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Do you tell your partner every and any thing that is bothering you?
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No.
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Eventually, yes.
It may take me a while, but when im bothered, the only way it gets better is if i communicate it. |
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Nothing bothers me.
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Do you tell your partner every and any thing that is bothering you? each morning and then the sole on my left shoe needs,,,shined,,, NO,,,but close as to never hide anything,,,wink,,lol |
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Wed 08/05/09 01:13 AM
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would you expect a partner to tell you everything? (or close to)
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would you expect a partner to tell you everything? (or close to) In my opinion....no. But then again, I have been dealing with my own problems on my own for a VERY long time. I figure, if it's not something that she can actually do something about, then it's not something that I need to concern her with. |
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I used to
After my divorce ($30K so far)I learnt that anything disclosed to the nearest and dearest can be used against you in a court of law to gain advantage So the deal is not a chance any more The partner may take it or leave it plenty of takers elsewhere |
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One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications.
Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. |
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One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications. Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. Quite right. If it involves the relationship, then yes. But if it's just something that I have to deal with at that particular point, and it isn't something she can fix or doesn't directly concern her, then why bother her with it? |
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One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications. Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. Quite right. If it involves the relationship, then yes. But if it's just something that I have to deal with at that particular point, and it isn't something she can fix or doesn't directly concern her, then why bother her with it? Because a problem shared is a problem halved. |
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but maybe you don't want it halved. maybe you want to take care of it yourself as a part of a character building exercise...
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Yes you should share everything, but the question is when?
You don't want to do it out of anger, you don't want to use it against them in an argument. You want to approach it before it gets out of hand. easy said than done I know. depends on your partner. |
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I have nothing to hide and tell my partner all.
Either I SHARE my life with someone.. or I don't. secrets kill a relationship. |
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but maybe you don't want it halved. maybe you want to take care of it yourself as a part of a character building exercise... Easy enough.. tell your partner... this is the issue... however... I will handle it myself. |
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One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications. Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. Quite right. If it involves the relationship, then yes. But if it's just something that I have to deal with at that particular point, and it isn't something she can fix or doesn't directly concern her, then why bother her with it? Because a problem shared is a problem halved. Meh. They have their own stuff to deal with. Why add mine to it? |
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One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications. Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. Quite right. If it involves the relationship, then yes. But if it's just something that I have to deal with at that particular point, and it isn't something she can fix or doesn't directly concern her, then why bother her with it? Because a problem shared is a problem halved. Meh. They have their own stuff to deal with. Why add mine to it? If they truly care about you, they will want to share and help you cope as well. console you, maybe even give you options that you may not have thought of!! If not, They don't really care. |
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no because sometimes you just need to learn how to compromise on the pet peeves.
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no because sometimes you just need to learn how to compromise on the pet peeves. I think a pet peeve is one thing, but something that really bothers you is another. leaving the seat up on the toilet would be a pet peeve. flirting with other women would be a huge bother. |
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tell them NOTHING
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