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Thu 08/25/11 11:35 AM

To actually fall in love?


This question is mainly posed at the old timers here. Though, anyone is free to answer.

Can you let go of your fear and just love like what you want to recieve?

Can you put aside the heart ache of failed attempts?

Do you got the balls to stand up to the plate again and risk striking out when you want a Homerun?

It took me three years before I had the courage to just say "Screw it! Let's fall in love"

I am so grateful that I took the chance and despite odds or distance, I found what everyone here is searching for.....love.

Do you really plan on saying "F**kit...I do love you"?

If not, no biggie cause I know that some of my very best friends are here.... But ask yourself this simple question....DO YOU WANT TO FALL IN LOVE? I am talking about the patience, work, compromise, empathy. Cause I know alot of people here can't see past thier past or thier ideals. I used to be one of them.

Just curious....

Will you honestly give love a fighting shot or do you resist it. (I know the answer before I ask the question so, if I have talked to you for a while now...you better be honest or I will call you out)

Do you have the guts?

Step up...or step away.


krupa, is right. A relationship is like participating in the olympics..you have to go all the way and give it everything you got,or you wont win, and chances are even if you did put in all the èffort you might still not win, and you wont know if you can win unles you risk it all. A loving relationship is wonderfull i think its worthe risk. Mingle is everybodys comfort zone you can get involvd online withoutaking any risks.and yet you might meet some1here thats wortheffort.no onever succeded by doing something halfway. Like krup a said u have to letgo ofthe past and be ready for something new and wonderfull. Your new love is not your ex. Doubt can destroy a potential good relationship. Take a chance and trust some1 again and love with all you heart. You will feel great when you do.and when or if you fall of your bicycle dust yourself of, give the wound time2heal. And get on it again and enjoyour life. Fear is what keep you misrbl, move beyond itowards happynice posting krup a, thanks.

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Sun 08/21/11 04:16 PM

Yay for me.....

I would like to thank the academy and my esteemed peers for this wonderful award. (crying and doing the Miss America wave)...I am so honored. Now, where the hell is my trophy?

:)


we apologize due to limited funds, trophies cant be awarded this year, the budjet will be reviewd next year.however youreward right now is that you arecognized as a valuable contributer inthe mingle forums.knowing that you are influencing some one elses life should be rewarding enoughowever if you only want a trophy keep on hoping maybe we will have onext year.

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Sun 08/21/11 01:49 PM
Oh,sory, i thought i can order icecream here, athe dear diary. Ilove icecream, it is a diary product?

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Sun 08/21/11 01:02 PM

Well I feel like crap now!

(actually, I don't)

Sigh, sniffle.....snot bubble.....poot.
aw i cant stand litl boys or big once cryin cause they are unhappy.now i have to give krupa an award to, ive seen his name more than once inthe forums this month,hes right he should have one 2.

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Sun 08/21/11 12:56 PM

next month? i can't wait that long. how about a flavor of the week or even a daily drawing. something, anything, please don't make me wait frustrated
hm on special request there are today an award for esenbul too!i noticed he has provided support in the forums,he just posted a nice one today and yes hes right he deserves one 2.

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Sun 08/21/11 12:46 PM
Hm maybe trying to stay friends with your ex could complicate a new relationship. Dont think your new girl is going to like it if you tell her"i am still at my ex gf home, see you later."

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Sat 08/20/11 04:22 PM
Congratulations, this months nicelady award goes to,mg1959,for being the most supportive man inthe forums. Rainbow trout for hes generousity of contributing all0the valuable computer information. And oldhippie for being so kind and contribute to forum and jokes. You guys are great thank you for the help. Wish you well. Watch thispace next month for morewards.

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Sat 08/20/11 04:04 PM



He can flip pancakes in the air. He'll be marvelously kind. And his favorite shape will be a star. And he'll have one green eye and one blue.



Practicle Magic ( 1 of my Fav's) That would be a dream come true! love


Mine too. love
yes, i also dreamd up my dream guy, he must have 2 blueyes and an iq of more than 150,taller than me,very attractive and can and will do anything to keep me happy. He will be faithful andevoted to me and we will stay maried hapily ever after. I realize my dreamguy dont exist, so now i just have basic requirments. He must be a lawful citizen and capable of loving someone.

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Sat 08/20/11 03:51 PM


When I get emails from new guys, the emails tend to be full of the same questions.

"Why are you single?"
"How long have you been here?"
"How long have you been single?"

Those are just a few of the questions that are asked by most. I'm sure I'm not the only one who gets them either.

Do you ask these types of questions when you email new people?

What other questions do you see over and over?


No I never ask these questions. I usually comment or ask about something in their profile, if they wrote one.

I stopped getting emails once I put ESRD in my profile.
why cant every1be so considerate. First read the profile and then ask questions. I dont mind conversing with good people,please dont make me repeat everything.

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Sat 08/20/11 12:51 PM

Hello,
iam looking for a serious travelling partner male or female. i want to see and know more about the world and the differnt cultures. my plan is to travel some days or years all about the world with my expedition car. iam looking for some you have a lot of free time or can make a break in job. iam 31 years old and live at time in germany. i have a lot of travelling expirience. if you are serious interrested about a long trip around the world send me a message. money is not consideration! money for shipping or fly tickets is availible. about this trip i want to make a proffesionell video and foto report from differnt places and people. it is very hard to find a travelling partner for a long time, the most people had no time for this, but i hope that i can find someone here on this international internetsite.

i waiting for answers.

greetings TOM
hm yes. Perfect oprtunity for me2travel aroumd the world. And perhabs in one ofthe countries i will find my husband

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Fri 08/19/11 02:53 PM
Hm im also wondering how you can clean a lcd notebook screen when you dont have the screen cleaner available thathey manufacture and sell in most computer shops? I supose u cant use a wet cloth or any household cleaning products on lcd screen.

