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Topic: why do guys shy away from bigger girls and why is weight a i
marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:11 PM
yea im trying to figure this out why is it so bad for a girl to be full figured and have meat on thier bones i mean come on who wants to be a size 2 and does it have to do with race are some races more acceptable with weight or not and why is it that people think oh she is fat so she must not care about herself or what she looks like

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Wed 08/05/09 10:13 PM

yea im trying to figure this out why is it so bad for a girl to be full figured and have meat on thier bones i mean come on who wants to be a size 2 and does it have to do with race are some races more acceptable with weight or not and why is it that people think oh she is fat so she must not care about herself or what she looks like


Oh you are fine girl... Just don't listen to the shallow one!happy

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Wed 08/05/09 10:13 PM
Some men like bigger girls, some don't. It's called personal preference.

heavenlyboy34's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:14 PM
I've got no problem with big girls. Some I like, some I don't-same with other women. I wish I could control it, but I can't. :wink::)

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Wed 08/05/09 10:20 PM

yea im trying to figure this out why is it so bad for a girl to be full figured and have meat on thier bones i mean come on who wants to be a size 2 and does it have to do with race are some races more acceptable with weight or not and why is it that people think oh she is fat so she must not care about herself or what she looks like


There are men out there who like bigger girls. You just have to be patient :smile:.

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:20 PM
yea i agree with u people have preference but why is it such a issue i mean i have no problem with myself i think im just fine the way i am i just want to kno what other people think i mean weight doesnt change how a person is so why worry about it so much

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:22 PM
Preference.. If you are comfortable with your self and healthy, don't worry about it.

southern_bee's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:23 PM
just put on some high heels and step on their balls plus if they let a vain thing like weight stop them then why worry about them anyway?

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Wed 08/05/09 10:24 PM
Most women don't like overweight men. I just make up for it with confidence and charm, at which point it quits becoming an issue until y'all break up.

AdventureBegins's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:26 PM

yea im trying to figure this out why is it so bad for a girl to be full figured and have meat on thier bones i mean come on who wants to be a size 2 and does it have to do with race are some races more acceptable with weight or not and why is it that people think oh she is fat so she must not care about herself or what she looks like

They just can't handle all that you are...

It's the same reason the shy away from 'model' type gorgeous...

It not the full figure its the essesense they can't handle...

so they make excuses...

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:27 PM
lol yea im mean im not going to lie i havent always been accepting of my weight but i did play soccer and u have to have meat on ur bones if u dont want to get pushed around yea i have gotten over it im basically just speaking for the big girls out there who dont want to ask

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:37 PM
Many people judge themselves by the spouse that picks them. If a guy is insecure he can't handle the stigma of being associated with a mate that is less than a throphy. Sadly some guys actually pick women they think other men will be less likely to have and affair with because they are not confident in satisfying a woman enough that she won't cheat. Of course that is ridiculous because size has nothing to do with faithfulness.

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:43 PM
yea i mean i hate it that guys somtimes see the weight instead of getting to kno me first and i think its sad that its like that

TelephoneMan's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:48 PM
You might try moving to Michigan... this is one of the only states that has laws protecting discrimination againts height and weight...

TelephoneMan's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:49 PM

just put on some high heels and step on their balls plus if they let a vain thing like weight stop them then why worry about them anyway?


I have been meeting women like you all my life.....

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Wed 08/05/09 10:51 PM

just put on some high heels and step on their balls plus if they let a vain thing like weight stop them then why worry about them anyway?

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rofl rofl rofl

ClayFace2009's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:51 PM
Marshallgurl, you look quite attractive to me. flowerforyou I like women who have some meat on their bones...not a pencil-thin tqig like Paris Hilton...ugghhh! sick

What's also attractive about you is your confidence in yourself, your person.

southern_bee's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:54 PM


just put on some high heels and step on their balls plus if they let a vain thing like weight stop them then why worry about them anyway?

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rofl rofl rofl





just put on some high heels and step on their balls plus if they let a vain thing like weight stop them then why worry about them anyway?


I have been meeting women like you all my life.....



not sure how i should take that comment TelephoneMan but ok!?
and modela lol

well im sorry i just think if doesnt like b.c i eat thats his problem!lol

marshallgurl22's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:55 PM
thanx it took awhile for my confidence to grow although soccer really helped and also i just dont see myself as being skinny if i was to get skinny i dont think i would be well portioned anymore lol

southern_bee's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:56 PM

thanx it took awhile for my confidence to grow although soccer really helped and also i just dont see myself as being skinny if i was to get skinny i dont think i would be well portioned anymore lol



i just dont want my boobs to get smaller!i love my twins lol

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