. To have their music available online to play as often as anyone wishes... where anyone could easily only listen online and not ever have to make an actual purchase... Seems to be a gifting going on here and a greater push to get the words and the spirit from which they came out their to as many people as possible, regardless of "profit". When they performed at the Inauguration, Bono cried. I can see it in this man and really feel that this is his true destiny. He's ALL there. I never saw this before. |
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Topic:
No Line On The Horizon
Edited by
splendidlife
on
Wed 03/11/09 02:56 PM
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I was a fan, but never really considered myself "rabid" until now...
I've got it playing all day and all night. Seems as if, the more I listen, the more my hearts opens to something infinitely greater than me... Humanity... the Universe. Yeah... I know... Probably sounds nutty. Oh well... Here are the links again so one can just click and get there: To listen: http://www.u2.com/soundandvision/index/ Go down to Audio and click on the album cover (No Line One the Horizon) and it will load. For lyrics: http://nolineonthehorizonlyrics.blogspot.com |
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Topic:
No Line On The Horizon
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Breathtaking, heart-opening, consciousness-shifting music and lyrics throughout the entire album.
I've fallen in love with this masterpiece! ...A gift to mankind. I listen over and over again and... still... I'm brought to tears. The U2 site has the entire album available to listen to for free. Even if you only have crappy speakers on your computer... I think you'll be moved. Here's where you can go to listen: http://www.u2.com/soundandvision/index/# Click on the album and it will load. Here's where you can go for lyrics: http://nolineonthehorizonlyrics.blogspot.com Enjoy! |
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Pacific is right. 8:30 or 9 is just too late. My child is seven and he goes to bed at eight. Kids that are two need about 14 hours of sleep. Adjust the naptime or eliminate one, if there are two. Be firm. Be firm. DO NOT CAVE. Love your child enough to stay strong and say no. I highly advise talking to your pediatrician. Take notes. I'm standing behind these bedtimes. They are late for my child though. When my child was 2 yrs., bedtime was 7:00-7:30. My child is older now and goes to bed around 8:00-8:30. My child sleeps 12 hours. Thanks everyone for your advice, I'm going to try some of it out. I took her in the room for her nap today and she wouldn't sit still for a book, so I made sure there was nothing noisy in the area, pretended to be asleep for about 10 minutes and she finally got bored and crawled up there with me. And fell asleep within 15 minutes. So maybe it'll work for bed time. Thanks again! My little one just turned 3. Most of the time, I read to her in her room and end up falling alseep... sometimes not waking until morning. Sometimes, I'm able to sneak away. Sometimes there's just a whole lot of gnashing of teeth. As a single mom who has practiced attachment parenting, I struggle with setting limits. She has had me wrapped around her lovely little finger. Tonight (partly because of the time-change) was one of those nights when she just wouldn't fall asleep. I layed there next to her, agonizing over when and how to make my stealthy escape. She popped her eyes open and started singing the blues. I'm just no good at tough love. I know I must set limits, but feel like one giant thumb. She counts on me giving in... Anyway, that's about my plight. On the nights that go alright, I read to her in her own bed. It has worked better than fighting her. She slept in the bed with me until she was 2 and a half. Getting her into her own bed was monu-freaking-mental (and I do mean mental ). I hear you, girl. Doing it on your own places extra guilt when you feel like you're not getting it "right". Just remember... you're learning. You learn from each other. |
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Topic:
The Sky
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If you think living in the country is good for sky viewing you should try an aircraft carrier in the middle of the ocean. I bet that's an amazing sight. For those of us not fortunate enough to be able to get that far away from land, the high deserts of the southwest are about as good as it gets. Wide open and far from city lights. Also, any good mountain top will do in a pinch. You usually don't get quite as wide a view in the mountains thought. Both of these have the advantage of being at higher altitudes where there is less atmospheric distortion.
