Lust, the cause of many many breakups..
Its said that " when a man has lust for his wife,
he has lust for no other"... opinions?

I am for it ;-)

I've never had lust.

Same here! More lust, I say!

Lust is okay in a relationship but if that is all then I doubt the longevity of it.
A healthy relationship is about more than just sex.

Many relationships start from lust, not love - and when it fades, you are left with nothing.

the only list I have is for my partner. And there's a time and place for everything.

In a sense, 'lust' is the initial reason why you choose to pursue an interest.

It doesn't matter if it is driven by sex, money(wealth) or power.

There's a reason why dating sites provide pictures in the profile.
There's a reason why you gravitate towards someone new at an event.

Attraction starts with lust and grows with familiarity.

Lust gives you reason to want to get to know someone better to see if the two of you have anything in common.

Lust can turn into love once a connection is made between the two of you.
Lust for that special someone can also be broken, just like love can be broken.

Lust itself is not all bad. What makes it bad is what we choose to do with it.
Just like anger is not all bad but what we choose to do while angry can be.

When lust and love are present in the relationship its not a bad thing but when lust exists without love in a relationship, someone gets hurt.
The focus of the lust is also important in a relationship but not as important as what you choose to do with it. Jealously thrives when lust is present without the corresponding love.

Dang ! i suddenly realized I lust after many things in life , and love is one possibility only .... hmmm!!!

sounds like a generalisation .. how long have they been married ??? Lol

Likely his lust will be influenced by testosterone levels , libido, his beliefs about marriage / vows and intimate satisfaction.

Sorry if it is not quite the fairytale you were hoping for .. but there are husbands who can (and do ) lust for more than one woman at the same time

Lust is dust of mind anyone haves, need to be cleaned soon.. before someone bust your lust in dustful hospitably
Think positive and live with good thinking...

So agree. Attraction is healthy, lust is just wanting to fark.
We are body, soul (brain and emotions) and spirit. We need to connect in each area to be truly loved and to love. The emotionally immature can be satisfied briefly with sex, but the emotionally mature will never bow down to settling only for the physical side.
I am all for connecting by mental stimulation, emotional maturity, and yes...attraction can come from two fine minds meeting.

little lust is wonderful, but only lust is disease, love is life 🧬

I am for it

Long live lust.

fark farkity fark fark fark

i prefer to flirt than lust. if i know its on and im already taken i just walk away and feel satisfied i could have had more shag and less nag but i dont have the conscious nor time to go through a mind field of deceit.

dm