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Cat gets it.... Men don't actually give a shlt about women's accomplishments. They don't care about confidence, knowing what they want or need, what they stand for or her inner strength. They want peace and virtue. If you have no interest in a potential partner, then get a blow-up doll. Aside from that, what you say is total nonsense. Men are interested in that. Men who are beyond the blow-up doll level and are seriously seeking a great partner that is. Blow up dolls give a lot less back talk and don't spend your money! Keep telling yourself what men are interested in...I'm a guy - what do I know? - men don't date for status. If he does, it's only based on her being hot. He or his friends couldn't give 2 shlts if she has a PHD or how successful she is. He gains points when she's hot, loses points if she's a ho. Gains points when she's pleasant, loses points if she's combative. - women don't share their money with men, so why would he care about how much doh she makes. Women don't offer to pay for first dates - if we want equality, why is that? Some will say chivalry, I may say she's stingy if she's so successful and doesn't want to share. - What she stands for, inner strength, and knowing what they want is another way of sayin she's a potential pain in the azz and a guy won't find peace. A man needs to lead, and he can't do that effectively if he doesn't have submission When you realize men and women ARE different, you'll come to the conclusion that what we value will be different as well. There will be common values, of course - but the priorities will be significantly different. |
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Cat gets it....
Men don't actually give a shlt about women's accomplishments. They don't care about confidence, knowing what they want or need, what they stand for or her inner strength. They want peace and virtue. |
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The site states under everyone's nickname when they joined. I've been here on and of since 2013. It doesn't always mean a lot. I've stayed on here when I was in a relationship. Not because I was still looking but because I like the forums. I'm not seeking a partner here either as people here aren't in my country. I'm the same way. Do/did you think that being on here for the forums is problematic for a significant other? If the shoe were on the other foot, what would you think? |
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Junior is gonna be disappointed
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Hahahahaha!
Y... would you say that! |
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ok...fine.
keep up that mistic allure! |
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Topic:
Men & Women being friends
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That's very true Soufie.... but it must work.
I think SOME (not a lot) women go for that. That's why I think these morons that think sending women a dikk pic work, still do it. They must have had a bite or two doing that, which keeps them to using that tactic |
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Sofhie I'm 33 I need a friend that is mature and older than me too explain wisdom I'm nature. Love Oregon but need a friend that is mature and older for the amazing mistic experience. Hmmm
Are you gonna teach this whipper snapper a thing or two Soufie? |
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Not according to my homegirl, Soufie
Pay attention
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Settle down little fella - one point at a time:
- I was making a counter point to your slanted boo-hoo article that included kids. I wasn't connecting kids to anything... they brought it up to gain sympathy. Perhaps you don't care about trafficked kids - You're right... you don't know what's going on in my life. What the relevancy of that is, God knows - For people that don't break any law, is not nice, so agreed. For filthy border crossing aliens...they get what's coming to them, whatever that may be. That is the inherent risk they take when they cross the border illegally. They have the potential to be shot when they are crossing the border. All subsequent punishments are less than death. There are probable legal ramifications for detaining US citizens for days and weeks and months on end and will be compensated. - Pets left at home are still the responsibility of the illegal that had no right to have said pet in the US. If they were responsible pet owners, they'd have at the very least, animal control to pick up the animal. Placing the onus on the government, yet again. - I don't see the point on body shaming ICE employees other than your vitriol. How about some love to all those buff ICE dudes? They should get some assault and batter credit as well. Let's play semantic games: you say assault and batter... I say arrest. You aren't in their position but I'm sure if you were, all your arrests would be handled with kid gloves and speech would be Ned Flanders-esk. - Fat cats will do fat cat things. You will get no argument from me. There should be more accountability for the tax payers dollar - |
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or mold
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Topic:
Men & Women being friends
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2 years ago I had a date with a man from a dating site. That didn't work out at all, we both felt that way. I kinda expected it upfront and we just didn't really click. Nevertheless we occasionally stayed in touch. Not necessarily as friends but because he was interested in a couple of my paintings, over time bought two of them. And I did a reading for him, paid for as well. In any case, he wanted to visit me somewhere in August, just a friendly visit. He wanted to give food from an air-fryer a shot before buying one and I have one. And he just liked to come & see me. I consented. But for me there's nothing more, I have no feelings for him. Some time went by and then he said to visit again and go out to dinner. So to me that's like "you made dinner last time, now I will return the favour." Dinner was lovely, great food, conversation etc. also okay. But he still isn't a good match concerning love for me. Before we went to the restaurant he was fishing, said something in the vein that it was enough to like each other, that possibly more could come from that. Or that just liking each other was enough. Well, not for me! And I made that clear as well. I didn't give any sign that I was interested in more, or in sex. Yet back at my place for a cup of coffee to end the day he suddenly asked if I wanted him to spend the night. WTF??? NO! It actually came out of the blue, took me by surprise. Of course he didn't spend the night. He doesn't turn me on so even if I had wanted sex, it wouldn't have worked. I've never believed in men & women being friends and I feel this proves my case. There's always one who wants more. Unless one or both are gay. I still don't know what made him think of asking that question. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky No, men and women cannot be platonic friends - unless it's like your buddy's ol lady or something. But that would include your buddy, which would just be an extension of the buddy. If a guy we're to go out with his buddy's ol lady without the friend - that is also a no-no. There are several scenarios that exist in this dynamic - pick one and you'll have your answer. Several even may apply: 1) either the man or the woman wants something other than platonic 2) man has been put in friend zone and has either the desperation or the time and patience to wait out that friend zone 3) woman keeps a man around, knowing his intentions - keeps him around for the endless supply of attention or validation 4) Either sex keeps the other around as a contingency plan 5) Woman keeps a man around to receive husband benefits - fixing cars, moving ****, etc 6) Man keeps woman around for puzzy shrapnel, either through her friends or being seen with said woman, around other women My guess would be, because you stayed in touch, it didn't go as awful as you say. The fact you accepted another encounter under the guise of an air fryer, that would suggest for him to take that shot. I would say there's some culpability on your part. |
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Topic:
Finding a partner
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I am a woman from Kolkata, India, looking for single ladies for dating Hahahahaha |
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170 country wide vs how many millions are there illegally - only according to pro-publica???
Even if true, I'd say those are good numbers. They had 20 children and 2 cancer patients? Oh man...I wonder how many of them lost a goldfish or cried when their hamster died. Did any of them have to go to bed with no supper too because they didn't turn off the xbox? Oh the humanity. I say 20 kids getting checked out is worth saving 1 kid from getting trafficked |
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Topic:
Age is Just A Number
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I don't think the polarization is an age thing. It's a societal shift.
There are the differences that every generation will die on that hill - like music, but for the most part I think older generations take a step back and let the young 'uns take their turn, as they should. |
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Edited by
bobtail76
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Topic:
Age is Just A Number
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I can agree with that as well, I was more curious about the
"It is going to be 'you' against 'them'." and "As you gain in knowledge, they lose their tact. " |
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Topic:
Age is Just A Number
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Age is Just A Number..
And as that number climbs be prepared to seem useless to a large segment of society. It is going to be 'you' against 'them'. As you gain in knowledge, they lose their tact. Clarify please!
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