The most brilliant view I've had was in Idaho at Craters of the Moon National Monument. |
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Topic:
Gay Marriage and Atheism
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The best thing about not getting married is that you always avoid divorce lawyers Or you could just get married on paper and walk away. |
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Topic:
Gay Marriage and Atheism
Edited by
splendidlife
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Sun 03/08/09 02:40 PM
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Marriage is Bull$hit. But the only reason gays would like to get married is so they can enjoy certin legal benefits marriage has to offer, like tax breaks and wills and such. Plus, if two people love each other then why not? As I said, it is realy only the religious that care. Religion has always hated what it does not understand. It despretly tried to keep the blacks down, and when that faild it now sets it's sights on the gay community. And when that fails (and it will). They will move on to the next group to hate and oppress. I'd say that there are innumerable “gays” in relationships who strongly believe that marriage/declaration of commitment is the ultimate way to express their genuine desire to bond for life. Just as there are plenty of “heteros” in relationships choosing to go the marriage route for the sake of certain extra conveniences. We’re not THAT different. To point out how wrong religion is seems only to provide something to blame. Seems that blaming doesn't affect a shift in understanding. Couldn't mutual understanding add a stone in the pathway to peace? |
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Topic:
Gay Marriage and Atheism
Edited by
splendidlife
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Sun 03/08/09 02:38 PM
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I have looked at many religions to find any truths there may be to be found. While I have found no real truth, I have noticed what I would call a completely unscientific observation. It seems to me that there is some kind of universal law that all energy in the universe seeks to find a balance. I am not suggesting there is any supernatural forces at work or that there is any form of intelligence behind it. All seek a balance... Yes! And that could explain humans constantly striving to create (force) nothing but positive, falling to the side of negative (quite naturally) time and time again, as all laws of nature point to equal. I study and work in the IT world. I can remember from my studies of electronics how energy never really disappears, it just transforms into a different form of energy. It seems to make a lot sense on a larger scale also. Yeah... on the scale of... everything. |
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Topic:
Gay Marriage and Atheism
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Isn't the whole institution of marriage based in religion anyway? Are we moving toward a culture without marriage? Given the high and growing rate of divorce the next logical step would be the social dissolution of lifelong pair bonding. Its based on forcing "love", based on law, rather than allowing each other to pass through what-ever each heart must experience. Force anything to follow something defined and watch love wither away. |
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but indeed, finite cannot even begin to surmize what hath no beginning and no end, what was before itself and is itself, infinite but hidden in finite for a time, a perception thru eye's that hath only but seen, all things around itself ending and beginning, as infinite hath no mother nor father to exist, and only what be past and thru the mind, this indeed do find, pulling if from the very auro that surround itself each day, when it finally find it within to say, i am but a lump of clay whose mind is but decay... This is true David, but ultimately this philosophy only makes sense in a pantheistic view. In that case, we are God. It makes no sense to speak about an 'infinite' God and simultaneously hold that we are 'seperate' from that God. If God is infinite, then we are part of God. That's pantheism. However, in that view it would make no sense to say that our lives are only meaningful if there exists "a god" because in that view we are a direct manifestation of "god". Once the pantheisic view is accepted there is no longer a need for an infinite regression of gods over gods becasue all is God. God is all that exists. Period. God doesn't 'give' meaning to anything. God IS everything. And there is nothing other than God. Once the pantheistic view of God has been accepted all problems disolve into nothingness because there is no 'external' reference frame that needs to be justified. We are not 'external to God' and God is not 'external to us'. Therefore Plato's entire concept of the God's passing judgements on the pious nature of external beings is a moot point. Plato was thinking non-pantheistically in this particular instance. He was clearly asking the question based on a concept that spirit and flesh are distinctly different entities. (i.e. The Gods are judging 'others' to be pious or non-pious). So my original answer was a take-off from Plato's point of view. Yes, I agree with you David. Once pantheisism is considered the concept becomes moot. Great to read your posts! You're always spot on. Infinity-ism! God is us! |
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Socrates generates a formal dilemma from a (deceptively) simple question: "Is the pious loved by the gods because it is pious, or is it pious because it is loved by the gods?" (Euthyphro 10 a) . . . If right actions are pious only because the god(s) love them, then moral rightness is entirely arbitrary, depending only on the whims of the god(s). If, on the other hand, the god(s) love right actions only because they are already right, then there must be some non-divine source of values, which we might come to know independently of their love. from http://www.philosophypages.com/hy/2d.htm The pious are loved by the gods of ego. They feed each other. |
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