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love!!!!
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Love is like a box of chocolates... unless they're all gone then no, it is not.
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What is romantic to you?
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Romance to me is about atmosphere and surprise. The soft touch with the hot breath of being close. The sights and smells that trigger emotion and intoxication of the senses. And that too :P Well put. |
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What is romantic to you?
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Some things come to mind that can be had within an hour,
Laying under a bright star night, watching a meteor shower. Hot chocolate by a fireplace after a long day in the snow, followed by candles, blankets, dinner and a show. Knowing her favorite songs and her favorite meals, or her style of her clothes and the things that she feels. Challenging fears to try something new; hearing her claim to love and never once doubting if she is true. Taking the time to listen not just for words but the meaning, smoke and laugh, hands in grasp, make love last throughout the evening. |
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Edited by
CKeef
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Mon 07/06/09 03:23 PM
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Immortal Technique - Revolutionary Vol. 1 & 2 (albums)
Viva la Revolution! |
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Soulmates!
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Or you think maybe you have found them, but realize later that maybe you were wrong or something's strange in the communication or something like that.... 
In my case, she became lesbian. yeah you can't compete with that No intentions... that'd just be selfish and not very friend-like. But yeah... what can ya do?  Shes my best friend and I love her to death
whatever works Hmmm I dont know how to respond although I wish to.... did I just? lol, yeah i guess i put that wrong. its just nice you can be friends with her. ****.... i would be selling drugs, beaten every night and soulless if not for her. She saved my life. she's a good friend to have then. 
The best. *happy tears* Goodnight |
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Soulmates!
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Or you think maybe you have found them, but realize later that maybe you were wrong or something's strange in the communication or something like that....
In my case, she became lesbian. yeah you can't compete with that No intentions... that'd just be selfish and not very friend-like. But yeah... what can ya do? Shes my best friend and I love her to death
whatever works Hmmm I dont know how to respond although I wish to.... did I just? lol, yeah i guess i put that wrong. its just nice you can be friends with her. ****.... i would be selling drugs, beaten every night and soulless if not for her. She saved my life. |
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Soulmates!
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Or you think maybe you have found them, but realize later that maybe you were wrong or something's strange in the communication or something like that....
In my case, she became lesbian. yeah you can't compete with that No intentions... that'd just be selfish and not very friend-like. But yeah... what can ya do? Shes my best friend and I love her to death
whatever works Hmmm I dont know how to respond although I wish to.... did I just? |
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Quick Giggle
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Well I saw, and I think your humor needs some work. G'luck
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Topic:
Soulmates!
Edited by
CKeef
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Sun 07/05/09 09:42 PM
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Or you think maybe you have found them, but realize later that maybe you were wrong or something's strange in the communication or something like that....
In my case, she became lesbian. yeah you can't compete with that No intentions... that'd just be selfish and not very friend-like. But yeah... what can ya do? Shes my best friend and I love her to death
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Soulmates!
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Or you think maybe you have found them, but realize later that maybe you were wrong or something's strange in the communication or something like that....
In my case, she became lesbian. |
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Soulmates!
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there smart like me and hiding Typically they DO hide...
Or sit behind a computer all day  or perhaps a cubicle.
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your opnions...
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For me, age does not matter although personal values and an open-mind cannot be compromised. I'm short, so I'd just like somebody to be my height or shorter hehe hard to feel like a man when you're on your tippy toes kissin her goodnight! As the beautiful Aaliyah said, age is nothin' but a number. Many people dont act their age... but who's to say what you should or should not do as long as it doesnt harm another?
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problem... HELP
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Hummmmmmmmmmm seems to me there is more to this story then is being reviled. Since I'm a Mom myself even though I have never stepped into my kids business when it comes to their lives I also feel that if my kids have a problem with my opinion when I give it that maybe it would be time for them to move out on their own. Otherwise as long as they were to live in my house then they will hear my opinion. I definitely believe the opinion should be heard and respected, and hopefully appreciated (indifference really sucks). My mother, on the other hand, did more than give her opinion. She often would invite people over to hang out withme, even at teenage years, and would very much blackmail me in order to do what she wanted, such as threatening to kick me out if I didnt go to college, even though I was working to support my kids and find my way in life. Once it hits this point of forcing the issue down the throat, that crosses the parent line for me (talking about being over 18 here, not parenting for a child). |
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problem... HELP
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Now I believe he wants to just forget the whole thing. so how is this guy a jerk?? it could be just that he doesn't want any potential drama from the mom or to be the reason for conflict between the OP and her mom honestly....iheartyew...try to be understanding of his point of view and talk to him...maybe he has a suggestion or something Yeah, at the end of the day, communication and honesty is pretty clutch on whether you and/or him want to continue down this path or not |
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problem... HELP
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Dont let your mom be a factor of what you want to do with yourself, your life and anybody in it. Sure, its always nice to know parents care... but times are different. If you cant make your own decisions, and if your mom cant accept you as a grown up... something needs changing.
