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Thu 02/21/13 06:30 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Thu 02/21/13 06:31 PM
Sorry - that's grounds for...Divorce !!!!!

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Thu 02/21/13 06:22 PM
Yes. I give ya'll permission to pull the plug on me.

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Wed 02/20/13 10:21 PM
This is quite a dilemma to be in. I've been through this same situation more than once.
When 'being in love' gets mixed in w/stupidity, mistakes are made.
Lesson to be learned is, as I have in the past is...

- Cover your own azz -

I guess part of the problem is some of us blindly get into relationships, loving the other person, expecting their partner to uphold their end of bargain and stay 'faithful.' More likely than not, someone, somewhere down the line, will forget to stay faithful...and some form of 'cheating' happens.

What next, is we become so 'stunned' by the adulterer's actions that our good judgement(s) unknowingly creeps out the dang window.

I suppose back in the day it's advisable to stay in a bad marriage for the sake of reputation or children involved, but these days divorce has become prevalent, and in some cases, even encouraged.

My take on that, is whatever I get into, with anyone, I'm going to make sure I cover myself in pretty much every aspect. Vows and promise are thrown out there...and 9 times out of 10, they are are taken with a grain of salt. So why leave yourself azzed out and in a demoralizing situation when you can prepare for the worse?



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Wed 02/20/13 09:55 PM
Forget texting.
My talking scares men off.
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Wed 02/20/13 09:52 PM

Okay, I can play.

I dated (for an extremely short period) a man who was not the quickest thinker. He sent me a fax once with a P.S. at the bottom...”Call me if you don’t get this fax”.




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Wed 02/20/13 09:49 PM
Didn't get a sign?

That's because she's busy playing with that other guy from 'beyond...'

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Wed 02/20/13 09:46 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Wed 02/20/13 09:46 PM
Serious...
As in a heart-attack.
What else could it mean?

Then again, who knows how 'serious' people really are when they throw words out like that.
I suppose you could take their word for it and see what happens.


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Wed 02/20/13 09:40 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Wed 02/20/13 09:41 PM

Your putting her up on a pedestal, that can make a woman feel uncomfortable.



Agreed.
Stop that crap.
I have gotten tired of trying to impress people, esp those that I don't even know in the first place.
All that time you've invested in thinking about..feeling nervous about, itching & twitching about...all those women you are so nervous to talk to...all that really leaves them with is an impression.

In my life, I probably left people with a million and one bad 'first impressions.'
But you know what, I could care less.
They're not the ones paying my bills...they're not laying in bed with me at night.

If you don't have much experience in 'picking up women'...if that's what you want to call it, practice with your female friends.

Then go out and start by smiling to people. It'll come to you.
Soon, you'll realize that those so-called 'unattainable' women that you worship are merely people with flaws, just like everybody else. They are just waiting for nervous guys like you to make them look like goddesses.






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Wed 02/20/13 09:25 PM
Dude.
It's the 'Desperation' thang. Your profile reeks of it.

(Sorry - my initial comment up there was completely sarcastic)

Truth is, females can smell desperation from a mile away.
Yes, even through a computer screen.
Furthermore, you're assuming that most women are into tall, young guys w/tattoos and piercings.
Aint no woman is going to be fully impressed with you throwing out your name and stats like that.
...Unless you're merely wanting to score bucket-loads of fresh young meat.
If you want to snag someone 'real' then pause for a minute and look at what you're doing wrong.

The best advice anybody can give you is an honest one.
drinker

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Wed 02/20/13 08:51 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Wed 02/20/13 08:52 PM
Tiny homes require less upkeep and are quite desirable for those who want to live the simple life. Not a bad a idea.

No need to impress anybody with a big house, and like TexasScoundrel said, if the woman can't handle it, she knows where that door is. Lol.

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Wed 02/20/13 12:12 PM

This question is nagging at me, so I thought I'd ask you experts. Is it possible to genuinely fall in love with someone you've only gotten to know on a site like mingle? It used to seem very strange to me...but then I recall a simpler time when people didn't have all this instant communication and had to get to know each other by snail mail letters. The emotions were just as real by letter if not moreso than in person.

So, are these warm and fuzzy feelings caused by digital words and images real emotions or just the illusion of emotion? If it is genuine, is that a good thing?what



Well, since ya asked...
Sure, I think there's something to say about those warm, fuzzy feelings created by words on a keyboard. I personally think they last as long those words keep comin'...Haha.

Most people I've met in person - that I've gotten to know via the web - turn out to be much duller in person. Some people have a way of making themselves out to be much more interesting than they really are. Aint that a surprise.

Opinion stated: most of it is an illusion. Good for the .01% that has found it to be otherwise.





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Wed 02/20/13 12:04 PM
The one that can withstand the most imagination.



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Wed 02/20/13 12:02 PM
Don't think of it as a 'date.'

That way, there's no pressure to impress anyone.
Getting back in the game can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn't have to be flowerforyou

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Wed 02/20/13 11:58 AM
Marriage is not for everybody.
...So don't get married.

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Tue 02/19/13 05:07 PM
Some dayz I prefer rolling with the rolls, other days I like to playing with twigs.
My mood varies :tongue:

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Tue 02/19/13 01:30 PM
Yep. You're doomed.
It's time to give up.
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Tue 02/19/13 01:13 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Tue 02/19/13 01:14 PM
Fairytales don't exist, but some like to think they do.
Live life for you. Either alone or with another. Doesn't really matter.


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Tue 02/19/13 01:11 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Tue 02/19/13 01:11 PM

Are you going to waste your whole life chasing a girl who doesn't want you back?



True that. You're too young to be wasting your life chasing one chick.
Lots to learn my Dear. Move on.


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Tue 02/19/13 12:55 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Tue 02/19/13 12:56 PM
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Tue 02/19/13 12:54 PM
How much you going to pay me? Huh. Huh.


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