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Sat 08/06/11 10:16 AM
Iwant a husband that can love me forever and always.

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Sat 08/06/11 10:03 AM





I don't see her as being obsessed, she's straight up about who she is and what she wants, just like you are being. If more people were this way it would make life a lot more pleasant.


one person's obsession is another's trivial pursuit

to advertise in a public forum to the extent that she has not only lacks taste and discretion, it IS obssesive-like in my book


im noht obsesd. Iköwhat iwant and im going for it.and besides this is a dating site where you can date people,where u can find what your looking for in a partner. Im being straight forward honest not playin games and wastn peopls time.some people only want casual sex,some want permanent relations and other want penpals. This is a dating site of course i should be clear what iwant.idont want casual sex with strangrs.iwant a husband a lifetime partner with children.and im not a lesbian and i have nothing againsthe gorgeous woman who are. Im simply stating whatim doing is right.im being clear of what iwant and not hurting any1inthd process.

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Sat 08/06/11 06:30 AM



I've already had one - long time

not the best expereince

except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time

so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP

doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another

but I am open to other types of commitments


I don't see her as being obsessed, she's straight up about who she is and what she wants, just like you are being. If more people were this way it would make life a lot more pleasant.


one person's obsession is another's trivial pursuit

to advertise in a public forum to the extent that she has not only lacks taste and discretion, it IS obssesive-like in my book

I wish to discuss it no further as this my opinion that shall not change, thank you

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Fri 08/05/11 02:36 PM


I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years.


Most of what I've seen you post here is about wanting a husband. Why not try to get to know people first, then see what happens?
yes.thats the plan to meet people and geto know them. However i prefer spending my time to meet men that are interestd in mariage and children. Idont wanto date guys that only want a one night fling and somen are athe stage where there not ready for mariage and chldrn.idont want a guy who likes the idea of oneday getting married and having a lifetime partner to love and support him. And some guys my age simply dont want more kids. Im being who i am straightforward and honest only wanting to atrackthose whom have the same goals that ido,and one ofthem is mariage and have kids ofmy own with a loving supportive husband.

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Fri 08/05/11 12:20 PM


really ,is this true, is this a joke, na this isn't craigslist scam ,or is it, the jury still out on this one.
its not ajoke. Im serious im 39 never been maried and have no children. Im looking for a lifetime partner that would consider having kids with me. I have lots of loveto give and am seeking unconditionalove.iwill support my partner and never betray him.

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Fri 08/05/11 11:55 AM
Edited by Niceladyrealy on Fri 08/05/11 12:36 PM
Its not a scam and not a joke. Im realy lookingfor a husband,since ive never been maried. Since this is a single date site i find it suitable to place my add here. Im only interested in dating guys that are willing to settl down get maried and raise a familie.im not planing to mary just any guy imeet,i will obviously spend some time withim firsto c if we are compatble for marriage.there are certain things i would want in a husband confidencemotiol maturity,mental stability,consistancy,compation,support,unconditlove.. If im lucky iwillbemaried2 mr wonderfull next year.

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Fri 08/05/11 11:29 AM

Is it unwise to change someone? Maybe someone close to you and unhappy or in any condition ,let must me know your view
it sounds like you expect a partner to make many compromises for you,doing things they dont wanto do but doing them because you askd nicely. That is not changing sm1 and at sometime they wil get frustratd not being alowd2be themselvs ina relationshp. Accept peopl and love then04who they are. You cannot change them.

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Thu 08/04/11 02:21 PM


God is not the boss of me because I have free will.

Any religious leader who tries to tell you how you should live your life is not the boss of you either.

Free will is free will. There are not strings attached.


uhm, god isthe bos of you,and me, if we dont do what god says and preserv this btfl planethere wil be nothing left but free wil and peopl starving. Gods my bos and itry to suport others and preserve the planet how i can, i rescue animals and sometims even insects and im stil trying to plant food and promote world peace.

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Thu 08/04/11 01:52 PM

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yes i think minglershould be greatful thathey can use thisite4free and stop complaining of advertisements that are needed for funding to maintain the site.

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Thu 08/04/11 11:58 AM


Most of what I've seen you post here is about
wanting a husband. Why not try to get to
know people first, then see what happens?

This is good advice.
You are making me all sorts of nervous, the
way you are selling it so hard.
This is liable to attract the very desperate.
Please be careful.
thankyou4your concern,iwill be carefull. However i advertise what i want and i hope thathe guy interested in mariage and children with me wil c my ad and contact me and then we spend some time2gether to see if we are compatible for mariage and if not we part good friends. Im an emotioly mature woman and can surely make a mariage work when i find mr right.

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Thu 08/04/11 11:50 AM


I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years.


Most of what I've seen you post here is about wanting a husband. Why not try to get to know people first, then see what happens?i will rather spend time to geto know those that are interested in mariage and having kids. We all want differenthings in life and some have the same goals. Apreciate your commenthankyou.

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Thu 08/04/11 11:10 AM
Distance cannot destroy reallove.

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Wed 08/03/11 02:16 PM
Im trying to find my husband,maybe u can helpme find him. Hes highly intelegent,kind,caring,compasionate supportive loving and nice.hes a strong confident man with a good heart and emotialy mature and very loyal2his wife.

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Wed 08/03/11 11:50 AM
I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years.

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Wed 08/03/11 11:39 AM
Hm in 1990i attended my first computer course. I had to insert the system disk that loaded ms dos into memory.

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Wed 08/03/11 10:54 AM
A niceguy will never be rude to you,in action or words.he will support your goals,and try his besto understand you,and make you happy. Im looking for a nice guy.

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Tue 08/02/11 12:07 PM
Happy Birthday.

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Fri 07/29/11 08:11 PM
Edited by Niceladyrealy on Fri 07/29/11 08:14 PM


1990..
wow thats a long time ago, i was 22 hmmm married pregnant with my second munchkin, living in the bush, with no worries.. Life was a little fairy tail.flowerforyou


awwww I love fairy tales happy . I was between babies and in the hospital with a tubal pregnancy sad .
what is a tubal pregnancy?

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Thu 07/28/11 03:04 PM
Ok, i understand that many of you don't like it if some one says there atractive,you define ito be arogance,what if there just honest teling u some1did find them atractive. I wont date some1 if they telme their unatractive it means there insecure and cant acept themselvs and those peopl are high maintanance. My boyfriend told me his handsome ifind his confidence sweet. If sum1 ask me iwud tel them that i am btfl, and so are you. God made every1 unique special and beautiful,ifind all good peopl btfl. Even spiders and insects are btfl. Am i arogant?no.

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Thu 07/28/11 03:03 PM
Ok, i understand that many of you don't like it if some one says there atractive,you define ito be arogance,what if there just honest teling u some1did find them atractive. I wont date some1 if they telme their unatractive it means there insecure and cant acept themselvs and those peopl are high maintanance. My boyfriend told me his handsome ifind his confidence sweet. If sum1 ask me iwud tel them that i am btfl, and so are you. God made every1 unique special and beautiful,ifind all good peopl btfl. Even spiders and insects are btfl. Am i arogant?no.

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