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Topic: Why don't we care a partner like we care a child??
nilessh's photo
Tue 05/12/20 04:10 PM
I feel that when a mother take care of a child ..The emotions are in heaven . It is the day that every women wants to live..But why can't we take care of our partner like a child..

moomin's photo
Tue 05/12/20 06:02 PM
There’s a big difference between a child an a grown adult !!!!!

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Tue 05/12/20 06:10 PM
Why don't we care a partner like we care a child?

Some do.
They're called professional dominatrix's and they have clients with adult baby fetishes.

Other than that, have you seen how some people care about their pets?
Some people care more for their pets than their children.
Why don't we care a partner like a p...oh wait, there's furries and bronies.


europeanimport7's photo
Tue 05/12/20 06:21 PM

There’s a big difference between a child an a grown adult !!!!!


Why?

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Tue 05/12/20 07:55 PM

I feel that when a mother take care of a child ..The emotions are in heaven . It is the day that every women wants to live..But why can't we take care of our partner like a child..






Rock's photo
Tue 05/12/20 08:41 PM

I feel that when a mother take care of a child ..The emotions are in heaven . It is the day that every women wants to live..But why can't we take care of our partner like a child..


Why is a woman 100% responsible for taking
care of your emotional state?

Yet, you seem to offer her nothing in return.


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Tue 05/12/20 09:31 PM
I really don't care about children.

maybwecan's photo
Tue 05/12/20 10:13 PM
Edited by maybwecan on Tue 05/12/20 10:18 PM


Why don't we care a partner like we care a child??

I feel that when a mother take care of a child ..The emotions are in heaven . It is the day that every women wants to live..But why can't we take care of our partner like a child..


Who are you referring to when you say "WE"?...if it is "YOU", why don't you say "I" (referring to yourself)

Perhaps in your family environment that was/is the case...and if so, own up to it...

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Tue 05/12/20 11:44 PM

I really don't care about children.

I hope there is more to the story lolololol

nilessh's photo
Mon 05/18/20 12:46 PM
I m very happy and grateful to see that people are so practical rather than emotional.. Absolutely..If make yourself practical then it is easy to find a partner and after some time if we doesn't match of each other it is easy to lose a partner..

But if you are emotionally touched with your partner you will attached with her/him. Like a parent sacrificing everything for his /her child.. same will scarify everything for our partner..
It is an emotions that can not explain in the word

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Mon 05/18/20 01:29 PM
SMH

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 05/18/20 02:16 PM

I m very happy and grateful to see that people are so practical rather than emotional.. Absolutely..If make yourself practical then it is easy to find a partner and after some time if we doesn't match of each other it is easy to lose a partner..

But if you are emotionally touched with your partner you will attached with her/him. Like a parent sacrificing everything for his /her child.. same will scarify everything for our partner..
It is an emotions that can not explain in the word

You have no children, so what do you know about it?
A child is totally different, blood connection and also responsibility for life.
A partner is not a responsibility.
You can leave a partner, you cannot ever leave your child as the blood bond will always remain.
In a healthy relationship you don't sacrifice, you occasionally compromise. You also don't sacrifice for your child btw. You choose to have a child and then take care of it. I don't see that as a sacrifice, and never did.

Maybe get some experience under your belt so you know what you're talking about...

nilessh's photo
Mon 05/18/20 02:30 PM
I believe if we love our partner like how we love our child ..You will live for him/her and will be with her forever..We just need to understand that like she is the world's best women in my life ..And I will not let her go ..Will take care of her happiness forever

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Mon 05/18/20 02:44 PM


You have no children, so what do you know about it?
A child is totally different, blood connection and also responsibility for life.
A partner is not a responsibility.
You can leave a partner, you cannot ever leave your child as the blood bond will always remain.
In a healthy relationship you don't sacrifice, you occasionally compromise. You also don't sacrifice for your child btw. You choose to have a child and then take care of it. I don't see that as a sacrifice, and never did.

Maybe get some experience under your belt so you know what you're talking about...


I would disagree with you on only one aspect. A partner is a responsibility...but it is a shared responsibility. Both sides need to make sure the other is taken care of and propped up when needed unlike what OP is referring to...it being a one-way street. Neither side is superior and there are always times when one side or the other may need a bit o' shoring up in a time of crisis.

moomin's photo
Mon 05/18/20 02:57 PM

I believe if we love our partner like how we love our child ..You will live for him/her and will be with her forever..We just need to understand that like she is the world's best women in my life ..And I will not let her go ..Will take care of her happiness forever

So much humour , I don’t think you have a clue ,it’s obvious you do not have children !!
A love for a child is not the same love you have for a partner .
Just chatting bull , grinds my gears when people do not have a clue what they are on about

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 05/18/20 03:08 PM
I eat mud pies and poop werewolf trains.

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 05/18/20 04:39 PM

I feel that when a mother take care of a child ..The emotions are in heaven . It is the day that every women wants to live..But why can't we take care of our partner like a child..



Because my partner is a MAN.

Blaze's photo
Mon 05/18/20 05:40 PM
I don't have a child yet so i can't comment how it feels to bond with someone who is your own image and blood.

But i do know how my parents feel towards me as their son. Just recently my mother showed me my dads photo from 1993. He was holding me, He was around my age and he looked almost exactly like me with a beard. Suddenly i had a feeling as if i am his image or I'm a part of his existence. My father loves me alot and i guess i know now why he does. Perhaps he sees me as his legacy but I'm different from him in some aspects.


Love between a parent and a child is very different from a partner. I would say a parent-child relationship is way more deeper.

nilessh's photo
Mon 05/18/20 10:03 PM
I think we don't need a blood relation to love someone..Child is a child ..We can't described a love between child and adult..Love is a emotion...

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Tue 05/19/20 12:42 AM
Hello nilessh ..waving love is not always unconditional .. or ever lasting .... that is an ideal of love and for many may not be reality . Love is subjective and shaped by our lived experience . When there is dysfunction In a relationship love can easily be destroyed .

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