Ah, okay, my apologies!
It was the middle of the night (half past 1) so my brain must've been half asleep and I misread your story.
I still don't agree with spanking your kids though, nor with the bit that parenting should come with a bit of fear.
That's the old model from the time when people didn't know any better and weren't informed about consequences of their action and so on.
And in the olden days people often had a short temper because they were overworked, too tired and so on. Flogging at school etc. was also normal in those days.
But then people often worked 12-14 hours a day, 6 days a week. Quite logical they don't have time to be considerate then. They were dead tired. For me that was the generation of my grand-parents.
Over here that all changed during my parents' generation and certainly mine.
I vaguely recall being spanked once or twice by my dad but that was already odd and considered not-done.
But could be things are different over there. Different countries & cultures, and laws.

Sorry, too, GRB, never saw this ;-)

There is one other adjective that I now see
a lot = Chatter (and only that) for those
with no other objective ;-)

When I was 25 I dated a 55 year old…. And in my 40’s I dated a 23 year old. Both worked

Shouldn't that be the other way round? Makes more sense to me.
I btw rarely drink. Have noticed this seems to be a problem for many men. I guess they don't feel happy when they have to enjoy their beer themselves. As if it tastes any different if I'd drink one too.
Which isn't going to happen. Beer = puke!

Unless you meant not drink anything. That would indeed be very weird! Might indicate she's an alien

You need some good proper tea, not tea bags, and follow the tea ceremony allowing time for it to brew properly, and leave out the add on's, (milk,sugar,etc.) , just enjoy the tea.

I don’t know what really happened people don’t want to interact with me is it because I am in the army or I m not beautiful enough ?

More like there is an up tick in the activity of the scammers trying to cash in on those just looking for a new years hookup. Also there are usually more "dating" apps put out for valentine's day prep during that time of year.

Syrian boy your english has improved or perhaps your taste in poetic literature ???

Reading between the lines .. conveys a story of a connection that ended yet emotional ties of the connection linger .

Awww …. Do you need a box of tissues

Statistics collected on dating sites states that 3/4 of women lie and 2/3 of the men also lie. I always assume that any date I go on there will be revelations about their profile. I usually accept the corrections to their profile. Age and old pictures is a common issue.

If they have lied to you numerous times and demand that you never lie to them, then that is a problem.

If women do not fill out their profile, then that is big red flag for most men.

As for looks, my late wife looked like she was in her late 20's and she was in her 60's. A couple weeks ago I ran into a girl that I thought was in her late 30's. She was twice that age. Personally I try to find women closer to my age.

Concentrate on the important things that will create a happy life-long relationship.