You are very deep and talented.

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I am divorced with no kids ever. I get "WHY DID HE DIVORCE YOU?? IT'S NOT TO LATE FOR YOU TO HAVE KIDS"!!!

When they find out I divorced him, it's like "OH THE HORROR"!!!

And that I physically can't have kids, "Oh shame of you for not having them when you could. Your mother must be so disappointed that she didn't get grandchildren from you".

My ex is happily off with his girlfriend.

My mother after going through heck with my sister and nephew is grateful as anything not to have more.

My current boyfriend loves that I have no kids because his are grown and he does not want to deal with rug rats.

Any guy who thinks dinner=sex is on my s*** list. Sorry.

If you want sex for $20-$50, go down to the Avenue and pick up some skanky hooker and make a deal.

I am no prude but I can't stand that. If I am getting those vibes from a guy, I PAY to be sure he understands that he is NOT getting anything.

One of my good friends started out as a blind date. We never slept together but while we were dating, he took me out to fine restaurants, bought me a new vacuum cleaner, etc. and never even tried to get sex out of me.

Definition of PRUDE
: a person who is excessively or priggishly attentive to propriety or decorum; especially : a woman who shows or affects extreme modesty


Not all virgins are prude and not all prude people are virgins.

Always keep condoms in your bedroom including a box of Magnums just in case.

Whores get paid. LOL.

I think there has to be a middle ground. Everyone has sexual boundaries. Some people's list is longer than others. It all comes down to respect and getting what you want. You reap what you sow. No matter how long you have been dating the guy, if he loves you, respects you (that includes your body) and cares about you, you can have sex early on or later. If a guy doesn't care about you, it could be months into the relationship.

BTW, we should differentiate between being made love to and being banged. There is a huge difference.

A guy who loves you is going to make sure he makes you feel good.

A guy who just wants to bang you is not going to care if you enjoy it.

OH ROBERTA!! CONGRATS ON TURN THE BIG THREE O. I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ARE 30 ALREADY. MAN, YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE AN OLD LADY BECAUSE I WILL BE 42 ON DECEMBER 5TH. Maybe in another few years, they will stop carding you at bars because you look too young to drink.

LOVE YOU LOADS AND LOADS,

Terri Lyn

Sorry went to fix a typo and I quoted instead of edited.

It depends on your goal.

Why are some people acting like women just never want to hook up?

And that women never have friends with bennies?

It's almost like there is a belief that women don't enjoy sex as much as men. Which if you believe that, you are having sex with the wrong men.

I am not some big schlore but women like sex to.

Some guys respect a woman on the first date because of how she carries herself.

I mean I have a friend who if I wanted to get some at any time I could.

Sometimes friends with bennies is a good thing. Let's say you are single and rather get into a relationship with the wrong person just because you want sex, you go to your friend with bennies.

I currently am seeing someone so out of respect for him, I do not talk to those sorts of people in my life but when I was single and horny, oh hell ya. Just bring the comdoms.

A friend of my hair dresser's daughter was driving herself home from getting her tongue pierced and went into aliphatic shock. Her tongue swelled cutting off her air. She totaled her car and ram another car. She almost died.

And guys so totally will be picturing their winkie in her mouth.

AND it does totally chip your teeth and change your speech.

You guys know I just broke up with the guy who cried. Well, the very next day, I run into a local guy who is my dream boat and who loves all my weird quirks and eccentricities. What the heck do I do? I mean you all know I am a serial monogamist. But this is crazy even for me.

I have a sign in my bedroom

"When I get the urge to clean house, I lay down until it passes"!

I went on one date with a dude (not from Mingle) and I never want to see him again. He is just NOT getting it. I have told him thirty ways until Sunday that I do NOT want to date him. He keeps texting me. My last text to him was "I do not want to date you." He is still texting. How the heck do I make it more clear???

You all know my weird thing. GOOD DADDIES ARE SEXY. Good Daddy crying over his daughter in a tender moment, EXTRA SEXY.

I have had two dudes (big tough dudes) cry when we broke up. Both times, I just sat there not knowing what to do. I mean we were breaking up so I didn't think it was right to hug them. I didn't feel horrible. I just felt awkward. I just didn't know what my reaction should be.

What should I have done? Guys, do you feel awkward when some chick bursts into tears?

TL

He said "I just feel like we don't make each other happy anymore". I said that I thought we should break up and I had been wanting to for awhile but it was never the right time. I mean he was obviously going there but I jumped in right away. So I am not sure if that counts as him, me or mutual.

My boyfriend and I broke up last night. He was crying. I have not shed a tear. I feel numb to the whole thing and actually a little relieved. I also feel a little guilty that I do not miss him or feel bad.

Hi Everyone,

I know I drive everyone nuts talking about my guy friend friends. Well, one of them crossed over that line and I know have an official boyfriend. I listen to all your advice about not talking about exs and such as he is a guy's guy and the commands a certain amount of respect. He treats me really well. He knows about my bipolar. He is good with me.

So my friend friends, please continue to write. Otherwise, I am off the market.

Love,

TL

My boyfriend and I just went up to the central coast. We stayed in Lompoc. We visited places in SLO and Santa Barbara.