Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?
I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 12/02/19 02:59 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Mon 12/02/19 03:01 PM

I met her on Match and she was is a manipulator and scams men for a living. I was the only guy she married but she asked me during sex if I was going to marry her. I said yes but again during sex I would say I killed JFF if you asked. We got married way too soon and it was her pushing it. I am a grown man so clearly I could have stopped it but I was married to my first wife for 18 years and never realized after being with her who she really was so I thought "hell-maybe you never know."

We got married within 6 weeks so I didn't know her red flags or her alcoholism until into the marriage. I didn't know about a psychological issue until going through the divorce and she refused to give her medical history because of it.

She was screwing her lawyer during the divorce and I know needed to land a man quickly as she had to get her car out of my name by a certain date. Sure enough she scammed another man into financing her car out of my name and I am sure will screw him over in time. She has black mailed married me, she has claimed sexual harassment. She is one dangerous and crazy woman.


And yet, I *still* get **** about being so careful and picky and screening thoroughly...to avoid stuff like this..

I'm guessing you guys didn't live together for a bit before getting married?
That should have been the first step....because someone can keep up a pretense if you are just dating, but....living with someone day-to-day gives you a whole other look onto their personality..

I would NEVER marry anyone unless I lived with them first.


I don't knnow how these women do it....da*n..she got a car off some dude..I can't even get a date... sad

canttopthis's photo
Mon 12/02/19 03:15 PM
After we had sex which was immediate-then she lived with me from that day forward. There were signs which I took as a sign of her “getting used to a relationship.” But clearly she was on a mission. She didn’t get **** which pissed her off, but just made me lose further faith in people.

canttopthis's photo
Mon 12/02/19 03:16 PM

Contact me I am interested if you want to connect :D I'm looking for someone :)



I’m straight:). Good luck though.

mzrosie's photo
Mon 12/02/19 03:22 PM


Contact me I am interested if you want to connect :D I'm looking for someone :)



I’m straight:). Good luck though.


laugh I think the comment was for woman who posted above him. But that was gracious of you.

Mike6615's photo
Mon 12/02/19 03:26 PM

I met her on Match and she was is a manipulator and scams men for a living. I was the only guy she married but she asked me during sex if I was going to marry her. I said yes but again during sex I would say I killed JFF if you asked. We got married way too soon and it was her pushing it. I am a grown man so clearly I could have stopped it but I was married to my first wife for 18 years and never realized after being with her who she really was so I thought "hell-maybe you never know."

We got married within 6 weeks so I didn't know her red flags or her alcoholism until into the marriage. I didn't know about a psychological issue until going through the divorce and she refused to give her medical history because of it.

She was screwing her lawyer during the divorce and I know needed to land a man quickly as she had to get her car out of my name by a certain date. Sure enough she scammed another man into financing her car out of my name and I am sure will screw him over in time. She has black mailed married me, she has claimed sexual harassment. She is one dangerous and crazy woman.


"JFF"?

no photo
Mon 12/02/19 04:56 PM
Do people really want relationships anymore?

Yes.
But everyone wants the relationship they want. Not necessarily the one you want.
People on the internet? They're going to work against what you want in order to get what they want. Some will focus more on you not getting what you want, others will focus more on making sure they get what they think they want.

You want to meet people that "really want relationships anymore?"
Look for people that actually want to socialize and be around people.
Physically around people.

People that "really want relationships" do things that develop actual relationships.

People that don't "really want relationships" try to keep themselves as safely distant from them as possible.

Bastet127's photo
Mon 12/02/19 06:42 PM
So you meet someone online, hook up, move in together and get married within six weeks.
I think I’d be looking in the mirror for the issue rather than loosing faith in people. I don’t
mean that in a cruel way, but seriously, there’s a lesson in there. :)

canttopthis's photo
Mon 12/02/19 07:50 PM
Clearly I had some fault in this by even thinking it may work. I didn’t want anyone to know I was married and I protected myself financially. But knowing some

Teletes's photo
Mon 12/02/19 08:26 PM
Yeah you are right

Tina's photo
Mon 12/02/19 10:13 PM
I can't speak for every woman but I definitely want a TRUE RELATIONSHIP, I just haven't found that one man who feels the same way as I do yet.

igor mayer's photo
Thu 12/05/19 03:48 AM
"Do people really want relationships any more."

Nope. Changed my mind.
And after only three days here...

BE the hero!
No. Only interest

igor mayer's photo
Thu 12/05/19 03:48 AM
"Do people really want relationships any more."

Nope. Changed my mind.
And after only three days here...

BE the hero!
No. Only interest

Sadness

Goofball73's photo
Thu 12/05/19 12:56 PM
I have two rules in dating.

1. Never date someone based on just looks. Attraction is key, but just because she is a 10 plus doesn't mean she is for me.

2. When rule number 1 gets me in trouble, take off all my clothes, run out into the cold damp night, freeze my balls off for about 15 minutes and then run back inside. I then slap myself and watch Hallmark movies and cry. Talk about torture.

See....I am committed to relationships.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 12/05/19 01:00 PM
Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?

Some do!
Some don't!
I do!

mzrosie's photo
Thu 12/05/19 01:40 PM

Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?

Some do!
Some don't!
I do!


I do too, river. I want to be in love and be loved in return. :heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 12/05/19 01:46 PM


Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?

Some do!
Some don't!
I do!


I do too, river. I want to be in love and be loved in return. :heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


Yes, to be in love again and loved in return would be a blessing. I hope it happens for you rosie! flowerforyou :heart: :heart: :heart:

mzrosie's photo
Thu 12/05/19 01:52 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Thu 12/05/19 01:55 PM



Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?

Some do!
Some don't!
I do!


I do too, river. I want to be in love and be loved in return. :heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


Yes, to be in love again and loved in return would be a blessing. I hope it happens for you rosie! flowerforyou :heart: :heart: :heart:


thank you, river, I hope so too. I love the feeling of being in love.. so wonderful.
Might not happen to me again, but I sincerely hope it happens to you.. you deserve to be loved and adored flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 12/05/19 01:58 PM




Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?

Some do!
Some don't!
I do!


I do too, river. I want to be in love and be loved in return. :heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


Yes, to be in love again and loved in return would be a blessing. I hope it happens for you rosie! flowerforyou :heart: :heart: :heart:


thank you, river, I hope so too. I love the feeling of being in love.. so wonderful.
Might not happen to me again, but I sincerely hope it happens to you.. you deserve to be loved and adored flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


hush your face rosie of course it will happen again

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 12/05/19 02:02 PM





Topic: Do people really want relationships anymore?

Some do!
Some don't!
I do!


I do too, river. I want to be in love and be loved in return. :heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


Yes, to be in love again and loved in return would be a blessing. I hope it happens for you rosie! flowerforyou :heart: :heart: :heart:


thank you, river, I hope so too. I love the feeling of being in love.. so wonderful.
Might not happen to me again, but I sincerely hope it happens to you.. you deserve to be loved and adored flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


hush your face rosie of course it will happen again


I agree with Eric!

Thank you rosie, I have my doubts, but you give me hope! flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

mzrosie's photo
Thu 12/05/19 02:08 PM
awww thank you so much, river and eric. flowers flowers

May we all find love before New Year's Eve. Yay! or after, the sooner the better drinks drinks drinks