Let your heart guide you. I live with my father. He helped me move away from a dangerous lifestyle and gave me a job working from home. When I lived with my mom, she did the same, my father doesnt, but it still is a concept of image some people just dont like... Somebody told me to not tell people about my kids because it scares people away, but I dont want anybody who is going to assume, judge, and close their mind... think about if that kind of person is worth pursuing. Hope its not too tough, I truly wish the best for you! Peace n Love |
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I wish I were not single, but the grief would be much more if I were to rush the issue out of desperation or pain. I am a few months out of a on-and-off 4 year with my mother of my kids and there is so much that I miss about that togetherness and deeply long for it, but I will never have that if I focus on it. Plus the ***** tried to kill me hhaha mmm gotta love the complexity of relationships
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Soulmates!
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To me a soulmate is perfectly imperfect. I have one, although we are not together, I will always place her up with my kids.
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Your child is smoking pot
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lol sorry Keef...IMO=in my opinion Heh ok. My name's Collin. Keef is slang for marijuana that has been cut into a very small size, resembling powder. Fun fact of the day. I feel bad you keep using that word I am glad we clarified this all up because I never wanted to come off like I support it for kids. I support the plant and its many many possibilities in an equal manner to everything in life. It could be worse, i agree with that statement, but that does not make it ok or safe. Very glad to have had this moment of clarity.
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Your child is smoking pot
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unfortunately Keef hon...we can't do anything about how people think. there are people in their late 50's that I wouldn't consider adult. but it's more a of a legal issue. at 18....people can be held more accountable for their actions because they are generally out of school...IMO. I really dont know the abb. terms here on this site... IMO for example. But as I stated below, I agree. I completely agree, and it took a lot of mistakes and going down a path I would not wish upon anybody, especially kids. I dont think kids smoking, drinking among with many others is good. There are plenty of people who dont act their age, and i would never want to force my opinion on anyone. I just hope to show that there is more than one side to everything, and even things we dont like, we shouldnt rule out any other possibilities. AGREE AGREE AGREE. You are a good woman with the right concepts. Let us have peace now. Never was an arguement, btw, just a conversation of exploration and verification... its very easy to misplace emotion or even intentions behind bland text. It is because of this... peoples individuality that we need to have a choice for ourselves, but we need to earn it by growing up properly and learning responsibility one step at a time. I think we are on the same page, maybe different language. |
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Your child is smoking pot
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Keef...you do bring up very good points. not sure how old you are or if you have kids...but you seem to have a good head on your shoulders and you use your head for more than a hat rack (as grandpa used to say lol) you brought up 16 yr olds. my thought on why 18 is a good age to be legally an adult is this....18 is the average age when kids graduate from High school. from there they can get a ful time job or continue with their education. 16 yr olds get to drive. most 16 yr olds don't have the experience driving as most adults. and I couldn't imagine keeping a 16 yr old in school if they are considered adults. IMO things would be worse. I mean there are adults that don't act like adults...a 16 yr old surely wouldn't. at 18...hopefully they have finished high school or gotten a GED. being a parent is fun and games and shouldn't be. I wasn't a perfect parent but I have my son's respect. we have done things together for fun when he was growing up and we now shoot pool together. But I don't think he'd be the man he is today if me and his dad were friends with him first. he knew the boundaries and knew there were consequences if he crossed them. just like as an adult...there are laws...and consequences for breaking them. and I know you don't like this argument Keef lol...but what message does it send to kids if the parents basically say you can pick and chose what laws you like and don't like.? there are laws I don't like but I know if I break them, I face the consequences. and until the laws are changed...all people can do is fight to change them but will face the consequences if they are broken until they are changed. Adam is going to be a cop...and yes, it would probably be easier to deal with the real problems vs pot smokers. but they are doing their jobs with the laws we have now. and as far as the "it's not as bad as" cop out...it may not be as bad, but it's not as good either. I am twenty, i have 2 baby girls ages 3 & 1, and like i said, my father being my friend was not a good thing overall. I agree with everything you post here. It is our responsibility to look after our kids to prevent them from running into trouble and harm. I agree with 18, very much so. My only point of 16 is there are many people who have a much higher mental state, now that doesnt mean they should smoke or have more allowance, but point being age doesnt always determine actions, responsibilities, etc. I was living on my own at 16 and my girlfriend got pregnant and moved away. I was not ready to be an adult, but i was much more than some. If not for weed, i might have lost my mind. Now, it was many mistakes and bad choices that led me there, and definitely my lack of experience led me to a narrow vision. I WOULD say pick and choose depending on what feels right in a person's heart, but that also doesnt mean disobey them. I believe if you feel something is not right, you stand up for it and try to make a change, so i volunteer myself for pro-cannibus legislation, etc. I intend on being parent first, friend second. My mother was, and although I grew up very bitter with her, I have a tremendous respect for her I dont share for my father. My kids are too young for me to really say what i would do if... I support the plant and its use, but yeah, i dont know if i'd be comfortable with my girls using it before they have everything they need to be strong people without any substances of any kind. Again, there is nothing I disagree with you here, my issues are HOW they are approached, what truth and fact is known, and what is actually done about it. |
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