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Millennial Males
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Whatchu slagging diesel mechanics for!!??
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Profile photos
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Statistics collected on dating sites states that 3/4 of women lie and 2/3 of the men also lie. I always assume that any date I go on there will be revelations about their profile. I usually accept the corrections to their profile. Age and old pictures is a common issue. If they have lied to you numerous times and demand that you never lie to them, then that is a problem. If women do not fill out their profile, then that is big red flag for most men. As for looks, my late wife looked like she was in her late 20's and she was in her 60's. A couple weeks ago I ran into a girl that I thought was in her late 30's. She was twice that age. Personally I try to find women closer to my age. Concentrate on the important things that will create a happy life-long relationship. I'd be skeptical about those statistics. The numbers sound believable, but I'd be curious how they collected their data. Is it a self reported analysis? What is a lie? Is withholding a truth considered a lie? Why would I report myself as a liar? Is catfishing considered a lie? Do the people catfishing believe they are catfishing? Is a lack of options in drop down menus considered lies? I believe these statistics would be higher, to be honest if it were multivariant. People are trying to sell themselves, so they are going to wash and wax, hide all the bumps and dings to generate the sell - but they are sold as is. |
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Beer or whiskey
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I'd go beer.
Some people can't handle their booze, and you'd find that out in a hurry with whiskey. With beer, it's a slower burn - so it will be easier to manage these types of people. If women are expected at the party, even though their first choice probably wouldn't be beer - I'm sure it is higher on the preference scale than whiskey would be. |
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Of course! Why wouldn't I assume Carlos wants another dude? 3 sums are 3 sums aren't they? 
I have no idea..all I keep thinking is....it would be a good time to have eyes in the back of your head. So you can watch when you're getting eiffle towered? 
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Of course!
Why wouldn't I assume Carlos wants another dude? 3 sums are 3 sums aren't they?
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Topic:
Age is Just A Number
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I'm only in my 50's and I get talked to as if I'm an elderly person. In what context? |
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This is an interesting and highly interactive topic, almost every possible perspective has been discussed. However, after years of navigating the dating scene, I find it incredibly fascinating to interact with younger women, watching them explore their boundaries and interests, recover from failures, and try again. Older women, on the other hand, have already gone through these stages. In short, whether you're interested in the "process" or the "result," both are enjoyable and equally rewarding. I could even make a table about it, haha. Thanks to bobtail76 who stated his "facts", then the fun began, soufiehere, peterb, and Jerome the giraffe 
Interesting point about process and results. I can agree with this. But then you are comparing women into 2 categories - "for fun only", and "for long term success" As for my "facts". There are only facts. Nothing makes them mine. Any dude that would take the older version of the same woman is a liar. The only exception to this, is if the woman is way too young. And even then they would take the minimum amount of years to make it appropriate. I have yet to hear a guy say "you know, I know you're 40 - if you were only 60 we could be together" |
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The marriage is already dead, one more body won't make a difference. So true! Maybe you can run away with the other dude! 
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You charmer ;-)
You are absolutely right with charm. It really does go a long way. Flattery will get you everywhere! 
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Good call Sophie. 
