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Thu 07/23/09 01:35 PM
Yeah... how is this legal?

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Thu 07/23/09 01:27 PM



Did somebody say something?

oh that hurts,sad i just want some ladies to tell me what's wrong with my profile.i get no responses from messages.hell i don't eithen get viewed anymore.tears
There are good few of us on this site in similar predicament
The line is long and you need to get in the queue.



Where do you get all these amazing smileys??? I'm not even going to bite your style, I just wanna see more!!

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Thu 07/23/09 01:22 PM
Edited by CKeef on Thu 07/23/09 01:32 PM
****ing terrible. One of many examples of the shame I have for our species, although there are worse things, I cant imagine the possible damage to these kids and overall mindset of these parents. Absolutely selfish, vile and straight shallow (probably materialistic too). The mentality of some people... anybody see the movie Idiocracy? I believe this among many follows up to that possible future

P.S. I hate make-up in general, if you cant be beautiful with who you are, I'm not down. What does that say about kids? No child should ever feel the need to be prettier or some ********.

P.S.S. I also am now female so I dont understand the positives some may feel about makeup. I just think makeup is ugly, even if the woman is pretty (make-up on or not). Ive seen it look nice but its still not attractive to me. But I dont mean to be hating on anybody who enjoys it!

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Thu 07/23/09 11:12 AM
I've definitely read about cases where somebody was trying to commit suicide or there was a robbery and the police intervened and saved lives but accidently broke an arm or something in the process and have gotten sued. Only in America.

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Thu 07/23/09 10:33 AM
Well, JAG my dude, I think you got the right screws keepin your dome on tight. Keepin laughin n sharin yourself. The right people will see this truth you carry and simply be there and appreciate your views without a doubt. Peace my brother, respect

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Thu 07/23/09 10:18 AM
Edited by CKeef on Thu 07/23/09 10:28 AM



The person you referred to in your post was unfortunate in the fact that she actually did take herself seriously when she was saying bad things about herself.


Unfortunate for my children and their upbringing & future

Sad to say I dont care for her much anymore, I only wish her to get on some professional so can control herself and not possibly harm the kids (more worried of mental trauma than physical, shes not that bad thankfully)

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Thu 07/23/09 10:14 AM
Damn my dude, I am glad you were there. Its people like you, nickyVG, etc. that actually convince me everyday to care about people I dont know instead of completely hating the direction of our entire species. Not even gonna get into the whole government and human-disgust issues... we need more people like you man, it really feels good to know there are truly intelligent, caring and overall great people out there, even if minority of population.

"Universal truth is not measured in mass appeal"

1L, respect as always

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Thu 07/23/09 10:01 AM
Edited by CKeef on Thu 07/23/09 10:02 AM


Let's say that there is a guy or girl, man or woman, whichever you prefer, that you know who has been through some very rough things. They have had to deal with several forms of abuse and you know they have a few issues because of it.

One thing that you have noticed is that this person consistently talks down about him/her self.

But you also know that this person is relatively comfortable with who they are.

You wish they would stop doing what they are doing, but they don't really see anything wrong with it.

What do you try to do for this person? If anything???


You can always do something, but especially when it comes to abuse and pain... and inflicted early on... sometimes, no matter what you do, nothing will change unless they truly want to be better. I dont mind if someone's having a bad day and down on themselves, but it is very hard to care about those who doesnt care about themselves.
An ex of mine has had a life full of peril and pain, and continued to put herself in situations where she was giving too much, people were taking too much, etc. and it was because she was such a loving, good-hearted person. But she hurt herself, me and our family over and over and constantly degraded herself. I did everything possible, but nothing got better. She grew to resent me and where I was at mentally, and refused to change. She grew angry the more I tried to help her because she WAS comfortable with who she was. I was made homeless, beaten and almost killed by her because of the pain others had caused and yet even though I was the only one not on that side, she knew she could take it out on me and I'd still love and care about her, try to help her. Four years of madness and a bloody assault later, I was done and needed to focus on being a good father and hopefully improve their quality of life through legal channels.

Not everybody (I HOPE) will fall into such a downward spiral, but without them wanting to feel better and truly live better, they will not appreciate your influence. I pray this will never happen to another.

JustAGuy (can I call you JAG?), the example you show above, I've been there before (atleast similar) and can relate. I think you are alright, got a good sense of things. For me, when people would tell me what to do about it, it always moved me in the wrong way. To actually have somebody just simply uplift you and not point at the issue would definitely make a huge difference, but dont let that stop you from poking fun of yourself, I make fun of myself everyday and create laughter and happiness. Its all good.

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Wed 07/22/09 10:05 PM
Met somebody amazing on here, moving along nicely... making songs left and right when I'm not walking around nude with a cold Cream Stout

"It's good to be the king!"

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Wed 07/22/09 10:03 PM
She is now lesbian...

My best friend in the world.

