When women look at guys profiles, do they pay any attention to the info about guys that they write...i say i like heavyset women and i keep getting skinny ladies. I think they just look at our photos and reply.. am i right about this.

Maybe they just think their fat....

I'm not sure if most of them even know or understand the English language.. j/s

I believe people (male and female) are more likely to scan photos than profiles, because its just easier and more efficient when there are so many profiles of such different lengths.

the only thing that most of these woman want to see is what is in your wallet or pocket. many 25 to 30 year olds want to be my friend(and only want an email address) but their account will be deactivated by the next day. we are so lucky to be a part of all the scammers(that we are not allowed to mention) on this site.

I have a general question as well..
In a PB&J sandwich.. does the peanut butter go on the top or the bottom..?

1. Mail
Your Mutual Matches (Never Look At) waste of time!
2. Who Viewed Me, I delete 90% of them only because they are Younger than me and I am not a cougar. Let them look but I'm not a cradle robber. I did have my site for 62yrs old and older, I like older men 10 to 20yrs older we have more in common I find. I am too old schooled for a 40 yr old and almost 50 yr olds are too young with kids.

I did look at one person, but we are two pee's in a pod and we live on opposite sides of the state. But we do think the same and have the same idea's about relationships but it would never work, I will not leave my kids and he will never leave or he better not ever leave his kids that would be sad he has a wonderful family.


Nudges I have never used a Nudge for I have not found a person I want to nudge! at least not yet.

When I do look at a profile

1. 67 year old man from ??????, California

(Looking for woman for marriage) If it does not say this then I delete them it is not worth my time. I know what I want and I will not settle for anything less, I will not date a man to see if he is attracted to me that would spoil me for my Husband to be! I have saved myself for 10yrs why would I ever Date a Man when I could be Married to a wonderful man who honors marriage and respects my integrity, morals, and ethics on relationships.

2. interests: walking with someone, cooking, talking, museums, simple things in life.

3. Marital Status
Widowed

Have Children?
No

Smokes?
No

Religion
Catholic

Want Children?
No

Drinks?
No or Sometimes

4. That is all that I look at, I do not care about the size or the height it does not matter to me only because my side says I am 5'5" so if they come to my site then they must not care if they are shorter or the same size or taller.

As for weight, what do I care it does not make a person, it just show's they have aged the same way I have when a person has no love in their life. When a person is in love they seem to want to lose weight but without it, as each year goes by they just seem to get comfortable in their own skins.

Last, only the ones that leave me a message in my mailbox do I ever contact or reply too. If they want to meet me they will send me a mail.

As for phone numbers, I will not call, nor will I do a TEXT thing, both are showing me you're too lazy to pour out your heart into the text. yes, some men don't like to type well sorry! This day and age its all about Typing and Emotions, Feelings and Words in Typeset so to talk with me you better have fingers who talk and type at the same time.

I take the time to change my profile every day so It will let you see the person I am inside my mind, and I change my photos so you can see me from all different ages so you can see how I have aged and how I will age in the future. With a Good Man, I will become Young again if he shows kindness and consideration he will also become the best he can be for the both of us in time.

You will never get a short to the point view with me for I have many words to tell. it must be the Autobiography I am writing! Na! its always like this.

On the bottom.
You can't spread peanut butter over jelly.

And don't think about turning it upside down when finished..
the purple bird of funk will fly up your nose.

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In the middle.

My general answer is pi 3.14159265359....

Does that answer the general question???

Hi

I receive emails from women that have never viewed my profile, sometimes only after my reply, some could have been in stealth mode so would not show up, but my guess is that many have not even looked at my profile before sending a message. So yes, I think you are right, some pay little or no attention to written profiles before sending a message in my opinion.

I read profiles! Many men have blank profiles. Many men look at photos!

I read profiles. If I don't fit their criteria, I don't write to them.

I've observed that among the most common mistakes humans make, is to try to understand things in a GENERAL way, when reality is all about SPECIFICS.

Especially with mating. The more a person uses a GENERAL approach to figuring others out, the less likely they are to find a SPECIFIC person to get involved with.

Ironic, since generalizing seems to be the top mental tool that humans inherited through DNA.

Those skinny attractive ladies that message you are actually skinny guys in dirty t- shirts and cigs hanging out of their mouth in some internet café in Nigeria

good one lmao but this might confuse you ...
what about the peanut butter swrled in the jelly in one jar ...

what then


I look at all profiles ...I might be interested in ... an from those that message me ... do I think they read ...sure but think they do things just for spite sometimes like a child lol and some just go by the picture and do not read them at all ...

...good to see you

This makes sense^^


Generalizing, IMO, coincides with PC attitudes of society.
I believe it stems from instant gratification syndrome.

Generalizing is the lazy approach to factual assumptions.
Gives you basic information common to a group.

"Milk is good for the body" - generalization
As long as your body is not lactose intolerant - exception to the generalization.

People don't live in a world of generalization.
We live in a specific world of our own experiences.
Sometimes our experiences 'relate' to generalizations in certain ways but each one is specific to our own life.

IMO, basing specific behavior on generalizations is delusional.