But it IS easier for chicks For the sheer volume of choices you may be right. But alas, men seemed tied to what they see only on the outside, makes them look better and also makes them stand out to their friends, arm candy seems to win the day. Women can be mean, biotchy and calculating, but because of their looks, they are swamped with attention. Had the post been a 'chick' the advice might still be the same, but I simply cannot vouch for men's reactions..how many men do you know who would be proud to have an 'ugly' chick on their arm? Charles Bronson was a star but realistic about his looks..he needn't have worried, women see character and truthfulness long before handsome. Man or woman, charm can go a long way. That's a loaded question Sophie! Ask how many pleasant to be around chicks with a MID face and bod that a guy would be proud to have on their arm. That would be more of an appropriate question to gauge men's motives. I don't think you can use Charles Bronson as an example. The world in the 70's wasn't the same world we live in today. People upgrade their love interests just as often as cell phones because they can. Charles Bronson couldn't make it in today's world. Women are also tied to looks. I think it's human nature for both sexes. I believe for women it is more important for selection, because when it comes to bumping uglies and the potential for pregnancy - there are more consequences at stake for her. I do get the idea of kids having faces only a mother could love, which suggests that women are capable of loving a beast. But I'd think that the mother would want the child to be aesthetically pleasing so the child can flourish in life and not be burdened by one more thing to hold them back. Women can kind of mitigate this with the choice of men they sleep with. You are absolutely right with charm. It really does go a long way. |
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hi, so i have never had a relationship ever. i want to know what is off putting about me? lol anyone answer? to be fair i dont actually go out and i keep to myself, im probably autistic or something i dunno. also look at that huge vein on my head, thats totally because ive been single my entire life. it really shows! lol (they removed my head vein photo but the one with the htler looking tash is ok? lol) As you seem sincere, maybe it is you..entirely. You project who you are by your words, actions and reactions. You also project that you expect failure. Then you give them reasons, handy. I have a fat friend who every time you come into her presence will tell a fat joke. I assume to get there before anyone else can, as armor. I am very different from you. The assumption I make is always, that they will like me. I went to 4 high schools, it was always the same. Always had a smile, a nod, a sympathy look for strangers. Do you? Or are you so poor, focused on the expectation of rejection that you cannot afford pleasantries? That is all it takes, really..you can train your resting face to be more pleasant. I had to, because people would always ask if I was mad at them ;-) It is a simple start, always have a list in your mind of all the things you do well, even if is only listening, a forgotten grace but surefire. Give yourself credit for the positive stuff you are capable of, might make you smile ;-) Good call Sophie.
But it IS easier for chicks |
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Cat gets it.... Men don't actually give a shlt about women's accomplishments. They don't care about confidence, knowing what they want or need, what they stand for or her inner strength. They want peace and virtue. If you have no interest in a potential partner, then get a blow-up doll. Aside from that, what you say is total nonsense. Men are interested in that. Men who are beyond the blow-up doll level and are seriously seeking a great partner that is. Blow up dolls give a lot less back talk and don't spend your money! Keep telling yourself what men are interested in...I'm a guy - what do I know? - men don't date for status. If he does, it's only based on her being hot. He or his friends couldn't give 2 shlts if she has a PHD or how successful she is. He gains points when she's hot, loses points if she's a ho. Gains points when she's pleasant, loses points if she's combative. - women don't share their money with men, so why would he care about how much doh she makes. Women don't offer to pay for first dates - if we want equality, why is that? Some will say chivalry, I may say she's stingy if she's so successful and doesn't want to share. - What she stands for, inner strength, and knowing what they want is another way of sayin she's a potential pain in the azz and a guy won't find peace. A man needs to lead, and he can't do that effectively if he doesn't have submission When you realize men and women ARE different, you'll come to the conclusion that what we value will be different as well. There will be common values, of course - but the priorities will be significantly different. |
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Cat gets it....
Men don't actually give a shlt about women's accomplishments. They don't care about confidence, knowing what they want or need, what they stand for or her inner strength. They want peace and virtue. |
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The site states under everyone's nickname when they joined. I've been here on and of since 2013. It doesn't always mean a lot. I've stayed on here when I was in a relationship. Not because I was still looking but because I like the forums. I'm not seeking a partner here either as people here aren't in my country. I'm the same way. Do/did you think that being on here for the forums is problematic for a significant other? If the shoe were on the other foot, what would you think? |
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Junior is gonna be disappointed
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Hahahahaha!
Y... would you say that! |
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ok...fine.
keep up that mistic allure! |
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Topic:
Men & Women being friends
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That's very true Soufie.... but it must work.
I think SOME (not a lot) women go for that. That's why I think these morons that think sending women a dikk pic work, still do it. They must have had a bite or two doing that, which keeps them to using that tactic |
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