yup this is a great place!!

totally awesome!! thanks for the laughs...HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!!

you are soooo wrong, maybe most are about sex, but there are a lot of us "older" women that want all that a good relationship has to offer along with the sex.

You go girl!!!!! That is awesome and I know you will bet great next time around!

hi there.............60 here but feel 40 age is just a number anyway!!

should be "DECOCKED" not defrocked!!!

WHY KICK ANYONE'S ASS ...YOU BROKE UP WITH HER....

i've been a widow for 4 yrs...it was 4 months after my husband died that i started to see people..my hubby was very sick the last 3 years of his life and after having to care for him 24/7 those 3 years, i know he didn't want me to stop living just because he did. "looking" was right when he said.."All you can do is what feels right for you." you will know when it feels right..never feel guilty about it

was married for 23 yrs to my late husband...he was 11 yrs younger than me....it can work just fine

Okie, everyone is right just always be there for your kids and make them know none of this was their fault. when at a lose for what to tell them, just be honest with them and say "I don't know why things happen like they do, but God has a reason for everything"

there is one thing I do know for sure...if God brings you to it...He will bring you through it! try to always believe that. and your friends at JSH are here for support. hang in there sweetie!

ya know hun, I truly believe everything happens for a reason. even when we don't fully understand the reason. things can be even tougher when there are mental issues like anxiety disorder involved. people don't understand the things you do until after they have already chosen to leave you behind, then they are afraid to try and go back to fix things. I know that this has to hurt you a lot. maybe part of the things that make it look to you like she hates you, is that she still really doesn't fully understand things and most people, unfortunately are afraid of what they don't understand. this is sad, but true. the only thing i can tell you is that time does make the hurt easier to deal with and the fact that you have her in your prayers just shows that you have what it takes to deal with this and get through it a stronger person. I wish you all the best, Hun.

welcome to JSH enjoy yourself!

More than 500,000 people have been ordered to leave their homes to escape wildfires in California in the biggest US evacuation since Hurricane Katrina.

Fierce winds are fanning fast-moving fires that have ravaged land from Santa Barbara to the Mexican border.

The fires have left three dead, burned down 1,300 homes and businesses, and are threatening 68,000 more properties.

President George W Bush will visit the state on Thursday, after declaring a state of emergency in seven counties.

A White House spokeswoman said Mr Bush, whose administration was accused of a sluggish response to Hurricane Katrina on the Gulf Coast two years ago, wanted to "witness first-hand" the crisis.


TACKLING THE FLAMES
Firefighters in Malibu, California
8,000 firefighters - including a number of prison teams
1,500 national guards
50 helicopters
55 firefighting planes
Source: Office of Emergency Services

Battling the inferno
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Up to 300,000 acres (120,000 hectares) of land have been scorched - an area bigger than New York City.

Forestry officials say the seasonal Santa Ana winds are hampering their efforts to contain 19 fires raging across the state, and high wind warnings will remain in effect for most of the region until Wednesday afternoon.

At least 38 people have been injured in addition to the three confirmed deaths, a spokesman for California's Office of Emergency Services (OES) told the BBC.

He said so far about 321,000 people had obeyed orders to evacuate state-wide.

In San Diego County, which has been hardest hit, firefighters have been working in difficult conditions.

"We've been faced with winds of 60 to 70mph. We've been faced with embers from that fire floating in the air a half-a-mile to three-quarters of a mile away from the fire, underneath people's roofs, onto their back yards, starting those things on fire," spokesman Maurice Luque told the BBC.


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Detailed maps of the fires
Paradise lost in California
In pictures: California fires

One San Diego firefighter, Mitch Mendler, said: "It was like Armageddon. It looked like the end of the world."

County officials placed evacuation calls to 346,000 homes, ordering about 560,000 people to leave - although some 50,000 were allowed to return late on Tuesday.

In Orange County, officials said the number of fires had stretched resources to breaking point.

Major evacuation

Up to 10,000 evacuees stayed overnight at Qualcomm Stadium in San Diego, while other residents have sought shelter in schools, community centres and fairgrounds.


Satellite image shows the smoke from the California wildfires being blown out to sea

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"I'm worried for my baby, my house, my kids, everything," Ana Ramirez, a 30-year-old pregnant woman who was taking shelter in the stadium with her four-year-old daughter, told Reuters news agency.

Ambulances and school buses were used to move hundreds of people from hospitals, nursing homes and prisons.

San Diego Mayor Jerry Sanders told people to "stay at home, stay off the freeways" so fire crews and evacuees could keep moving.

California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger has asked the president to upgrade the fires to a "major disaster".

"This disaster is of such severity and magnitude that effective response is beyond the capability of the state and local governments," Mr Schwarzenegger said

Newark here.....just north of Fort Worth

no tv...just my computer

yup...thumper has the right idea!

actually i've had that before and it is good!

a gay wizard.....hmmmmm interesting

whats a doodle????

FOR ALL YOU YOUNG MOMS........


I am a toddler!


If it is on, I must turn it off.

If it is off, I must turn it on.

If it is folded, I must unfold it.



If it is a liquid, it must be shaken, then spilled.



If it a solid, it must be crumbled, chewed or smeared.



If it is high, it must be reached.



If it is shelved, it must be unshelved.



If it is pointed, it must be run with at top speed.



If it has leaves, they must be picked.



If it is plugged, it must be unplugged.



If it is not trash, it must be thrown away.



If it is in the trash, it must be removed, inspected, and thrown on the floor.



If it is closed, it must be opened.



If it does not open, it must be screamed at.



If it has drawers, they must be rifled.



If it is a pencil, it must write on the refrigerator, monitor, or table.



If it is full, it will be more interesting emptied.



If it is empty, it will be more interesting full.



If it is a pile of dirt, it must be laid upon.



If it is stroller, it must under no circumstances be ridden in without protest. It must be pushed by me instead.



If it has a flat surface, it must be banged upon.



If Mommy's hands are full, I must be carried.



If Mommy is in a hurry and wants to carry me, I must walk alone.



If it is paper, it must be torn.



If it has buttons, they must be pressed.



If the volume is low, it must go high.



If it is toilet paper, it must be unrolled on the floor.



If it is a drawer, it must be pulled upon.



If it is a toothbrush, it must be inserted into my mouth.



If it has a faucet, it must be turned on at full force.



If it is a phone, I must talk to it.



If it is a bug, it must be swallowed.



If it doesn't stay on my spoon, it must be dropped on the floor.



If it is not food, it must be tasted.



If it IS food, it must not be tasted.



If it is dry, it must be made wet with drool, milk, or toilet water.



If it is a car seat, it must be protested with arched back.



If it is Mommy, it must be hugged.



I am a toddler!