WHY?? God gave men an advantage...He gave them two heads, You'd have thought they would learn to think with at least the bigger of the two. Not so! It is becoming more and more evident that men are only capable of one train of thought and as we all know that's "sex". Man's idea of good conversation is "What's your favorite position? Do you like ?" Whats wrong with these men? Don't they know that one day even their bodies will have enough and then what will they do? They spend all their time trying to find the next conquest instead of finding a good woman to share their life with, one that will be there after sex is a thing of the past. One that will still want to hold them and comfort them and, yes even have conversation with them. One that will still love them and cherish every minute they are together, even without the sex part. It amazes me to see how many men try to have sex with every woman they meet and then wouldn't even think about having a real relationship with any of them because they are too "easy" and have had sex with so many men. Before I get every man in town on my case...I do know that some women are the same way. In a perfect world all those men and women would be together and that would free up the ones that want something real to also be together. DOES ANYONE JUST WANT A GOOD FRIEND....I am me no more ...no less. I'm a BBW, 60 years young, lost my hubby of 23 yrs in 2003 and am now looking to find the man thats holds my heart, the man I know is out there somewhere. He is honest,loving,and someone I can trust. He will be understanding and not judgmental and will accept me for who and what I am, as I will him. My family and friends are very important to me and his should be to him too.