Topic: can someone's disability affect
Yolanda 's photo
Mon 06/28/21 08:41 AM
one's love life?

Poetrywriter's photo
Mon 06/28/21 08:42 AM
Only if that someone lets it affect their love life.

Kevin's photo
Mon 06/28/21 08:49 AM
It should not. Now, whether it can - well that depends on many factors! But if love is based on reality, it's TRUE, and thereafter it must not affect the feelings in a destructive manner.

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 06/28/21 12:50 PM

Just put a few blue pills in his tea.

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mzrosie's photo
Mon 06/28/21 02:21 PM
What kind of disability are you referring to?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 06/28/21 02:29 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 06/28/21 02:31 PM
It sure can, although of course it depends on what and how it affects a relationship / the other person.
I think when online dating it can be even more difficult as then it is very easy to skip or reject someone because you don't make an emotional connection right away.
In real life you see each other, there's body language, and so on, which might make someone overlook the disability because they like your personality.

In a way that also goes for being considered unattractive for other reasons btw.
Online is easier to reject someone.

But... it is important to keep the faith, keep feeling you're worthy, regardless.
Thing is, if you make an issue out of something, the other will too as you will inadvertently attract attention to it and thus make it bigger than it is.
Meaning if you truly feel you can add to someone's life, are valuable and worthy to be loved and desired, the other will much easier see you that way too.

no photo
Mon 06/28/21 02:56 PM


Just put a few blue pills in his tea.

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Jamari's photo
Mon 06/28/21 09:18 PM
Someones disability can't affect the relationship, because of perception. If your perception is based on the person disability, what does that say about you. You love regardless, no matter what, and shouldn't be with anyone who has a disability if you gon criticize and not support them.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Sun 07/04/21 11:33 AM
Definitely.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/04/21 04:24 PM
Just saying anything can effect ones love life.. and disability's, is one of those things.

It could cause others to think twice all depending on what or how extreme the disability is, if they would date them or not.. Or the disability could be keeping them from having a love life. Which could cause issues when they first meet someone that is wanting a partner that is sexual.

To say it could not is not reality..

I have known some that would not even consider dating someone that was not into keeping in shape.. For they spent a lot of their time there and wanted someone that was into exercising.

Then knew a couple that she was in a wheel chair and was when they first meet. They fell in love and got married..

It all depends on the connection between two people, if it will be an issue or not.. There will be some that may not consider dating someone with a disability, for we all have our own preference in life what we are looking for..

When you have that connections it seems that many of the life issues that you thought you could not or would not deal with seems to no longer matter..






Slim gym 's photo
Sun 07/04/21 04:36 PM
Edited by Slim gym on Sun 07/04/21 04:37 PM
My love life is disrupted for the time being .. Is that considered a disability !!! I don't think so !!
Okay , I don't want those blue pills in my tea . Is that a rejection of my love life to... I am now Confused ....
But hey! I am doing just fine ... thank you very much ... Carry on calmly!!!

Micheal's photo
Wed 07/07/21 05:16 AM

It should not. Now, whether it can - well that depends on many factors! But if love is based on reality, it's TRUE, and thereafter it must not affect the feelings in a destructive manner.

Yes you are right

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 07/07/21 02:34 PM
It depends on what kind of disability you're speaking of.

Yes, it could.

Rock's photo
Wed 07/07/21 08:49 PM
It's all in presentation.

A disability can affect one's view of self.
And, that can have a serious impact on the
social life of the individual.
Positivity begets positivity.
Negativity begets negativity.


no photo
Fri 08/06/21 11:21 AM

one's love life?


I guess it all depends on the injury but the question I guess that you need to find out is his tongue in a wheelchair. bigsmile

Stu's photo
Fri 08/06/21 04:34 PM
Being disabled myself.. most certainly yes. Rocks post is fairly spot on though. Not only can it impact you physically, but emotionally as well, not to mention financially, which leads to self doubt and feelings of worth of ones self.

no photo
Fri 08/06/21 08:00 PM
Definitely.

My ex would never speak loud enough to me, because I have tinnitus, and some loss of hearing. Which I found odd, because she was deaf in one ear. I purposely stayed to her left side, so she could hear me. (Her good ear.)

Oh well. I'm better off anyway.

no photo
Fri 08/06/21 09:18 PM
Evvvvvvverything can affect someone's love life.
Just remember you only need one other who is compatible -so don't worry about everyone.