from someone that you meet on Mingle2. You go to a restaurant and have a great time yet your date has a booger on the tip of her nose hanging out.

What would you do?

smiles all the time yet you keep smelling a odd fume of rotten eggs while stuck in the highway with your broken down car in the middle of a severe thunderstorm.

You try to keep a normal face but the fumes are really bad. You think it is coming from your date who silently gives out gases.

What do you do from here? Keep on smelling it. Or would you say something?

Seriously.....this guy a few days ago while driving was surfin' on his new I phone and what not and I looked over occassionally to see why this guy was swervin' in and out of lanes for.......well, yup.......pervin' sites while driving and he causes an accident! Cell Phones are dangerous while driving....so please don't swerve and perv....get a designated driver!

That show Cheaters? It is on right now and....

#1...would any of you actually do this to catch someone?

#2...do you think that these people are real or staged? In a Jerry Springer kind of way

It just baffles my mind....

I think Lilith is spot one here. Maybe after having been without female companionship for so long, you now find yourself drawn to women who are OVERLY attracted to you and too easily impressed with your charm.

It is only natural to be drawn to where we know we'll receive adoration...it feels good. It's good to know that you realize that is not all you need in a relationship. There are men who jump easily at the offers you've had so far...women too.

Hold out for what you truly deserve.

Here is a thought....

All these women are the same, but yet you say they appear different. It just might be that although the outer appearances are different, there is a key element inside them that is the same. You are looking for it, or are attracted to it, or some deviant of it.... in a subconscious way.

I think it's actually pretty cool when BOTH parties feel like they want to move in together so quickly, but giving up friends and only being concerned about one parties interests is not a good sign, and moving in too fast is not a good idea. If you BOTH feel so strongly about how quickly you've bonded, it will only grow stronger if you wait a while.

My thinking is that you seem to make a rather enchanting first impression on these women...so maybe try to reign in the voodoo that you're putting on them just a tad.

Taken from: http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm

Spousal abuse and battery are used for one purpose: to gain and maintain total control over the victim. In addition to physical violence, abusers use the following tactics to exert power over their wives or partners:

Dominance — Abusive individuals need to feel in charge of the relationship. They will make decisions for you and the family, tell you what to do, and expect you to obey without question. Your abuser may treat you like a servant, child, or even as his possession.
Humiliation — An abuser will do everything he can to make you feel bad about yourself, or defective in some way. After all, if you believe you're worthless and that no one else will want you, you're less likely to leave. Insults, name-calling, shaming, and public put-downs are all weapons of abuse designed to erode your self-esteem and make you feel powerless.
Isolation — In order to increase your dependence on him, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world. He may keep you from seeing family or friends, or even prevent you from going to work or school. You may have to ask permission to do anything, go anywhere, or see anyone. Source: Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, MN
Threats — Abusers commonly use threats to keep their victims from leaving or to scare them into dropping charges. Your abuser may threaten to hurt or kill you, your children, other family members, or even pets. He may also threaten to commit suicide, file false charges against you, or report you to child services.
Intimidation — Your abuser may use a variety of intimation tactics designed to scare you into submission. Such tactics include making threatening looks or gestures, smashing things in front of you, destroying property, hurting your pets, or putting weapons on display. The clear message is that if you don't obey, there will be violent consequences.
Denial and blame — Abusers are very good at making excuses for the inexcusable. They will blame their abusive and violent behavior on a bad childhood, a bad day, and even on the victims of their abuse. Your abuser may minimize the abuse or deny that it occurred. He will commonly shift the responsibility onto you: Somehow, his violence and abuse is your fault.
Cycle of violence
Domestic abuse falls into a common pattern, or cycle of violence:

Abuse — The abuser lashes out with aggressive or violent behavior. The abuse is a power play designed to show the victim "who is boss."
Guilt — After the abusive episode, the abuser feels guilt, but not over what he's done to the victim. The guilt is over the possibility of being caught and facing consequences.
Rationalization or excuses — The abuser rationalizes what he's done. He may come up with a string of excuses or blame the victim for his own abusive behavior—anything to shift responsibility from himself.
"Normal" behavior — The abuser does everything he can to regain control and keep the victim in the relationship. He may act as if nothing has happened, or he may turn on the charm. This peaceful honeymoon phase may give the victim hope that the abuser has really changed this time.
Fantasy and planning — The abuser begins to fantasize about abusing his victim again, spending a lot of time thinking about what she's done wrong and how he'll make her pay. Then he makes a plan for turning the fantasy of abuse into reality.
Set-up — The abuser sets up the victim and puts his plan in motion, creating a situation where he can justify abusing her.