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Fri 08/07/09 02:17 PM
Edited by northshore11 on Fri 08/07/09 02:17 PM



it's not that guys are wanting thicker women...there are just less and less thin women...go to walmart and count thin women vs fat it's scary...my black friends think i'm silly for liking thin women they think it's gross...different culture i guess...try black guys


can i please just shoot him,i wont kill him i promise!




LOL, to be fair, it usually is a cultural thing. Sometimes things cross cultures, but yeah, in the black community being "bigger" is more acceptable. I had a white girlfriend who gained alot of weight and she started exclusively dating black men because she claimed white men wouldn't have her. Go figure.


The majority of men I know from any race ( black, white, Latino etc ) aren't attracted to fat women. However I do know some white men who do like fat women.

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Thu 08/06/09 08:09 PM
I don't see any harm in dating someone that you once dated many years ago. People can change and mature over time.

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Thu 08/06/09 08:06 PM
I usually will remember the birthdays of close friends and relatives.

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Thu 08/06/09 08:04 PM
Edited by northshore11 on Thu 08/06/09 08:05 PM
This often comes down to physical attraction. Many men simply aren't attracted to larger women. However there are other men who would date and in some cases generally prefer larger women. Being attracted or not attracted to a certain physical attribute doesn't make someone shallow.

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Thu 08/06/09 07:56 PM
Edited by northshore11 on Thu 08/06/09 08:10 PM
I might bring it up eventually. But not right away. Perhaps some male relatives spent a few days at her house and they left some of their things. That has happened to me before.

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Wed 08/05/09 07:46 PM
I love football. Especially the NFL.

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Wed 08/05/09 07:44 PM
Maybe something was wrong with his internet connection. That has happened to me before when I was chatting to someone by IM. I wouldn't automatically assume that he was rude or that his wife / girlfriend walked in the room.

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Wed 08/05/09 07:40 PM
Being rude or disrespectful towards others.

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Wed 08/05/09 07:38 PM
Edited by northshore11 on Wed 08/05/09 07:38 PM
IMO there are leagues. Leagues don't necessary mean that one person is better than another person. But some people are more desirable than others. A tall athletic doctor would probably get more dates than a short fat janitor.

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Wed 08/05/09 08:28 AM
Good basic list. I agree with most of these things.

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Wed 08/05/09 08:26 AM
"Too nice" is when a person is a doormat and never stands up for him/herself.


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Wed 08/05/09 08:24 AM
Yes. After a certain point, I think it is simply better to cut your losses and move on.


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Wed 08/05/09 08:22 AM
The longest time I waited was about 2-3 months.


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Tue 08/04/09 09:27 AM
Any meeting or activity where 2 people are looking for a possible future relationship with each other can be considered a date. Whether it's having a quick cup of coffee or going to an expensive restaurant.

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Tue 08/04/09 09:22 AM
Lack of strong mutual interest. It seems like one person ( sometimes me, other times a man ) is often more interested in the relationship than the other person is.

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Tue 08/04/09 09:18 AM
Go ahead and meet the woman. This may be the most convenient time and place for it.

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Tue 08/04/09 09:16 AM
I generally prefer men who are within 5-7 yrs of my age.

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Sun 08/02/09 06:08 PM
It has happened to many people. It happened to me once. Unless there is a serious emergency ( illness, accident etc ) there is NO excuse not to inform that the other person that you are unable to make it. This can apply to any situation. Not just dates.

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Sun 08/02/09 06:01 PM
Go back in time.

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Sun 08/02/09 12:32 PM
Clothes, CDs