It all depends on what the person in the relationship wants. If you want pure one on one in person sex sex sex, no long distance will not work for you. If you are looking for a soul mate/companion/ lover, you MAY be able to make that work.
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Topic:
blabbering in a relationship
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Why do some women give us hardtime with unnecessary talk about everything? Have you considered that she might be nervous? I know guys and girls that do that on dates? It's actually got a name. It's called "pressured speech". Seriously. The person has so much anxiety in the quiet moments they just keep talking to avoid awkward silences. |
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Topic:
blabbering in a relationship
Edited by
teadipper
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Sun 03/03/13 03:59 PM
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Topic:
blabbering in a relationship
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Just say, "If I am going to be your therapist, I get paid $100 per hour CASH up front".
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Geez. I can't believe this entry is still here. I decided it was bad advice long ago. The beauty of Mingle is they do take care of scammers that are reported.
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 22
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Uno
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Don't forget to buy "The Writer's Market 2013" so you know who to submit to and how.
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Topic:
At what age......
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Yeah, right now. Alas all the cute ones are far away and not interested in me. |
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Topic:
"she"
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You can't love me
I don't even know who I am You can't commit to me even though you think you can I am fragments of the person that I used to be Trying to grab hold of me is like trying to grab all the leaves at once on a tree You might like the smile or the laugh But you will see a trail of broken hearts because I did not honor myself if you do the math So for now, it's better if you leave me be Because out there somewhere is your perfect “she” |
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Topic:
Your Nightmare
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I screwed him up for
the rest of you I was that crazy biotch. I told him to go F himself when he said he loved me and he wanted to get hitched. I told him that I loved him just to shut him up even though I knew full well I was making it up. It's because of me he fears commitment. It's because of me it means nothing when he hears the words “I” “Love” and “You” I took his heart and chewed it up like gum and I can't get rid of him because part of him is permanently stuck to my shoe. |
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Topic:
Untitled
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I've made so many choices
Who to keep Who to scare away Stumble through the sea of the internet hurtles making me stumble along the way Was it them that failed? I cannot say But surely part of the blame falls on me For not waiting it out for the right man to be there when I was also the best that I could be |
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Topic:
At what age......
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Do guys mellow out and want to settle down? I know it is different for everyone. I get hit on by a lot of 50+ men which I do not mind. They are done with kids and unto grandkids. I bypassed the kid thing and am enjoying other people's children. I know some younger guys want to settle down desperately and most want children. I don't want children. I just wondered if you guys out there had an age where you decided you were content with life.
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Topic:
how to get rid of users
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I have been working on looking out for number one lately.
I had a guy want to meet me who is 89 miles away. He said that was not so far away. I said I was not willing to drive it. End of conversation. I had a guy say he would give his last dime to help a friend. I said I did not loan or give anything I could not afford to lose. End of that conversation. I put most of my money into living in a good part of town and driving a decent dependable car. Guys assume that I have money when in actuality I am eating mashed potatoes from the box to have the apartment and car. |
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Super Chicken
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Topic:
Best way to get a girlfriend
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Depends what you mean by girlfriend. The companion/lover/soul mate combo is hard to come by. The sleeps with you at expects money but won't outright admit she is is your own personal hooker is harder to find.
Pursue any of your hobbies that involve going out and being around people. If you are a computer nerd, join a user's group or go to a convention. The ratio of women is smaller but they exist. Go to Comi-con if you are a guy into comic books. Again, smaller ratio but you would have something in common. Like amusement parks, go to Six Flags. Tons of single women. I meet my ex husband who I was with 20 years at a BBS meet up (pre everyone having the WWW) |
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Topic:
Cheers
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I'd be more suspicious if they typed Night Court. brat |
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Does getting married qualify as a romantic thing? I think it does. The only man I truly loved I married. I have not remarried since and haven't met anyone I would do it for again. |
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Topic:
Cheers
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Has anyone noticed that the newer scammers sign everything "Cheers". I guess they learned British English somewhere or something but if someone signs something Cheers, it's a good indicator to walk the other direction. Damn; sometimes I sign my emails cheers. Will people think I am a scammer? You don't use broken English and say you are traveling abroad AND say cheers! |
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Topic:
Why we need kids.
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I am waiting for Hippie to become a Grandfather so I can hear all about it. I choose a husband who did not want kids and then right after the divorce had to have a hysterectomy. I do not want to adopt so I am living for everybody else to have grandkids.
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Topic:
I'm back
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Did you even notice I left?? LOL.
TL |
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