I was married just 20 months on my second marriage and she pushed hard for me to marry her. Long story short I had horrible dating experiences between my first marriage and meeting this woman. This woman turned out to be an alcoholic, has a personality disorder of some sort. I had red flag after red flag and kicked her out. Then during the divorce she is screwing her married lawyer, messaging me through a fake Facebook account telling me all sorts of insane things.

So back to my question if people really want relationships. Since I divorced that psycho I have run into nothing but games from women. They seem to want to have sex or at least most of them which seems like that used to be a guys role years back. Now the women seem to play the field and just keep their options open looking for the next best thing.

that's a bummer man

"Do people really want relationships any more."

Nope. Changed my mind.
And after only three days here...

BE the hero!

Sorry this had happened to you, canttopthis.

Your second wife, did you meet her here on Mingle2 or other dating sites?
How did she push hard on you to marry her? Was she pregnant? Was she an illegal and about to be deported? Were you desperate at the time you married her that you didn't notice that she was an alcoholic and a psycho?

Women only wanting sex and not relationship? I guess you are luckier than most lol. Perhaps your problem is what kind of women you are attracted to or attracting... sex maniacs, alcoholics and psychos? What about trying to date normal ladies who seek love and relationship next time huh?

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck

I met her on Match and she was is a manipulator and scams men for a living. I was the only guy she married but she asked me during sex if I was going to marry her. I said yes but again during sex I would say I killed JFF if you asked. We got married way too soon and it was her pushing it. I am a grown man so clearly I could have stopped it but I was married to my first wife for 18 years and never realized after being with her who she really was so I thought "hell-maybe you never know."

We got married within 6 weeks so I didn't know her red flags or her alcoholism until into the marriage. I didn't know about a psychological issue until going through the divorce and she refused to give her medical history because of it.

She was screwing her lawyer during the divorce and I know needed to land a man quickly as she had to get her car out of my name by a certain date. Sure enough she scammed another man into financing her car out of my name and I am sure will screw him over in time. She has black mailed married me, she has claimed sexual harassment. She is one dangerous and crazy woman.

That's unfortunate whatever happened to you. Nothing can compensate for the emotional trauma she put on you. Perhaps now you feel insecure and paranoid about women. I hope you get out of it soon.

Marriage is a big decision. You must marry only after knowing her truly. I suppose you thought you knew her well. Not all woman are like that psycho but yes now that woman are coming out on equal platform with men, it was supposed to happen. Also i wonder what made that woman turn into a psycho? Did she worked? Did she lose her job? Did she got any help from government for personality disorder so she can function well?

My advice is don't give up on dating. You'll find someone much better. Good luck

So simple: most men marry for sex and most women marry for the relationship. The 2 will never be compatible!

I will

I don't want a relationship.

Nope, I'm not looking for a relationship just now. However, that could change in the future but right now, I'm happy being single and enjoying the single life.

Since I took control of my life back from the pink prince I no longer want a relationship just company now and then

Difficult to find a real partner now a days. Be strong and have faith

I don't quite get the story. There's two women and you were married to both?? The last one wasn't great???

You know, dating and relationships mirror where YOU are in life. You attract people meaning that if you attract someone who's difficult you got to look at yourself.
Are you really over your divorce? Are you really emotionally available? Are you really ready and willing to make a commitment? Etc.
Likely the answers are no, no, no, no. Provided you're honest.
Use dating as a mirror to see where you are. As soon as you start meeting great women you know you are a great match for a woman yourself.
As long as you come across women who aren't so great you know you aren't a great match for anyone yourself as you're not ready.

Newsflash: According to research among men most of them want a committed relationship.

I want a relationship too. A committed, interdependent relationship.

Well said

Keep trying don’t give up on dating you’ll find the right person one day

Contact me I am interested if you want to connect :D I'm looking for someone :)

While you may be right on men wanting a committed relationship, I suspect the details of what that relationship is are very different. The devil is in the details!!

I think for me Yes, Because Love is something that we can give. We already feel heartaches and be broken and thats normal coz we're Human. Relationships involve with Love. at the end of the day we still feel like "we need someone to feel in love with" If you are sincere then there is someone out there for you. Just saying

Nice talk