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Fri 08/19/11 12:51 PM
Unavailability.

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Fri 08/19/11 12:46 PM

got called crass all because I do not tell my profression.


Does that truly make one crass?
people on mingl wanto make friends with likeminded people.for exampl im a software trainer and mingl with it peopl and trainrs and sometime other profesions are also of interest. Itels you who people are.your job says alot about you,why hide who you are?what do you hav2hide?peopl who do illegal activities would also hide their profesion. I ask about peopls jobs cuz im curious2know them betr. Why do uwish2bemyfriend and hide your profesion frohme?

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Fri 08/19/11 12:36 PM

You know how relationships can be great at first during the first three months but then they start going downhill?

People take each other for granted, start trying to change the other person to suit them better.. start getting bossy, critical and possessive..

After the honeymoon is over... in a relationship if you don't really like each other on a deeper level it is probably the best thing to split up.

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Some people will just get bored with the other person or lose interest.

If you really don't want to get married or get into a LTR why not set ground rules and even a time limit for exclusivity. (going steady)

Rather than a few one night stands, how about dating for one to three months and then agree to end it? Enjoy the good times, create great memories, then go your separate ways.

I wonder if anyone would be up for something like that?


great idea.spending 3months with some one is more than enough time to know if you can be happily maried.

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Fri 08/19/11 12:30 PM
What cause divorce is emotioly imature selfish people that have a problem comunicating efectvly witheir partner.

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Wed 08/17/11 01:53 PM

My first impression was "she is a scammer wanting some poor smuck to send money to move her to the usa " i have seen that so many times its not even funny ....However marriage does not mean the same thing to every one thats clear ......I would give any thing to have a wife but not a woman that has been married before if they broke the first agreement bet there not going to keep the second besides i dont think god will bless many second marriages .But i wish you the very best you are not ulgy so long as your pretty on the inside you will have no problems
hm maybe your just implyhing thatim a scamr,so you can hav me all2yourself,so no one would mesg me! I have never been maried and believe that marriage is staying together forever,thus i would carefuly selecthe one i believe to be able to spend a lifetime with. I do not want a divorce.marriage isuposed to be a lifelong promise of love and support.

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Tue 08/16/11 04:22 PM
Hm idont knowhy some people wish to say itscamers the moment you mention marriage. Perhabscams do exist. However i am realya single woman in search of a lifepartner to have children with.and yes idid mention mariage fromthe start,cuz i want gyus who dont want mariage to go havun somewherelse. I figure we have 4groups of people on mingle, thosearcing for mariage partners(these people can chose a suitabl partnr and remain faithful4life),those looking for dates to havun(some people enjoy fun and variety and canever setl with one woman),and those who want penpals and chat online.(wanting socializing without emotiol atachment)and then we have the group who r not realy sure what they want. So i figured it betr 2be forwred noto waste any1stime andtelyou what iwant...a guy that is looking for a lifetime partner. And to answer another question, i am looking at americans cuz they have the nicest guys there and their country isimilar to mine,iwould consider europe too,wherever mr wonderfull is hiding,thats where im going. I prfr to stay in a country where it is feasbl and save2live and raise children ivenevr been ovr c and thus am ignorant regarding choosing the right place 2raise kids.

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Tue 08/16/11 03:35 PM
I refuse to lower my standards.maybe thats why im still single.iwill waitill i find an honest sincere intlgnt compasionate faithfull partner.

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Tue 08/16/11 03:31 PM








I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


Are there actual reasons to go to texas?! :tongue:


:banana:

i am not recomending to date south african men the ones ive dated were selfish abusive and completely useless. Allthey cando well is drink and treat woman like slaves. This why i seektodate foreigners, i findthem to treat woman with love and respect. Infact now i only date foreigners,however not easy2findthem inmy country,mingle makes it easier.the few good men in sa,is hapily maried,the rest is realy noht worthe trouble,they wilie cheat and make you clean there home dothewashing andthe dishes washthe dog,feed itake it4walks.make bfast lunch andinr, givamoney to go oùtdrinking and flirt with othr woman. Ando allthere admin work andönt forgeto mowthe lawn. And when you gethem to agree todosomething you want,they would fall asleep and miss the apointment and they will nevr hav akind word 4you even ifyourthenicest lady inthe world. Thats my experience of south african men. I havent dated one in 12yrs and inevr wil again.give me rather aforeignr anytime,please.

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Tue 08/16/11 02:56 PM


Yeah, but you could change that around a bit for her. :wink:
I think I'm too old for her :tongue:

i like older men. I like a man ofew words! All he have to say is"yes darling" thats enough words to keep me happy.or he could say a few more words and say "i will do anything for you" a man ofewords might be happier inmarriage than amaöfalotofwords,consider he use thoughtfull words.however if my husband2be hasomething significanto say, iwont mind if he speaks more than a few wordso long he use words that i would enjoy.usualy its better4men2speak less,then there is less times theyd say the wrong things. Manofewords ismart. Imgirlofewletrs.

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