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i'm makin a conscious effort
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Well, you are still trying to quit smoking.
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Am I Single or Taken?
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anyway at this point i ask ur forgiveness, what would i know it's not why i'm here.  Its OK, we all need help from outside cause it is so easy to get blinded when it happens to you. I appreciate you fifer thanks John i wasn't being horrible but i wasn't thinking either  AWWWW SHUCKS, you big Lug, come here and give me a big ole gay hug... lol 
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Am I Single or Taken?
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Love, however, only really happens when there is face to face, in person contact. how can you define love for another person? perhaps it can't happen for you but who's to say what another feels isn't love? i'll argue this til i'm blue in the face because i've no doubt i was in love with robin before i physically met him. I have heard of this, and amazingly, these situations usually last. Bless you, that's cool, I'm an ole sap for love stories. lol, except in front of the guys, ssshhhh! don't tell anyone. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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I have been emailing back and forth with someone that I met here,(No Names out of respect for her, if she wants to reveal, then she can) and last night we had our first phone chat, we talked for an hour or so then we got off of the phone. 20 minutes later she called me back and ask if we could chat some more. I was very moved by this. Today I got another email from her telling me that she enjoyed our talk and wants to talk more and get to know each other more and I agree, I am fascinated with her too. Here is my problem, a couple of people who are just friends, got upset because I am not interested in being single while I am working on getting to know this other lady. I think it is unfair to spend time trying to get to know someone and continuing to play as if your still available. These friends never showed any signs of being interested in me as far as dating, but when out of excitement I tell them I am interested in someone and we are talking and getting to know each other, they get upset and tell me, "You are still single, just because you are trying to get to know each other doesn't mean you cant still play the game". I disagree, I think I need to focus on her, as she is focusing on me as well. Whats your take on this? Am I out of line in thinking that I don't need to be exposing myself as single when I am working on something with someone else. We haven't met yet, she lives very far away, but we are interested in each other and we are fondly talking to each other. My profile clearly states that I want plenty of friends, but only one lover. So why is it so hard for anyone else to understand that they are friends but she is someone I am connecting with on a different level? ARE...are you talking about me?   Now, yes you are exposing yerself....  AHHHH, now why'd you go and tell them, it was a secret Modela..  If something is EXPOSED, please tell me so I can cover it. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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anyway at this point i ask ur forgiveness, what would i know it's not why i'm here. Its OK, we all need help from outside cause it is so easy to get blinded when it happens to you. I appreciate you fifer |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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if u haven't met then u ARE single! Oh no Doubt, I am still very single, but I don't want to get to know her, and her, and her, and her, and her. Its not fair, its very misleading and that's what players do. LOL, NO, I didn't say I was in love, just getting to know each other is all, but i only want to focus on just her as a possible connection. I don't want to get a bunch of connections and then pick the best one. We have shared pics, several emails, and 2 phone calls. I want to focus on her and keep slowly moving, instead of focusing on her and many more.. Just dont have it in my heart to do that.. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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if u haven't met then u ARE single! That may be true, Fifer. But there are some people who try to concentrate on one person at a time.
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Am I Single or Taken?
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if u haven't met then u ARE single! Oh no Doubt, I am still very single, but I don't want to get to know her, and her, and her, and her, and her. Its not fair, its very misleading and that's what players do. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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You can be very fair and give every one the fair chance of getting to know you well. Then you have treated all of them very equally Lucky devil  LOL, no I dont have them lined up around the block, these are two friends that I think is just worried that she is the one that is taking me away and not my job. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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Whatever John, I respect you for going with your gut, and doing what feels comfortable. I date, and see many at one time, but if it comes to intimacy, or sex, I cut it down to one person, and give them that respect. Im very confident, and open though with my partner. If someone wants me to be exclusive, or give them a chance at a ltr, then it takes consideration, and lots of time. You know whats right for you. It would only be a concern that you dont put all of you into the relationship, and keep a safe distance before I love yous, and major commitments, that could cause you upset, and frustration from a distance, OR ya know, not realy knowing the person well, cos you havent spent time in person. Ya dont know if you will have that important attraction, or chemistry in person. I speak on this from LOTS of experience with internet relationships. Good luck. Thank You, and I am very much taking your advice to heart. I do have plans of relocating to the area she lives, but that was decided before I knew she existed, and it is for my job. I respect your honesty in how you handle your relationships, thats very admirable. Thanks for your input, I still think your a sweetie...
