If you have to beg for sex something is wrong. In any good relastionship you would talk about it. If the other persons got legit reasons then go in the bathroom, or watch some porn or do it yourself. I also think if there just not in the mood, though it shouldn't be forced or pressured...though if its "not in the mood" for a decent peroid of time, then the other person just needs to give them a quicky or show them in some other way that they care about them sexually. If your begging for sex though, i can't really think of a case where you wouldn't be lacking respect, communication and compermise. But hey, thats just me.

nah its totally cool. I just realized you where a guy, which makes a ton more sense. I'm just saying that this is probly the place to give people a break and let them be themselfs :)

didnt you just call her imature...but now your not...im confused? Just seems awfully ****ed up for anyone on this site to jump on anyone else for being confused about love and life. Tell me someone who is here that knows what they want and can easily find it where they are at. If not, perhaps ... oh i dont know...maybie they actually would sign up on a place like this because there past relastionships wernt working, and they wanted to try something differnt. To be confused about your love life and wondering why you can't find the right person is 99% of the reason we all are here. She's just more open then most about it. Hey maybie i'm right

So to see if i get it...

*Sigh* it's ok, i'm fine really. No nothings wrong. Go ahead, i don't care.

Translation: I hate you, i have no idea why i'm with you, if you do it i'm going to make you pay, this is really important!

Translation for guys:

It's fine, i really don't have any problems, something small is annoying me, its me and not you. Why don't you go do whatever it is you want to and let me cool down. I'll be waiting here"

Sometimes your lacking sometimes they are. Either way you need to sit them down and tell them exactly whats going on. No one hates being lied to or ****ed around. It may be easier at times for both people, but in the long run it's only going to cause pain.

Besides perhaps you can be what that person wants and needs. Sometimes people may just need a friend, or maybie you can be the lover they need, just that you didnt expect it. Sometimes i find you just need to find out.

Wow guy's actually do that? i mean i've let one conversations die before when there is nothing in common and nothing to talk about, but damn thats cold. For me, if i get along with you its better to keep you as a friend, and either way its easier if your just honest....but hey maybie your lucky. If its the type of asshole that does that he was probly a player, or someone who would of given up and left on you anyways.

I like what tax girl said. I mean i'm all for being in a relastionship where we are both eachothers worlds, but after a year or two of that or at some point, you have to gain some type of normalsy. If you end up ditching all your friends for the guy, and never hanging out with them, it's going to cause problems in the long run. As romantic as it seems, a relastionship is two people with pasts, friends, usually some type of issues, personality's, likes and dislikes being together and sharing all of that with love. Take those things out and it's not really a relastionship.

As for cooking the meal....It's a great experament for anyone in a relastionship. Especially with a small kitchen. If you can't work together making a meal, well it sure shows how you work together. Though hell yea, i love it when your sweating from the heat but only making salad!

put in the install disk, or go to add remove programs and reinstall windows components...just search for it on the list of check off boxes. That should work.

I agree...it's funny how women always say that men only look for looks, but i am willing to bet a good majority of men like personality first, it's that women are more into people that treat them bad or men they feel are a challange. I know i could get far more women by being an asshole, it's just that i think its wrong....

Try being wiccan and signing up...they send you a little email says "dear sir, thanks for trying, but your going to hell. Sorry we couldn't help you at this time. Here are some christian resources!!!"

You fell in love with someone who's religion you didnt agree with?

From the guy's point of view, i prefer someone who's creative, smart, romantic, sexual loving, honest and loyal. As for the bad girls....well, the thing about bad girls and bad boys is that it is a turn on, they almost always end up screwing you over in the end...because it's kinda just who they are. I'd much rather have someone who's shy and ugly then a trouble maker and hot. But thats just 1 guy's oppinion

Use gears of wars style of play...duck and pop up and spray and duck and pop up and spray

Please don't say eharmony... I read they dont even accept non christians...Which can really suck if your agnostic or have an other religion....

- I put the sexy in dislexiya!