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Tue 10/23/07 10:29 AM
Yes, it is amazing that people still end up hooking up after the poor odds. I think the problem is as we get older we get wiser. I would think the 20 year olds have it easier than the 50 year olds.

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Tue 10/23/07 10:22 AM
Winnie, you win the prize if you can tell me to un-suppress a suppressed person. :tongue:

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Tue 10/23/07 10:19 AM
When you start crunching the numbers it gets scary. Let's see we might match with 1 out of 100 people we meet. Then once we finally meet that special person, we hope things work out. Then another statistic I read said that 96 percent of the time the women will initiate the break up. I guess it is better not to even think about this stuff and just try to have fun.

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Tue 10/23/07 10:12 AM
I think Winnie hit the nail on the head. She has always guarded her heart.

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Mon 10/22/07 05:07 PM
I think it varies by individual. But, I think overall men want a woman that is easy to get along with. A person who is not difficult and doesn't nag or put them down. Not too moody. I better stop at this point or I am sure to get into trouble. laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 10/22/07 05:01 PM
I don't understand the cheating thing. People should be honest and just move on rather than cheat.

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Mon 10/22/07 04:51 PM
There are good reasons for breaking up. Abuse, drug use, etc. But, there are also silly reasons, like not bring flowers often enough. happy

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Mon 10/22/07 04:48 PM
Here is where I read it:

http://www.date.info/infotopic_112_contentid_1338.html

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Mon 10/22/07 04:42 PM
I just read an article that said women initiate 96 percent of the break ups. I don't know how true this is. But, it sure says something about why men are afraid to commit. You gals are heart breakers.

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Mon 10/22/07 11:17 AM
Gypsy raises a good point. Sometimes it is easy to blame un-happiness on the other person even though we are not happy with ourselves. Another person can only make one happy for a short time and then all the problems with ourselves will surface again. But, it sure can be confusing for the person caught in the middle.

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Mon 10/22/07 10:22 AM
laugh laugh Finding a woman who does mind if the toilet seat is left up would be nice. drinker drinker

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Mon 10/22/07 10:05 AM
This all sounds good on paper and I don't want to be negative. But, seems like people do get what they want and it is wonderful for awhile. Then, things are taken for granted, small problems are
made into road blocks, etc. and the good stuff is forgotten. Then folks move on to the next person and the cycle starts all over again.

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Sun 10/21/07 10:30 PM
You could just send him an email letting him know that you are okay and just need some time to sort things out. Let him know he did nothing wrong and you just need time to yourself. That would probably make both of you feel better.

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Sun 10/21/07 10:18 PM
Sounds like you need to take a few steps backwards and figure out what you want. You can only see if he will wait for you to figure out what you want to do. Try not to string him along as he has feelings too.

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Sun 10/21/07 09:37 PM
Catcher, if there is chemistry and attraction, then you could be playing with fire. You probably need to decide what type of relationship you want with the person.

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Sun 10/21/07 09:28 PM
Suppressing whether she has feelings for you or not.

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Sun 10/21/07 09:16 PM
You should probably just flirt with the person you are interested in.

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Sun 10/21/07 09:14 PM
When a woman tell you she is suppressing her feelings, what does that mean?

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Sun 10/21/07 09:11 PM
You could probably explain the type of love you have for them. Problem is if it is only one way.

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Sun 10/21/07 07:02 PM
Just don't play games. Treat people how you would like to be treated. With that said, sometimes we think people are playing games when they are not. I think the inherent differences between men and women can cause signals to get mixed up at times.

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