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Am I Single or Taken?
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I have been emailing back and forth with someone that I met here,(No Names out of respect for her, if she wants to reveal, then she can) and last night we had our first phone chat, we talked for an hour or so then we got off of the phone. 20 minutes later she called me back and ask if we could chat some more. I was very moved by this. Today I got another email from her telling me that she enjoyed our talk and wants to talk more and get to know each other more and I agree, I am fascinated with her too. Here is my problem, a couple of people who are just friends, got upset because I am not interested in being single while I am working on getting to know this other lady. I think it is unfair to spend time trying to get to know someone and continuing to play as if your still available. These friends never showed any signs of being interested in me as far as dating, but when out of excitement I tell them I am interested in someone and we are talking and getting to know each other, they get upset and tell me, "You are still single, just because you are trying to get to know each other doesn't mean you cant still play the game". I disagree, I think I need to focus on her, as she is focusing on me as well. Whats your take on this? Am I out of line in thinking that I don't need to be exposing myself as single when I am working on something with someone else. We haven't met yet, she lives very far away, but we are interested in each other and we are fondly talking to each other. My profile clearly states that I want plenty of friends, but only one lover. So why is it so hard for anyone else to understand that they are friends but she is someone I am connecting with on a different level?  We can still play Yes Mirror, we can still play, just no more monkey business. LOL |
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Am I Single or Taken?
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The only thing I would caution about is being too public about your "situation" on the forums. It's been known to cause a few problems for people that could have been avoided. Simply stating something on your profile about the fact you are getting to know someone should suffice. Sounds like she's a lucky woman. Good luck to the both of you! Very good point, I edited some stuff out of the last post, thanks for pointing that out. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
Edited by
John1932
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Sat 08/08/09 03:46 PM
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I'm with you John......spending the time to get to know that person without interruption from "the game" is a morally sound way to go. It shows respect and tells a lot about you as a person. Doesn't mean you have to profess your undying love to her, just means you respect her enough to not be chatting up other women while you two are deciding if you want to take it further. Bravo to you! Thank You, I want to keep my friends here and have fun, but it isnt fair to her or myself for that matter. SOOOO.. Im going to change my profile as to not confuse anyone into thinking Im AVAILABLE. |
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Am I Single or Taken?
Edited by
John1932
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Sat 08/08/09 02:59 PM
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I have been emailing back and forth with someone that I met here,(No Names out of respect for her, if she wants to reveal, then she can)
and last night we had our first phone chat, we talked for an hour or so then we got off of the phone. 20 minutes later she called me back and ask if we could chat some more. I was very moved by this. Today I got another email from her telling me that she enjoyed our talk and wants to talk more and get to know each other more and I agree, I am fascinated with her too. Here is my problem, a couple of people who are just friends, got upset because I am not interested in being single while I am working on getting to know this other lady. I think it is unfair to spend time trying to get to know someone and continuing to play as if your still available. These friends never showed any signs of being interested in me as far as dating, but when out of excitement I tell them I am interested in someone and we are talking and getting to know each other, they get upset and tell me, "You are still single, just because you are trying to get to know each other doesn't mean you cant still play the game". I disagree, I think I need to focus on her, as she is focusing on me as well. Whats your take on this? Am I out of line in thinking that I don't need to be exposing myself as single when I am working on something with someone else. We haven't met yet, she lives very far away, but we are interested in each other and we are fondly talking to each other. My profile clearly states that I want plenty of friends, but only one lover. So why is it so hard for anyone else to understand that they are friends but she is someone I am connecting with on a different level? |
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wtf??
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Are they still best friends?
How do you feel about her? If it feels right, Go for it. If it doesnt, then dont. |
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Back off!!!! This is My Cookie!  Take it, I'll make more... |
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Kerala Friend
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Im here, good to have you on mingle..
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hello
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Well to Mingle
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i've started again
Edited by
John1932
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Sat 08/08/09 10:55 AM
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welp, at east your not pregnant. Okay...THAT freaked me out. Yea, Earthy, does that mean YOUR ?????? No way. |
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my reason for abondoning god
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I just realized all of these posts are old, someone bumped them and I just went to work LOL Sorry everybody.
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