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Topic: Do you Cry / Tear Up Easily?
Larsi666 ๐Ÿ˜ฝ's photo
Tue 03/23/21 03:51 AM


I am some sentimental old git :wink:

Tears of joy, when one of my football teams wins an important match, or my parents have good news about their numerous surgeries.

Tears of sadness when somebody in one of my FB cat groups has to send a cat over the rainbow bridge.

And I still can't watch Lassie without crying.

Sometimes it's a good thing to be alone isn't it?! It always make me a li'l awkward when I tear up or cry when someone's around.
For instance, I also teared up when my daughter showed me these veterans & healthcare workers protecting protesters.
The beauty of that moved me deeply. And then I'm sat there with watery eyes, and she sees that... awkward... hihi.



I am not really alone, my cats are a great company indeed. They know when I am down in the dumps and they cheer me up. And they have seen a few tears alright.

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Tue 03/23/21 08:36 AM

I love spoiled rotten gals because they don't know how to control their emotions and cry everytime they don't get their way. It is so much easier to read their mind... we all know how hard it is to read a woman's mind. I don't think most women can read their own mind :open_mouth:

Maybe you could stick to the topic.
You can always start your own rant topic.
And watching Bambi might be of help....
--->>>

Larsi666 ๐Ÿ˜ฝ's photo
Tue 03/23/21 08:39 AM


I love spoiled rotten gals because they don't know how to control their emotions and cry everytime they don't get their way. It is so much easier to read their mind... we all know how hard it is to read a woman's mind. I don't think most women can read their own mind :open_mouth:

Maybe you could stick to the topic.
You can always start your own rant topic.
And watching Bambi might be of help....
--->>>



I robbed Bambi, as we speak :thumbsup:

I mean, even animated characters make my eyes wet sometimes. Eeyore, for example love

 โ˜ฎ๏ธ Coolchic Dee ๐Ÿ’Ÿ's photo
Tue 03/23/21 09:13 AM


I have to admit that I am very tender-hearted and get teary ๐Ÿฅฒ especially when it comes to watching
โ€œsappyโ€œ movies, and the โ€œsoapโ€ I used to watch(the Young and the Restless), I donโ€™t watch it very often
these days whoa The one thing that really makes me want to cry my eyes out is the TV commercial for the ASPCA about abused and neglected animals tears I have to change the channel when it comes on!
sad tears

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Tue 03/23/21 09:14 AM



I love spoiled rotten gals because they don't know how to control their emotions and cry everytime they don't get their way. It is so much easier to read their mind... we all know how hard it is to read a woman's mind. I don't think most women can read their own mind :open_mouth:

Maybe you could stick to the topic.
You can always start your own rant topic.
And watching Bambi might be of help....
--->>>



I robbed Bambi, as we speak :thumbsup:

I mean, even animated characters make my eyes wet sometimes. Eeyore, for example love

I think Bambi was the first ever Disney I got acquainted with, at first via Viewmaster only. I loved it!!

Slim gym 's photo
Tue 03/23/21 09:59 AM
Something wrong with me by the looks of it... I never seem to get the tears rolling .... if only for a second , if I am emotionally into a topic , movie etc etc ...perhaps I have seen to much crap not to have strong defences !!!

Poetrywriter's photo
Tue 03/23/21 10:14 AM
I am a pushover for a good romantic movie or a tear jerking movie. But I am a good actor too. When the tears start flowing I will fake a sneeze and get my hankie out and fake wipe my nose while at the same time wiping the tears away. Academy Award time. laugh

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Tue 03/23/21 10:30 AM

I am a pushover for a good romantic movie or a tear jerking movie. But I am a good actor too. When the tears start flowing I will fake a sneeze and get my hankie out and fake wipe my nose while at the same time wiping the tears away. Academy Award time. laugh

Hahaha, funny!
And you know wot, happy to hear of another man who can get emotional this way.
I like a man who hasn't got his heart under lock & key :)
flowerforyou

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/23/21 10:36 AM
Another thing which can make me cry is listening to certain songs at certain times. Some songs hit me hard. Some singers and guitar work bring a tear to me.
Especially when the talent is extreme. Certain blend cause me to cry. Like soft guitar with blending sax, harmonica or voice. Bagpipes done well can make me tear up.

