do u think it can work?

Sense my divorce I've been involved with a number of women. At some point they all asked the same question. "Where is this going?"

I thought things were fine just as they were. I had my space, she had hers. We saw each other when we wanted and if it was inconvenient, we didn't. I was happy and she seemed happy too.

Why does it have to be going someplace?

What's to be gained by getting married that a couple doesn't already have?

Everyone doing on this Sunday evening? Lots of crazy weather all over the place

No... God is not real

My 2 cents (even though I think the rate has gone up). My sweetie pie said to me the other day when giving me one of those looks "your very loving". I thought that was such a cool thing to tell someone. It also makes a lot of sense. I enjoy being loving, and I enjoy when others share in that love. I'm not sure if "what about me?" cuts it, and get the feeling that many live in "what about me land" when they should just be their own loving self. Love is like a wonderful fragrance that tends to fill the room when it enters. People who spend time in sour mode usually find temporal love at best, and I think sadly miss out on their true (better) self. Others around them miss out as well, and maybe one of those others is actually the one.

Another thing is (I think) the nature of people. Months, maybe a year ago, I put up an honest thread that said "where are you" or something to that effect. I don't think I got one response from that. I thought that was so odd, and never sent out the vibe that I was looking or available again on here. Sites need to let down their guard a little I think. They need to be about caring more than the fears of not having. I get approached by a lot of nice caring people on here and hope that I share love with them in return and not injecting them with rejection or fear. Love and being lovely go hand and hand, and I believe swings to the positive side of life and not the negative. If you spend your time building a pool yet don't keep the water refreshing and clean, why would anyone want to swim in it with you.

how many cents is that?

It is by revelation that people experience who God is. Some bravely go through life believing despite any definite interaction with God. I wanted God not to exist, but when you have had many supernatural signs & wonders happen like I have had, you believe

do you believe in free will?

Sadly not. Internet dating is a luck of the draw game. I do mean game. Some seem to treat it as such instead of taking it seriously. I get the feeling you aren't as social as some people are. You're shy, an introvert. Like me. We don't campaign ourselves that much and this is what we get in return: slim odds. Mostly just odd people in my world. Maybe you should post a fyler or something. "Want a date, you interested?" As unorthodox as that sounds, it could lift your spirits. I get the feeling you personally don't take chances when good things come your way. Just a vibe I'm getting. And your main problem is quite frankly you are limiting yourself to JUST your surroundings. Where's the fun in that? What if someone you've been searching for all your life lives in the states? Or even Oregon? California? New York? Don't limit yourself, only people who wish to be alone do this. Doesn't sound like you wanna be alone. Good luck, cause that's all it is.