The yin to my yang

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Wed 07/22/09 09:57 PM

To regret something you did or regret something you failed to do/ never tried? Why?


Regretting something you did give's you the option to look at contributing factors where-as said above, failing to do/never trying something doesnt give you anything to learn other than the obvious... do nothing, nothing happens.

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Tue 07/21/09 10:04 PM
I just met somebody today in my area who fueled me full of fire, I can only pray we do well because she is more incredible than I ever could expect from anyone! *Sigh* I'm such a sucker for love.

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Tue 07/21/09 02:02 PM
I have started friendships that turned into love before, although it still can be hard for somebody my age because a lot of people hide behind the safety of their computer and dont bring the 'same person' when physically together.

Not always the case of course, if only it would happen again.

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Tue 07/21/09 01:54 PM
:banana:

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Mon 07/20/09 09:59 PM

I agree.

However, it's up to the guy ( and don't ask me why because I have no freakin idea ) to do the chasing. Whether that means initiating the conversations, or being the one to ask the other out.

I'll add my own bit into this.

What annoys me is when a woman says she'd like to get to know you, but when you talk to them, they don't ask a single damn question.

I have run into this NUMEROUS times. I'll ask questions...but she won't ask a thing about me. I have to give her the information.

Sorry, but if you were actually interested in getting to know me, I would figure you would have at least a FEW questions about me.


That is certainly a complete frustration. Its those type of people that make me wonder why I even try, but of course there are plenty of incredible women to keep me goin.

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Mon 07/20/09 09:52 PM


I do believe that women do like to be chased...it is a game that has started at the beginning of time. Women are very smart and do not general respond well to men that appear to be desperate or that over chase. It is a game of mystery and someone actually fiqures it out I would not mind knowing as well. Although it does seem that if you got a women wants she will let you know sometimes I think it not always said but, you can see it in their eyes, or that quaint and cute grin. (Oh, thats a turn on....) :smile:

Wisdom from my grandmother.

"if a man wants a woman, and she has no interest in him... He can move mountains and walk on water and she will not care."

"If a woman wants a man there is nothing he can do to stop her... She will have him".

Dont pursue unless there is interest... your wasting your time.

I used to think this was a bit stupid... But time has shown her to be right.


Wise words good sir, I will be sure to incorporate this lesson to my son, hopefully he will have a better start than I.






Again, I am sorry to all. Terrible day, terrible people, no herbs = sourpuss.
Thanks to the open-minded and thoughtful, goodnight.

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Mon 07/20/09 08:37 PM

I do believe that women do like to be chased...it is a game that has started at the beginning of time. Women are very smart and do not general respond well to men that appear to be desperate or that over chase. It is a game of mystery and someone actually fiqures it out I would not mind knowing as well. Although it does seem that if you got a women wants she will let you know sometimes I think it not always said but, you can see it in their eyes, or that quaint and cute grin. (Oh, thats a turn on....) :smile:


Best thoughts all day,
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Mon 07/20/09 04:18 PM
I am sorry if I have offended anybody or hurt feelings, a bad day doesnt excuse this. I simply wish communication between peoples was less assuming and more direct and open. I do not wish to be rude, I am just frustrated with the current state of life, the human race and our 'beloved' government.

On that note, **** the court system

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Mon 07/20/09 04:11 PM
Edited by CKeef on Mon 07/20/09 04:13 PM

My apologies


Nonsense, none needed. I made this not for pity or venting, but rather an expression to possible discussion. It is a query for the sake of learning, a debate even! I just dont do well with people who put themselves above others, act ignorantly and think selfishly. Judgment sucks, but it'll happen.
Nothin but love for ya girl, respect.

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Mon 07/20/09 04:04 PM
Edited by CKeef on Mon 07/20/09 04:05 PM

Well, you say you aren't upset by this stuff yet you do seem to be.

I don't know what to tell you. People might ignore a call or an IM for a million reasons. Maybe they are driving in their car and don't have a headset so choose to just return it later. Maybe they are in the middle of an arm load of groceries. If online, maybe they are doing some of their job from home and can't stop at that moment. It could be that it isn't ignorance or lack of compassion so much as it was just a bad moment to stop what they were doing, no?


Let me clarify. I am not mad at these actions, but these people. These actions are just a small part of the load of crap people do. And I am referring to times of my past, even though it is present here in the future.... I know for a fact that these times I speak of are not inconvenient or anything like this. If somebody had a bad moment, they call me back and let me know, or answer and let me know. They might forget to call back but let me know when I see them next. And yes, maybe they dont wanna talk to me... my point being I dont see whats so difficult about being real with somebody, wanting to talk or not. If you read my previous statements, I dont know how some can come up with such scenarios when I'm speaking of one specific.

(These people dont call back though. They avoid people at all costs until there is something to be gained from them. This isnt about one day where somebody kept me waiting.)

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