let's assume i have a lot to offer. indulge me ok.

do we get to have breakfast? that goes for our children/pets as well..

can i have my own bedroom if you snore, loudly

can i go to the movies by myself once in a while

do you mind if i'm a little vain, i'm only dealing with my own mortality

how big are the bathtubs

can i not feel afraid

can i take a class and have other friends, if you don't wanna talk about it (remember, i'm from the south )


any question(s) you wanna ask?

let's assume??? why assume, sounds like you are cutting yourself short. I DO HAVE ALOT to offer... This sounds as if you are asking permission to be yourself. You don't need anybody's permission!

Ahh Shutterbug great answer

thanks shutterbug. i was mainly referencing snuggles post yesterday about what do you offer a mate. yes, we still need to look out for ourselves, is all.

also, one cook in the kitchen at a time

I disagree ak0...so much more fun to have help in the kitchen...if you know what I mean ...sigh...remembering when it wasn't just the food that was cooking!

ahhh, that's sweet. i'm experiencing premature aging, mentally

lol

dang
I agree with Shutter is not everything you listed a given

might have a prob with own bed room thing fix the snoring first.


sounds like the South needs to get into the 21st century

LOL..I agree caamken...ak0, there is a new invention on the market...SNORESTRIPS!!! They work wonders, and you can both be in the same bed! Go figure.

i've lived up north in a large metro area as well

and noone seemed to have time for one another anyway

it was the it's all about me thing

hire professionals to teach and care for the children, etc.

Humm I'm all for each to still be themselves just because two people come together does not mean you no longer exists. And there will be times when each needs there own space to work things out or just to have that time alone there is no crime in that. As far as friends did you not have your own before? Then why should you not still have your friends? Why is it that just because at time when two become a couple that some think it is now a control issue and the rules all change and what you once did you no longer can do. As far as the kitchen goes hellllllooo hey it is sexy for a guy to be in the kitchen helping like shutterbug said more than one thing could be cooking while fixing the meal. Hummmmm huhhhhhh for sure

why would you want a separate bedroom?

I like what tax girl said. I mean i'm all for being in a relastionship where we are both eachothers worlds, but after a year or two of that or at some point, you have to gain some type of normalsy. If you end up ditching all your friends for the guy, and never hanging out with them, it's going to cause problems in the long run. As romantic as it seems, a relastionship is two people with pasts, friends, usually some type of issues, personality's, likes and dislikes being together and sharing all of that with love. Take those things out and it's not really a relastionship.

As for cooking the meal....It's a great experament for anyone in a relastionship. Especially with a small kitchen. If you can't work together making a meal, well it sure shows how you work together. Though hell yea, i love it when your sweating from the heat but only making salad!

i call for artistic integrity in some endeavors