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Fri 12/07/12 10:20 AM
Welcome from across the pond.

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Fri 12/07/12 10:18 AM
I have "Jagged Little Pill" going through my head over and over.

I am wondering if my boyfriend set his alarm clock because he has to be somewhere and he is terrible about that.

And I am wondering if my one friend wants to do something today but he is not up yet (he shuts his phone off when he is sleeping).

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Fri 12/07/12 10:17 AM


is this a concern about public opinion on actions after already committing the deed? or is this query about looking for permissions on a future act?? if it's the latter.. let your conscience be your guide..

but if you've already slept with him.. what's the point? what's done is done so.. as they say.. you'll have to live with the consequences of your own actions..

if it were my husband/partner? (although currently don't HAVE any) you could have him.. cuz I'd say good bye and good luck to the both of you! however.. I would consider the perpetrator a person of either low self esteem that can't find any single mates, so have to lure someone else's astray.. or one that cannot commit to a 'normal' relationship so finds solace in tempting others into a fling..

only of course, after the initial hurt and calling both every 'derogatory' word in the dictionary! :wink: laugh


the only reason i posted this was because i talked about it elsewhere and was slammed with whore, slut, hoe, etc.
apparently most people think i'm a bad person if i knowingly sleep with someone who's married.
some people even stopped talking to me!



People are weird. I had people who wanted me to get back with my ex husband stop talking to me. Likely magically, they could will our marriage that was horrible to stay together.

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Fri 12/07/12 10:00 AM
San Luis Opispo, CA (sp)

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Fri 12/07/12 09:57 AM
You guys may be thinking I am a big old 'ho but I had a live in boyfriend DURING my divorce. I did not cheat on my husband while we were under the same roof but my divorce was final in Sept. and I moved in my boyfriend just before then.

I know all you who know me well are going "Well, that's Terri". You are not shocked.

Oh and earlier this year, I did date a guy going through a divorce.

I am not saying it's ideal. I am just saying I would be the pot calling the kettle black to judge.

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Fri 12/07/12 09:53 AM

Happy Birthday! I'm 42 also.


We're so cool, Matt.

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Fri 12/07/12 09:51 AM
Since you are looking for dates, I think you need more pics. That main pic is grainy. I would leave out the part of wanting anything from an intimate encounter to a relationship. I would mark the "dating" box. I think most guys would not mind an intimate encounter and if the girl was perfect, a relationship.

I would list the games you like to play. Being a nerd girl myself, I would be interested in them.

I would say what type of movies you like. Both the genre and list titles. What your all time favorites are.

Also I would not say the you only date white girls thing or thin girls. Let them come to you and then weed them out. And also white means different things to different people. I mean I consider Hispanic white.

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Fri 12/07/12 09:44 AM
Hi Everyone,

Since I read Hitchhiker's at 15, I couldn't wait to turn 42. It's the coolest age ever.

Terri

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Fri 12/07/12 09:42 AM
I am posting this under parents because I want parents' advice.

My best friend's sister got knocked up (I say knocked up and not pregnant because she was doing drugs and it was not on purpose and she was just barely out of high school, etc.) That was 7 years ago.

She is pregnant AGAIN. Different guy. Again not on purpose. Living with her mom and collecting from the gov't. Still getting stoned, etc.

My best friend is just thrilled beyond belief she is going to be an aunt again.

The first baby, I sent money and gifts. Am I obligated to do that again? What do I say? Is there some nice thing I could say?

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Fri 12/07/12 09:38 AM

every one of your posts seems to mention a boyfriend of sorts.
why start worrying now?


He he he he he. I know I am awful. This boyfriend has actually lasted two months. That's a record of sorts.

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Fri 12/07/12 09:35 AM
Edited by teadipper on Fri 12/07/12 09:37 AM
If you hurt an animal, a child, the elderly, the handicapped or the weaker than you, I turn into a rabid Doberman. I get really really mad. I am an NRA and PETA member. I say I need the guns to protect the animals. You should have seen how mean I got when a guy I knew hit my dog.

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Fri 12/07/12 09:32 AM
To stay on Mingle after you have met someone? I am just wanting to talk to friends. Not find a boyfriend. I am very happy with my boyfriend. But I missed everybody I here. I have been on here a year and have my own little Mingle family.

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Sun 11/25/12 07:32 PM
My health

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Mon 11/19/12 09:26 PM
Yes, song lyrics run through my head.

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Mon 11/19/12 09:25 PM
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag
Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again?
Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin
Like a house of cards, one blow from caving in?

Do you ever feel already buried deep?
Six feet under screams but no one seems to hear a thing
Do you know that there's still a chance for you
'Cause there's a spark in you?

You just gotta ignite the light and let it shine
Just own the night like the 4th of July

'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on, show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go, oh
As you shoot across the sky

Baby, you're a firework
Come on, let your colors burst
Make 'em go, oh
You're gonna leave 'em falling down

You don't have to feel like a waste of space
You're original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow

Maybe you're reason why all the doors are closed
[ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/k/katy-perry-lyrics/firework-lyrics.html]
So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road
Like a lightning bolt, your heart will blow
And when it's time, you'll know

You just gotta ignite the light and let it shine
Just own the night like the 4th of July

'Cause baby you're a firework
Come on, show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go, oh
As you shoot across the sky

Baby, you're a firework
Come on, let your colors burst
Make 'em go, oh
You're gonna leave 'em falling down

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It's always been inside of you, you, you
And now it's time to let it through

'Cause baby you're a firework
Come on, show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go, oh
As you shoot across the sky

Baby, you're a firework
Come on, let your colors burst
Make 'em go, oh
You're gonna leave 'em falling down

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon


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Mon 11/19/12 09:20 PM
Honesty and integrity and loyalty and faithfulness. I personally am a fan of long hair in a ponytail and a good amount of facial hair.

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Mon 11/19/12 06:05 PM
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Mon 11/19/12 05:45 PM
No. No, it is not normal.

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Mon 11/19/12 05:43 PM
I always say single dads who are good dads and don't run from commitment are sexy. No, my BF does not have kids. LOL.

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Mon 11/19/12 05:28 PM
Some guys are men at 19. Some guys are BOYS at 54. Maturity level is all relative.

I am with Ruth. Chalk it up to lessons learned and move on.
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As for sleeping with him on the 5th date, I am not going to bad mouth you for that. A lot of people have slept with people on the first date. They are just not saying anything.

If he is not responding to your texts and calls, I agree. Don't text and call him. He has obviously moved on to whatever.

You seem like a decent person. There is somebody out there for you