Topic: Relationship decision making!
Abegirl's photo
Mon 08/03/20 05:25 AM
Will you end a relationship because of immaturity? YES or NO? why?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 08/03/20 05:31 AM
Yes, but it does depend to some extend on when, how often, which areas/what with etc.
And of course also you having to be reasonable. By which I mean you may think and feel something is immature, but is it really?

I have ended a relationship partly because my partner was emotionally immature. In the sense that I didn't get the support as a woman from him. I had to carry everything on my shoulders, also when there was trouble going on with our kids.
So it can be a reason, yes.

Rock's photo
Mon 08/03/20 05:43 AM
Yes!

But, it's dependent on time and place.


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Mon 08/03/20 05:48 AM
It all depends on the age of the person involved. Men tend to take longer to mature mentally and emotionally than do women. If you've talked this over with them, they don't change and it's irritating and a burden, then yes.

person L 's photo
Mon 08/03/20 07:37 AM
maturity is knowing when to walk away

you cant make anyone respect you.you can certainly choose not to be disrespected

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Mon 08/03/20 08:22 AM

Will you end a relationship because of immaturity? YES or NO? why?


Define relationship? If I begin dating a man who later shows he's emotionally immature, I would stop dating him. For me emotional immaturity would be someone who wasn't in touch with their emotions, emotionally unavailable, and didn't take responsibility for his own emotions.

As far as a more serious relationship goes... I wouldn't start a relationship with someone who was, in my opinion, immature. Why? Because if our maturity levels aren't compatible in the beginning of a relationship, it would be foolish to think it will change later in the relationship. When I enter into a relationship with a man, it will be with a man that I like wholeheartedly for who he is now, not for who he may be someday.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 08/03/20 09:36 AM
abegirl, from your photo it appears you are a young adult.
Maturity is in your focus as you now accept a higher degree of responsibility in your life.
Others in your age group might seem immature because they have different definitions of maturity.

People are cut from different patterns. We don't all reach maturity at the same time, nor do we all deal with our responsibilities the same way. Some of us are very serious when it comes to life while others take life lightly.

At 59 years, I have things I am serious about and things I accept with a childish playfulness. My responsibilities are light at my age (much less than they were) so I have room to have some fun while maintaining my responsibilities. Just because I can be playful and fun doesn't mean I am immature.

Responsibilities can weigh you down in life. They can suck all the fun out of you. Having fun while you are responsible doesn't mean you are immature.

If you are in a relationship and your partner seems immature because they won't take it serious, perhaps they just have a different outlook on things.
But, if you are not important to your partner, that relationship will certainly fail.

I look back on my years raising my family and think, "Why was I so serious about everything all the time?" In a sense, that was immature. Maturity would make me realize not everything in life must be taken so deadly serious.
Its okay to have some fun while maintaining your responsibilities.
Sometimes, ya just gotta light up!

ctr916's photo
Mon 08/03/20 11:21 AM
It depends. I sometimes love it when my new girlfriend "breaks in her new guy".

no photo
Mon 08/03/20 02:27 PM
Will you end a relationship because of immaturity? YES or NO?

YES.

why?

It's as good a reason as any.

no photo
Mon 08/03/20 02:42 PM
no
i wouldn't start a relationship because of immaturity

feelyoungagain's photo
Mon 08/03/20 03:57 PM

Will you end a relationship because of immaturity? YES or NO? why?


It depends where the immaturity lies and if/how it affects me.

Acquired Taste's photo
Mon 08/03/20 04:30 PM
Well if it were my maturity or immaturity in question i would leave it up to them then.

Bastet127's photo
Mon 08/03/20 06:33 PM

no
i wouldn't start a relationship because of immaturity


^ this!

Ben's photo
Mon 08/03/20 06:43 PM
No

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Mon 08/03/20 07:23 PM
hi

Danish's photo
Tue 08/04/20 03:43 AM
no

কাঁচের দেয়াল's photo
Tue 08/04/20 03:52 AM
Good afternoon

Tayo's photo
Thu 08/06/20 06:13 AM
Abegirl,
It depends on what you want want in life. You have goals and relationships should help and achieving those goals and likewise for your partner.

People are difeerent and it takes time to understand our partners but sometimes we are impatient.

The world we live in now pretty much forces us to do things we really don't care about, MONEY, POWER, SUCCESS, etc.

You have to consider what is really good for you and if you already have a child, consider what is god for the child as well.

John's photo
Sat 08/08/20 04:12 PM
Hi Krystall I feel your pain my ex wife did that to me xxx