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Lets say you have split with someone, you do love them but are not truely happy. and there are different levels of love. Is it wrong to say i love you.
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You could probably explain the type of love you have for them. Problem is if it is only one way.
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its good to say whats in your heart, how will they know if you dont tell them. then they'll either run for the hills or return the favor. wheres the wrong in that?
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you shouldnt say something u dont feel in ur hart. if u dont love him or her like he or she thinks u need to tell them this not how u feel when u do say i love you. if tthat dont work then dont say i love u at all. i know its cruel and personlly i cant stand when someone did that to me but now i look back realized that it was for the best they did that. this way u dont feel forced to say those words u dont really feel...
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I find saying "I love you" on the first date...Is never a good thing!!!!!!!!
   
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you can say i love you, but im not IN love with you...they know u care abt them..but thats as far as it goes
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well let me explain. i know he loves me. and i do love him but not enough to stay. he see's in black and white either it love or not. i woul be lying if i didn' say i love you. he see's it as leading him on. i would like to keep him as a friend. he is my best friend. and i miss it. but i am not happy and not being true to myself to stay in the relationship.
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Probably better just to leave it alone and not confuse him.
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Hi soncatcher
Sounds like you have yourself a predicament!! Love him in your way, but dont speak of it to him!!
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workout i tried that. but like i said either you do or dontcha
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hey there Fanta its been awhile! that is good advice. maybe in time we can be frinds but i sure miss my best friend though. i guess i will leave it alone for now.
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the best answers to all is truth. love is love. I agree with you, express your love and be at peace with it.
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Catcher, if there is chemistry and attraction, then you could be playing with fire. You probably need to decide what type of relationship you want with the person.
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Hey Gurlie!!! Good to see ya!
I guess not so good if your on your way out of a relationship. JMO I would say now is not the time to voice it.. I'm sure he knows you loved him or you probably wouldn't of been there.. Just give it some time for the touchy feelings to heal then you can re kindle the friendship... & there is a big differnce between "Loving" somebody & being "IN LOVE" !!! |
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hey catchme. great to see you. its been to long. yur are right. maybe in time. but sure do miss him
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 I just wrote you a big ol' paragraph then hit the refresh...
He's probably not understanding why you feel this need.. guys look at thing differnt. like this is life! deal with it! so if your already saying you miss him & love him... Have you done a self inventory to see why you feel this way? Changing the things around you still might not be what your looking for... Maybe it's inter peace...
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when my ex split with me she told me she wanted to love me.... now what is that supposed to mean
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 Well actually catchme' that is what i told him. i need to find my peace. something is missing that he can't fill. i need to find myself before i can give whole heatily to someone else. i was married for 26 years and after 2 months of seperation. he came into my life. i just was not ready for it. just need some time to spread my wing and fly awhile. you know what i mean
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Sounds like you need to take a few steps backwards and figure out what you want. You can only see if he will wait for you to figure out what you want to do. Try not to string him along as he has feelings too.
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If you feel it, say it.
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