Which 1 is better way to live life????

The best life is having 14 different women coming in and taking care of you, the house and pay the bills.

Sometimes, they show up singly and other times in groups. They are all willing to pleasure.

Then, they go home.

Depends on the couple. I believe the relationship has to be serious and looking toward a future and not just a fling.

You're correct it depends on the couple. I for one believe in marriage. My parents would've been married for about 42 years if my dad was alive. So different folks, different strokes. For me I prefer the constitution of marriage.

I agree with the others it all depends on the couple. As long as its a loving committed trusting relationship. I for one would love to marry again. This time for keeps. I believe I was too young and immature before. But we all learn from our mistakes.
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In today's modern culture I think getting married is a bad deal all around, but for men especially (or whichever partner has the greater assets). At the very least, get a pre-nup.

I think moving in together is almost as bad a deal unless certain precautions are taken. I'd suggest having three bank accounts. One is mine, one is her's and one we share and use to pay rent and utilities. In this third account each partner should contribute equal percentages of their incomes. That way whichever partner has the higher income pays the biggest part of the bills. We'd also sign a new lease with each partner being equally responsible for payment of it and we'd have to agree that we'd be in it until the lease is up no matter how our relationship goes. That means if one decides they want to seek greener pastures, they're still responsible for half the rent and other bills. Each person should have and maintain their own car as well. We'd also agree that we're NOT getting married. All this must be worked out in a co-habitation agreement before anything happened. So, we'd also each need our own lawyer.

This way I can buy whatever my heart desires or save as much as I want and she can do the same. I think this is a fair deal for everyone involved because relationships like we're talking about aren't supposed to be about money.

I think the best option is for me to live in my place and her to live in her's and we get together when we want to and do the things we both enjoy.

Many younger folks take full advantage of not getting married.

They can live together. He/she can have a good job and the one with the kids can get food stamps and Medicaid for the kids.

The one with the kids can work a short time and get thousands of unearned tax payer dollars.

Brand new cars and trucks every year. No child support cuz, the Mama told the hospital she had no idea who the kids Dad was.

Me? No, I won't get married again. We'll either live together or live in separate houses and just get together for some doggie-style and Gin Rummy a couple times a week.

Fairytales don't exist, but some like to think they do.
Live life for you. Either alone or with another. Doesn't really matter.

one way is not better than the other.. it simply depends on your preferences..

personally.. I don't need a piece of paper to assure me we're in love.. but if he really wants to.. I'd be okay with that too.. however depending on our financial situations.. I'd say a pre-nup may be necessary..

Either way its still a serious commitment. Marriage being the more legal and traditional option. With either you and your partner should have a long talk to work out all options and issues you have. If there are any underling problems not resolved before you move in togather,It will soon drive you apart.Either way, love and honesty is the answer.

People live their life the way they themself Choose too.
I do not do Livins, he would have to be my husband to live with me.

I guess everybody is going to have their own opinion... that's all good.

Marriage, imho, is a firm commitment to live the struggle that life throws our way... with a partner. Always together.

I don't see anything bad in that.

But understand that some prefer other ways...

Well thank url to share ur opinion ...I grw up in such society wr parents decide who u ill marry ... Zero percent living 2gther even its an illegal act..sicne I'm in overseas I cm 2 knw wt is dat ...nd in my statistics I dint see a happy living 2gthr couple

And this is why I think either is a bad idea. Here, in the USA, 50% of marriages end in divorce. In some places it's as much as 60%! Living together is the better of the two options in my opinion because you can avoid most of the financial problems with careful planning. But, overall, I think it's better if we just all take care of ourselves and enjoy the time we spend together, but live separately.

Here in Calgary; there isn't much difference from living together or marriage other than the piece of paper for marriage. After two years of living together; you are considered legally married by the courts; so if you split up; you go through a "divorce proceeding" to divide property and assets. So; except for a woman's name change; it's pretty much the same.

Just don't piss 'em off or they might find you a really fugly one.

U r right...:)

It depends on what one considers marriage. In America, we say a couple is married when they sign a piece of paper and have it approve by the government. Could the two living together be married by the commitment between each other even though it is not what the government say is marriage.

Being a Christian I have wanted lately to do a study of what God considers that make a couple married, not what our laws say. Just because a priest or a judge says you’re a join together, does mean God says you are.

After all, in some culture the minute the guy and girl have sex they are viewed as one, while other it is not. So yea, I want to do a study on it and see if there is anything interesting to find out.

as u wish