Hell, I thought you were just trying to crack a joke,,, don't let it bite you,,,

To go a little further with this topic,,,

Wouldn't you think that there is a failure of sorts of parental guidence?
really,,,
Since the media has been used so frequently to highlight the tragedy of abuse and chauvenistic ways, doesn't it say a lot about the parents who do not guide their children along the right path in choosing a mate.
I find it hard to believe that women of this era are so naive that they do not know about this and can still be victims,,,
standard rules for the "newbies" of the dating world,,,
If they cheat, they have disgraced you and will do it again unless a major character change takes place.
If they call you names, "" "" "" "" "" ""
If they beat you, "" "" "" "" "" ""
If they treat you in general like a second class citizen, "" "" "" "" "" ""
If you do not see authentic remorse or regret and appropriate changes made to the overall character of said person,,, LEAVE and if it's a violation of your basic human rights,,, REPORT IT

Almost always a breath of thoughtful air,,,


With all of the programs, talk shows and awareness in the world today, isn't this idea of victims and perps being played a little too much these days? When generalizations are made like this, it brings a bit of attention to the OP. Why did you decide to post this? Are you a victim or is someone near and dear to you one? When you throw it out to the forum like this as a blanket statement, it brings about the idea that you think everyone needs to be educated. Do you not believe women of today are more educated on this topic?

and the cons have been weighed,,, rather be bald than have some jacked up chompers like that,,,

I don't know,,,
I'm thinking about weighing the pros and cons,,,
it appears that one guy got more hair out of the deal,,,

damn it, too dark,,,

Huh?

I may be totally off base here but I would ask,,,
why he isn't ready now
is he waiting for something in particular like finishing school
does he want financial stability that isn't "quite there yet"
have you given him a reason to not be ready yet

and if you feel there's a possibility of never, maybe you should take a good look at the situation?

My goof,,, ex GF or SO, no children
as for the R O, I can refrain from it as long as my fingers work well enough to click delete, push decline on the phone but I guess if she were to start making the trek up here, I'd have to go that route,,,

and everyone else,,, thanks,,, I just needed to vent,,,

Please clarify this for me as I am confused,,,
Are you saying I should get a restraining order to "end it"?
What if that is what pushes her over the edge? To be cold in not replying is one thing but to orchestrate a meltdown is sadistic...
J M O

as for the views, to me they don't matter as it appears that once they read the profile or saw the other pics, they decided I am not for them,,, those are simple to deal with,,, but the emails,,, "I've partied too hard and woken up with a football team" in their profile and I don't drink,,, "I know I don't fit in your age range but",,, "I have a clan of cats but they won't make you sneeze",,, lmao

I try to be nice and give a simple reply that says I don't want to be rude but want to respond so they don't wonder,,, when it goes another round, I feel fine in blocking them

2 months ago I left.
Seriously bipolar situation that I couldn't endure any longer.
Went to counseling with her and finally brought it up at the 6th session, that she wasn't taking her meds, would sit and cry and didn't know why, would sometimes not talk for days on end because of something I said or did or thought, that was the last the last session.
Asked her to please take her meds, she refused.
The constant bouncing between I Love You and I don't know if I Love You because you don't agree with me had me drained.
I gave fair warning that there is a time when people lose faith and go away and it was happening to me,,,
If I disagreed, I "didn't love her" , "never loved her" , "wasn't happy".
2 months,,,
Her gf calls me, she sends countless emails, she mails me letters, she texts me. They all bounce between love, hate, sorrow, cursing.
I replied to the secong email saying that I was sorry, that while I cared for her as a person, I could no longer be with her and hoped she would seek help. That is the last time I communicated with her. It still doesn't stop. 2 texts between love and hate and an email yesterday morning. What is really bad is that I can tell that she's drinking and it shows in the texts and email.
I know that if I make any kind of contact, she will misinterpret it and it will be a downward spiral,,,
this sucks,,,

No matter what you put on your profile, people will email you that either don't fit into what you want or they will ask why you want what you want,,,

when you went stealth, it really didn't work...

I was listening to talk radio last week and they were discussing a proposal, if it isn't already passed, that will increase the income tax for Chicago (or IL) people by 50%.
That's bad enough but, they are discussing making it retroactive back to '05.
Can you picture some @ssholes really coming up with this idea as a "way to make money during these difficult times" only to realize that doing it this year wouldn't be enough.
Then, some brainiac crunches a few numbers and says to his constituents,,,"hey guys, if we go back about 5 years, we'll make a lot more,,, I don't see any problem with it".
All I could think was,,, "how about freezing the pay for all of these @sses for the next 5 years and we'll see how quickly that gets shot down,,,

I appreciate it when someone displays their bias or prejudice like that when they claim one gender is ,,, whatever. It helps me to know who to avoid...

Isn't it amazing,,,
our chemical makeup is so fragile that something that could kill you, if in miniscule dosage can make you think you can fly...

shrooms, jimsonweed, salvia,,,

Natures way of saying,,,
Be stupid, I dare ya...

My purpose in life was to be happy and not screw over others,,,
The price you speak of is to live in this country. I'm sure there's others if this one is unpleasant to you...

Wouldn't make a difference to me,,,
Who do I write the check to?