That tends to happen when you read instant messages from the same girl he was talking to before, and THEN talk to her to get the story that he was asking her to come down there to visit him last night while I was asleep. He was going to have her there, well for obviously the 2 weeks until I was going to show up. Glad I found it now, my mom didn't even see that one coming, she was more suprised than I was. I wasn't that suprised really, I had been keeping check and he'd been hiding it pretty well until tonight. Welp, on the off chance that the negative p/g test was wrong, he'll be payin child support and I'll be workin and everything will be alright no matter what. I still want a baby, mind you, so don't think this has changed my mind on that one I'm just really starting to like the idea of co parenting with my good friend. If you think about it it makes more sense to have a child with someone you trust and care about as a friend than to have one with someone you marry, then drag the kids through an ugly custody battle.

what? you don't think I can see your eyes roll at just the title of this post?

jayme.......your life is a soap opera.........slow down......take the pill........have a drink on me!!!!!!

Sounds like a lot of drama!! Can you say single life is great and thank God I don't put out!!!

Gypsy, I can't tell you how many times I've said those words to myself...lol. I said it today a few times. Hey, there's a good idea! LMAO, I'll make a soap opera of my life up to now...haha, i bet i'd be more intresting than anything the even writers of Days of Our Lives could put together.....

Im wondering when Rico Suave and hanz oont Franz fits in.......also we need a few metro sexuals for the eye candy

jayme, you do seem to get yourself into some doozies

I know it... I guess its a talent. I do have to say in my own defense, I didn't do this one he did it. I think I might just be single for a while if its all the same to you... The most annoying part is when I just am single... the drama creeeeeps up on me. I don't plan these things, but they turn out into a great story eh?

Be like me...my friends tell me to write a book about the crazy things I have done! Just change the names to protect the guilty

if it wouldnt' result in a law suit, I'd print his name in big bold letters to protect every woman from his evil charm...

Ya...........I hear you on that one unsure!!!

who do you know that actually tells a person that they dont' deserve to be loved? he actually said that to me yesterday and I forgave him when he apologised for it. I think he was trying to make sure I was still on his 'leash' so that if one of us didn't work out, the other would be there. I've pretty much decided that this guy is more effed up then I could ever be.

Here's the beauty of it... he doesn't know that I know yet! When he calls tomorrow I will put the other girl on 3 way and let her sit and listen while I ask him about what she's told me. When he's sitting there lying to me, I will interrupt with "Tia, is that how it went?" and see how quickly he hangs up the phone!

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh youreeeeeeeeeeee so evilllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like that!!!!!!!!!

Yes, I can be. I prefer not to be, but when someone does pulls this back stabbing type thing... thats a BIG no-no, and he'd better not even consider coming back here. At the same time I'm laughing at him for being so bad at it, I want to just curl up and bawl for the simple fact that he didn't see me as enough to make him happy. I do know that its HIS bad,not mine, but it still is killing me that I tried so hard to give him a 2nd chance and he just pissed it all away.

eh, oh well, sh!t happens. I'll get over it.

(((((((((((jAYME)))))))))))

I'm alright, a little bummed. I pretty much don't even want to look at any member of the male species right now, which I guess for a few days is a good thing. HAHA, however next weekend I will be going to see my favorite band in concert!!! YUMMMY!!

Okay, so the other chick is still trying to contact him and be really flirty. Who am I supposed to believe? I feel like everyone is trying to dupe me and I'm not trying to let them. Is it possible she just told me that so she could get her hooks in him? or is it that she's just dumb and thinks that he'll be better to her than he has been to me?

(((((((Jayme))))))))...who cares what either of them think!? Wash you hands of the BOTH...move on to bigger and better things. He wasn't worthy of you to begin with.