I've noticed when I tear up watching movies its because I tend to stare too long at the screen. This happens more frequently with watching at night in a dark room with only the TV screen lit. May also explain why I tear up in movie theaters.

Unchecked anger can make me cry if it gets away from me, usually when I can see no solution.

My children's life problems and their failure to correct them can make me cry out of helplessness.

Funny thing tho, I seem to never cry for myself anymore.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Tue 03/23/21 11:42 AM
Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Tue 03/23/21 11:48 AM
I just received a few packages from my son. A few years ago I sent him a bunch of keepsakes and photos for safe keeping. sad

Yes, I cry easily, with tears of joy and tears of sadness.

With movies... I don't watch a lot of really sad movies because they affect me so deeply. When I'm watching a movie, I tend to escape so far into it that it's like I'm right there in the mist of the scenes. It's hard to explain, haha. But I end up feeling what the actors are feeling, whether it's sadness, joy, fear, excitement, etc..

Music effects me the same way. There's certain songs/music I won't listen to because of the adverse effect it has on me. I listen to a couple spiritual songs every morning, the same ones, and I inevitably tear up each time I listen to them, with tears of joy.




soufiehere's photo
Tue 03/23/21 11:51 AM
I cry like a baby, anywhere, anytime.
I cry at inappropriate times..church, funerals, weddings.
I have absolutely no control over it.
Once so moved, the tears just flow.

I am sure some use it as a technique, I wish they could
tell me how they do it ;-)

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/23/21 01:01 PM
I have really bad sinuses and allergies.
Sometimes it looks like I'm crying when I really am not.
I keep tissues handy all thru the house and car.
I also keep sinus and allergy meds handy.

If you are shy about crying, complain about allergies and sinuses.
Works better if you have a history of a leaky face tho.

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Tue 03/23/21 01:16 PM
I'm happy that there are quite a few people that are the same with this :)

So how do you feel if you're with a relatively new partner / new person your dating and having to cry during or after a movie?
When that happens to me -which is often- I tend to think, "Boy am I now glad to be single!" haha.
Do you just cry freely or try to hold it back?

Slim gym 's photo
Tue 03/23/21 01:35 PM
dang ..... if my date/ new person I am with starts crying for whatever reason, first I take the blame and then cry with her .... hate to see her cry alone ..... but also because I would think... wow ! we have this in common!!!!

no photo
Tue 03/23/21 07:09 PM
I rarely cry it takes alot to make me cry. My dog Boston passed 08/21/2020 and I cried before that the only time I remember crying was when my dad passed away 05/08/2013.

Bastet127's photo
Tue 03/23/21 07:13 PM
Tears donโ€™t come easy for me, but I just read, as an Aquarian, music
is very emotional for me, and that is true.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/23/21 10:17 PM

I'm happy that there are quite a few people that are the same with this :)

So how do you feel if you're with a relatively new partner / new person your dating and having to cry during or after a movie?
When that happens to me -which is often- I tend to think, "Boy am I now glad to be single!" haha.
Do you just cry freely or try to hold it back?

It happened the first night we spent together.
I explained, no problems...done deal.

mysticalview21's photo
Thu 03/25/21 09:02 AM
very little anymore ... my meds help with that becouse at one point I could not stop ... when I had my break down ... little better on the meds if you want honestly ...

no photo
Sat 03/27/21 01:35 PM
I can go through hell and not cry for myself, but sad movies get me every time. I think they tap into uncried tears about other things, but mostly for others.
I understand this life is the process by which we are made strong in doing good (some later than others) -and that all will be made right, so I really do "count it all joy" -even if it is not joyful at the time.

There is no time to cry all the tears the world warrants -so might as well use the time making happiness as much as possible.

Acquired Taste's photo
Sat 03/27/21 04:06 PM
Edited by Acquired Taste on Sat 03/27/21 04:39 PM
usually when watching hulu and something reminds me of something that happened to me..
my mom was always crying watching tv...p.s. 5 years ago i cried at my break up and hardly ever cry so for a month or more i was really weepy...i think i broke out of the family stoicism at that time...p.s. my dad lived to be 81, never saw him cry, nobody did as far as i know....very happy jolly popular guy mostly but i think the rest of the family that he was a bit much that way...

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