Wow, some of you folks are really patient. I have been on some
of the online dating sites for a few weeks and I am about to give up. I know I am way too picky. But, then again going it alone may not be so bad either.

Money does not mean much to me. You can always make more money.

Women expect men to be mind readers. And good communicators. So when you can't read their mind and ask what is wrong. They give back good communication like. "If you don't know I'm not going to tell you". Now if you can figure this all out please let me know.

Thinking like a guy, wouldn't it just be easier to give a straight answer to the men and solve the problem on the spot?

As you can see I am very confused.

Good Bill, that is the problem when you still are attracted to each other. Makes it hard to move on. If there was no attraction it would be a "No Brainer".

It's kinda like why do men die sooner than women?
"Because they want too"

If the guy had not said " I love you" prior to the love making session I would not ask. If "I love you's" have been exchanged in the past then it probably would be a fair question. Although he probably should of said it without being asked.

Wow, round #3. We only did round #1 and afraid to try round #2.

Thank you for all the responses. I guess my ex and I are in the minority. Maybe we are doomed. The attraction still exists on both sides.

I thought is might be interesting to find out what percentage of people are still attracted to their ex.

Timothy, they do try the silent treatment. If you don't hear from her after awhile she probably moved on.

Funny thing, the ex and I both signed up on another dating site.
They sent us potential matches. They sent us each other as matches. We laughed about that one. Then we each took the personality test and it said we were a good match. Talk about confusing.

Timothy, it is probably a little awkward. I guess it depends on your relationship with the ex. If you remained friends, etc.

What exactly do you mean by come over? Are you talking about still having sex with the ex?

Even though were getting older doesn't mean we still can't be attractive. Dress young, act young and get some exercise.

Knox, it is not weird. The only thing I wonder about if people are older and have never been married or have been married several times is; do they have problems with Long Term Relationships?

There are all kinds of relationships and I guess it just depends what people are looking for. Some folks just want to date, some want friends with benefits, some want marriage, the list goes on and on.

People just have to find out what makes them happy and works best for them. Then be honest with whoever you get into a relationship with.

Cory, everybody thinks it is easy to find someone. It's not that easy. At least not that easy to find the right one.

Welcome Ben, I am waiting to meet those cute girls too!

How well does the emailing work on this site? I have sent a few with no response.

I don't condone cheating. But, I would want find out the reason for the cheating. Was something missing in the relationship that caused this?

If you had a good sex life and things are starting to go down hill it could be that other problems are developing in the relationship and you are not consciously aware of them. I really believe the sexual relationship is a barometer for how the relationship is going.

Try to figure what the problems are outside of the bedroom and see if things improve in the bedroom.