Have you waited for someone...

If so how long did you wait before you moved on?

me...

I waited 5 years for someone who had already said 'yes' to set an actual date...

... 5 years to realize it was never going to happen... I must have had a DUH moment.

What about you.

I waited around for someone in another state for about 6 years.

Now I'm doing it again with someone in NJ, but I'm slowly starting to back away.

i've gone several years just to realize i should have spend that time going to strip clubs

we was toghter 5 years almost 6 one day she just quit talking to me, quit answering my calls ,email ,everything no closure nothing..Im still waiting that happened in February you just got to do you while you wait

How long is a piece of string ????

Last time ... a couple of weeks

before that ... a couple of months

Way before that ... couple of years

Damn! time is getting shorter now

Is that a good thing i wonder

We are getting a bit older and may be a bit wiser

I have come to realize that if they and you want to have a real beginning it should START with-in the first month, not wait and plan for your first meet with them six months later.
As to wait with great antisapations for that moment in both your hearts,and have it build to THAT POINT, if its not felt as magic as you both thought, it is a waste of heart and time that you both will NEVER get back.
So meet, act on it, and see,,,,as soon as you both can.

BOTH of you can make a meeting work if you both feel the other worth it...And LOVE wait for no one..to pass it bye....

Yeah either that or I'm just used to the heartbreaking

I don't think I have ever waited....


not consciously, anyways.


I haven't really thought about it...or is it maybe I don't sit around and wait?


if someone says be there on this date, at this time, then that's the time and date....otherwise I don't know I am supposed to wait?

I had to wait 9 months to see my babies faces, does that count?







Ummm...what was the question?

I did act...

Knew her and dated her for 2 years THEN asked her and she said yes... Was in that relationship for 5 years and never did she actually want to 1... discuss it much. Or 2... Set an actual date.

So then why would she have said yes?

who knows. I've come to the conclusion that both genders suck .. no offense to anyone.

You never get used to that...

I think i have

No you haven't. You'd be able to NOT feel the pain of heartbreak.

I waited seven years for him to decide when we were going to "make the move" and move in together.....then I found out he asked out my best friend...

Yeah i wish i wouldn't feel anything at all

Or just care about it ... being heartless would be so cool

Oh geezuz Luis...do I have to come over there and kick your arse?



Don't make me put my boots on!!!!!

How long did I wait? Hmmm ... how long was I married again?