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Topic: The real thing 😍
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Wed 06/06/18 11:10 PM
Why I couldn't make my match??

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Wed 06/06/18 11:30 PM

Why I couldn't make my match??

Dont worry you’re not alone :angel: welcome to the forums sir

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Mon 07/02/18 05:09 PM


Ok let’s start with an on line scenario:

We both signed up in the same dating app. You checked out my profile then I checked out your account too blushing we post in the forums and at a distance we observe how each other is by the way we express our thoughts and by the way we communicate with others. We got more interested and one of us sends that first message which later turned out to be the start of so many more. Days go by we like each other even more we start to feel that elusive connection we both yearn for. Then suddenly messaging wasn’t enough we wanted to see each other and video was the next step. Gosh we liked each other even more . What we saw just made the attraction even better. We admit to each other that we like each other more. Then video chat would later on not suffice anymore. We want the real thing , yearn for the real thing.

So my question goes:
Dear mingle men.....when and how do you know that what you feel is the real thing already when you haven’t even met the girl personally? Is there a time frame that makes you realise yes she is the one? When do you realise it’s more than infatuation? Do you sort of do a test to know your true feelings and hers too? Is there a certain level of love that you feel that makes you want to be serious with a girl and would want to spend happily ever after? Basically these questions are about the on line stuff which I know is quite different from the real world. I would appreciate your opinions and personal experiences without any judgements.

Thank you all in advance flowerforyou


Not a man but somehow I can relate :blush::blush::blush:.. I found a lifelong friend through a dating site (so he's not the one). We just chatted and found a connection. We talk about anything and everything. He's always there for me. He's showing his care and concern though he's far. He always make me feel remembered and special. I met him already and this coming May 12, he'll be in the Philippines again. We'll meet :blush::blush::blush:... I know that he likes me but I know that we'll never be more than friends (we're aware of that but we're both building a good memory) coz we know each other that much already. This November he'll visit again and we'll do lots of things...

You will know that he's the one if there's a connection and chemistry. If your feelings still don't change even after meeting him also if he feels the same... if you keep thinking about that person... if both are exerting effort to make the relationship grow/ last long




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Mon 07/02/18 05:13 PM

Why I couldn't make my match??


Hmmmm...do you really need to ask with that photo posted? Just sayin'

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Mon 07/02/18 05:15 PM
and that pic is all he's gotlaugh

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Mon 07/02/18 05:31 PM

Why I couldn't make my match??


I'll say it this way, "NOT" the real thing.

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Mon 07/02/18 05:38 PM
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Mon 07/02/18 07:13 PM
And so goes the online scenario.....
You will only know its a real thing when you meet in person. So in the meantime you enjoy the moments, the friendships, the laughs and the closeness. Whatever happens tomorrow, we all shall have today :angel:

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Mon 07/02/18 07:17 PM

And so goes the online scenario.....
You will only know its a real thing when you meet in person. So in the meantime you enjoy the moments, the friendships, the laughs and the closeness. Whatever happens tomorrow, we all shall have today :angel:


I was on another forum site which is now defunct and I did meet two people , we are still friends and keep contact .

You are right, until you meet its not real.

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Mon 07/02/18 09:01 PM


And so goes the online scenario.....
You will only know its a real thing when you meet in person. So in the meantime you enjoy the moments, the friendships, the laughs and the closeness. Whatever happens tomorrow, we all shall have today :angel:


I was on another forum site which is now defunct and I did meet two people , we are still friends and keep contact .

You are right, until you meet its not real.

Yes but real friendships though dont really require physical presence would you agree that in that aspect love for a friend can truly be real even if you dont meet them ever?

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Tue 07/03/18 04:46 AM

And so goes the online scenario.....
You will only know its a real thing when you meet in person. So in the meantime you enjoy the moments, the friendships, the laughs and the closeness. Whatever happens tomorrow, we all shall have today :angel:


And so goes me quoting someone ...

Don't expect anything waving

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 07/03/18 04:46 AM

And so goes the online scenario.....
You will only know its a real thing when you meet in person. So in the meantime you enjoy the moments, the friendships, the laughs and the closeness. Whatever happens tomorrow, we all shall have today :angel:


And so goes me quoting someone ...

Don't expect anything waving

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