I checked out your profile and the first pic is cute, but on the other one you look like a serial killer.

I am not sure about that question, my boyfriend has mentioned marriage and I told him the ring does not matter. I am sure he will pick something i will be happy with. As long as the band is real then i could live with a trymond LOL. All i care about is my husband providing for us and maybe kids if we have them. That is the reason alot women can't keep men because they are too concerned about material things that break and wear out. Rings are replacable and in time he will get you a better ring.
But only your feelings can determine what is good enough.

Even I were avaliable there probably would not be any guys i would want to date. Most of the men on line always want to discuss sex right off and that is fine if that is what you want. But don't be surprised if you are getting no further, most women want more and if all you want is sex find a hooker.

what about in a situation where the two have never met? I think that you can have feelings for someone through communication alone without touching however you can't call it love until you are with the person physically because once you meet you might learn that the person is not who you imagend them to be. Or even the person who left those cute msgs or said all the right things on the phone. when it comes down to it we all have needs as humans and to stay loyal to a person you have yet to meet is a very strange. Although i know LDR can work for a limited time only because no matter what anyone says the whole point is to have someone by your side right? I will never try to sh** on anyones happiness but for most of us the ones who feed off affection and attention we can't cope without our lovers touch. I am going crazy without my love but i have to wait and i will but i have so much to look forward to because of the way we bonded in a physical and emotional way. Although we met online we still have touched eachother and that brought us closer together. so i said all that to say this, I don't think you can be in love with a person through emails and emotions alone. There is a need to love this person but it is a love that is unsure until you actually meet in person. What are you going to do marry online? Im married but me and my husband have never met? sorry to be so bold but it sounds insane to me.

I agree with Cali however you need to build a communication, but without any physical contact there is a such thing as not missing something you never had and even though you have a friendship through via email and phone there is no way for your feelings to be confirmed until you have touched, kissed, held hands, and even made love. I know from experience that it's not the same thing but you will only know for yourself through experience. I think it is critical to have a emotional bond first but physical goes hand and hand with that. I will wish you luck but it seems that you need this bond to help you cope with your down times and really hope when everything comes down you can deal with the out come.

Flowers for me? you shouldn't have

I met a guy online and knew right away that he lived in New Zealand but i only msg him to say he was cute and we have been together every since. However it is very hard saying bye to him when his visits end I cry for days and feel like my heart was ripped out of my chest when he leaves. Sometimes I feel like he is too good to be true, everything i ever wanted in a man. But do to the fact that my friends are getting married and moving on and I don't have any children and a life that i am willing to leave behind. Moving there is a risk I am willing to take, I can't believe I met the man of dreams online and hope everyone who is looking for love finds it with the right person at the right time in their lives. Take care everyone!

distance makes you go find somebody else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think it's crazy to say looking for marriage because some people can become easy targets that way. Someone might lead them to heartbreak, besides you always find what you are not looking for. Keeping an open mind will get you exactly what you want, and being a persons friend can help you learn the most important things about them. A person who wants to date might only tell you what you want to hear.

Stay!!!!!!!!!!

Gobucks um... do you need me to spell it out for you? ok in my personal experience I met a guy online on a okcupid we spoke on the phone, exchanged pic everything. Then after 4 weeks he said he loved me and i said it back, i questioned that love until we met in person and yes we were in love. I hope the same happens for you, however we spoke EVERYDAY no matter what, so if she loves you will only know after meeting in person if either of you are in love. She might be seeing someone else or she is just becoming impatient about never touching or kissing you, and might need some time to come to terms with her feelings for you.

usm24 try okcupid there are plenty of bi and gay men on that chat line. It's free and works just as good, i met my boyfriend on there and could'nt be happier. He lives in New Zealand and I plan to move there to be with him, so good luck with finding someone.

I must comment Howard I think you should break up with her, because you are only using her until someone in your own city comes along. What you might not know is that trading her in may not be the best idea, you agreed to this relationship knowing the distance and like most people you were lonely and figured you could cope just having anyone you can share your life with. To be already planning to break her heart will only get your heart broken by both women, but if that is the chance you are willing to take then go for it but a REAL man will be honest and tell her the truth about your intentions. I bet she thinks everything cool, you are not getting any younger how many choices do you think you have? Young people are having a hard time finding someone and if you have not met anyone in your city by now... then chances are you never will. Obviously approaching women in person isn't a strong point, other wise this would not be an issue. Take care and do the right thing for your own love karma.

judging by couples i see on the street, it depends on how you meet, in person it might be they had a nice butt or a cute smile even pretty eyes. Looking back on my past boyfriends it was not all about looks and i will be the first to admit that. Think about it how many times have you been friendly with someone who you thought was not that cute but ended up having a crush on them after getting to know them? my ex for example i had a crush on his best friend, but after getting to know him i realized that he was a great guy. then he became more attractive to me after the feelings started to grow.

Love has no color or race, I have dated all kinds of men and i do prefer white men over black, but only a woman like myself will understand why. Race is not the issue, the respect level varies in all men and that is what it is all about.

I am in a new relationship with a guy I met online, he came to L.a from Iceland to meet me and we fell in love. Now that we met and are in love the distance is making me crazy,however there is talk of marriage and me moving there to be with him. I think a long distance relationship can work if there are plans of someone willing to move and start over for the good of the relationship. But there is no way it can work for longer than a few months because we are all humans and being lonely is not fun for any of us. So far we talk every day and send photos and emails, we even made a naughty movie so that we can have something as a reminder of our connection. I never thought i would click with someone online and i think that if you find someone special to you, no matter where they are in the world both parties have to do all they can to make it work. It is clear that we are not finding anyone in our area other wise we would not be online.