So, my roomate/best friend has a boyfriend who has many friends. Now, originally his friend Ryan (18) said he thought I was cute and whatever, but Lena (my friend) said that he wouldn't make the best boyfriend. So, her boyfriend's other friend Brandon looked at my MySpace page and told him that he finds me attractive and asked him to set us up. Lena sent me a message asking if I would like to go out with all of them this weekend to get to know Brandon better- so it won't be so ackward. I'm a little nervous. I can't even look at his pictures yet because his profile is set to private, but Lena's bf is going to show them to me tonight when he comes over. I don't know how sure I am about this!

Just prepare yourself. and be confident your a beautiful girl and you deserve the world and if he is a dead beat then he doesnt deserve you

but you should go and give him a chance.. who knows..

I would just go as a group and check them both out!! Sometimes what happens is the one they thought wouldn't like us and we wouldn't like them...thats the ones that we end up with. Just be yourself and you will be fine!! Good luck and have a great time

on date on harm on foul

check it out
nothing to loose

I agree with unsure, go have a great time, you never know what could come from it.

I agree seeing what the person looks like before a date is a good idea. But a picture does not tell the whole story.

Just go out with your friends and have a good time, and without expectations of any kind. At the very least you will make a couple new friends.

Good Luck.............Benz !!!

take a gun with you incase you need to shoot him

well all i can say is this: trust your gut instinct. if it says nice guy then go with it. BUT if you hear growling it is not your stomach or his. THAT would be a warning sign from your instinct.

You don't need to prepare yourself. Just be yourself how you would any other time going out with friends and have a good time

how do I bag me a guy any guy gay, straight, or bi

usm24 try okcupid there are plenty of bi and gay men on that chat line. It's free and works just as good, i met my boyfriend on there and could'nt be happier. He lives in New Zealand and I plan to move there to be with him, so good luck with finding someone.

I like Shadows advise. just be yourself.

Yep just have fun and be yourself if they dont like you the way you are they will never like you never be someone that someone else wants you to be. Just be what makes you happy!!

Ok...so your girlfriend's boyfriend's sister's cousin's next door neighbour knows someone who knows someone who might like to take you on a date when they are single....should you do it?

Have I got it right?

If you know how to wear your bra UNDER your shirt, you should be good to go!!

any straight curious dudes in here ?? interested in me ???

sorry USM24, you're not for me - but i will post after you on this thread....

to the OP - go have a good time - and if it is boring then make an excuse and come back to jsh and tell us how it went!

Good Luck to you!

and don't mind Jess, you can wear your bra however you like (or don't and boycott)!



on second thought - you better bring your laptop just in case it is REALLY BORING jk

jess makes her accessories out of home made playdough and spare bolts

Cause I can.

So, I went out with both guys over the weekend. The first one went well, but I don't think there's anything there. Now, here's my new situation...

My roommate's boyfriend was a jerk during the double date. So, no one talked- especially his friend. The friend and I have been chatting all week and stuff, but I just don't feel a connection with him. I guess (according to my roommate), I'm all he ever talks about. I told him today that I just don't see him as anything more than a friend, but I would still like to be there for him and help him find someone as well as get into school for film directing.

Now... there's a guy I met online (MySpace) and we started talking on the phone last night. What's REALLY weird is that I was just looking for Wiccans and Pagans in the Chicagoland area for my study group. So, I randomly messaged this guy a few days ago and we ended up talking on the phone last night. What's crazy is the way we're so open to each other- we were up past midnight talking! He asked me out to coffee sometime and I'm really excited about it. See, I like people I can have intellectual conversations with about the natural and supernatural as well as how the human mind works. We were finding it so easy to pick at each other's minds- it's amazing! Even after all of that, we have plans to talk again tonight.

I think it's always when you are either with someone else or just give up looking that you find someone you have a deep connection with. I think the universe is constantly testing me.