Topic: what is the reason i feel more attracted to thick women?
Samuel1141984's photo
Thu 12/22/16 11:42 AM


question is : why would I always seek BBWs ,is there any main reason I would love to have sex with them ?
All opinions welcomed ..thank you


Sex is in the head ... and comes from child hood issues.

If mom and dad were 'healthy' let's say ... love each other, we not addicts, he gave him self to his woman .. stuff like that.

Then you would see that modeled and that would get into your Duck Disease (it is just the Human Condition we all have) ... so you would be only interested in being clean, sober, in love, healthy, do the pair bonding and harsh discipline of giving your self to your partner .. cause that is what you want to do.

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In another case ... let's say you grew up in a family where daddy was a sex addict, lies all the time, has sex with you, the neighbors kids .. and is bi-sexual like he was Dennis Hastert as mom is 100 pounds over weight....

Then that would get into your Duck Disease (again just the Human Condition we all have) ... and you also would pick on heavy women .. who are only interested in dating bi-sexual guys that have no age discrimination. She would only be interested in you, cause her Daddy was a Dennis Hastert kind of guy.

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So I could go on to other examples ... but they would all come out of the same dynamic and go to the same place.

If Daughter was raised in a home where Daddy was doing the upstairs maid, making babies that were out of the marriage and abandoning them, while also having sex with mommy ...

Then Daughter grows up to fall in love with a guy ... exactly like Daddy who lies, is a sex addict, uses no condoms or engage in Adult Responsible Behaviour ... they are all addicts, none of them cry ... and make little monsters for babies who grow up to be big monsters.

And so it goes ... on and on .. until some one fixes up their Duck Disease.

Every has to ... even if you come out of the so called 'Healthy family' ...

Your Defense Structure wants 'you' running your life .. not the ghosts of your good mom and dad ... and also not the ghosts of your sick mom and dad doing it.

If you want to know more here is a You Tube video to check out.

If this posting makes no sense to you what so ever ..

then FURGETTABOUT-IT !!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1QrxgZtqik Duck Disease

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it made a lot of sense . im going to see this video .im so grateful for that you bestowed your priceless infos here

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Thu 12/22/16 12:24 PM
Edited for off-topic.

soufie
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Sat 02/11/17 02:32 PM

hey every body and nice to meet you all .
I have always liked big beautiful ladies . I can still remember when I was a pre-teen and I saw a big naked woman laying on the ground on a TV commercial , I totally shivered and panicked , later on I knew I am BBW lover .
my ex girl friend is a thick blond girl , and I still have fantasies about her as I would never ever forget our romantic moments ..unluckily we broke up for that she was very demanding ! very needy !
I am happy im talking things out on here . after that relationship I can't picture myself with a girl nextdoors , i prefer big ones , I am looking but I know that it's not easy to find some one who is attractive enough both mentally and physically .

question is : why would I always seek BBWs ,is there any main reason I would love to have sex with them ?
All opinions welcomed ..thank you


Maybe because you really like the female form with all of it's curves. There were certain times in history when a big women with a lot of curves were considered beautiful & very sexy. ( look at Ruben's paintings - you'd love them big beautiful women) I went to art school and when it came to life drawing we all agreed (that we'd much rather draw women than men - so many interesting shapes & curves to their body whereas the male body is more angular & linear

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Sat 02/11/17 03:43 PM

hey every body and nice to meet you all .
I have always liked big beautiful ladies . I can still remember when I was a pre-teen and I saw a big naked woman laying on the ground on a TV commercial , I totally shivered and panicked , later on I knew I am BBW lover .
my ex girl friend is a thick blond girl , and I still have fantasies about her as I would never ever forget our romantic moments ..unluckily we broke up for that she was very demanding ! very needy !
I am happy im talking things out on here . after that relationship I can't picture myself with a girl nextdoors , i prefer big ones , I am looking but I know that it's not easy to find some one who is attractive enough both mentally and physically .

question is : why would I always seek BBWs ,is there any main reason I would love to have sex with them ?
All opinions welcomed ..thank you


Well your in Luck. there is a "Victoria's (Big) Secrete".. opening in your area soon.

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Sat 02/11/17 05:12 PM

maybe we should just say beautiful women as everyone of us is beautiful in our own unique way :blush:

Now that's more like it! biggrin

Goofball73's photo
Sat 02/11/17 06:13 PM

Ummmm it's called preference. Some like fat/skinny, short/tall...whatever

slaphead


I like em all!drinks

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Sat 02/11/17 07:04 PM

We prefer the term SBW waving

forgive my ignorance but whats the definition of sbw?



Hey don't feel bad I was wondering what thick women were....lol

msharmony's photo
Sun 02/12/17 11:14 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 02/12/17 11:18 AM
I think attractions are just a 'bell', as in pavlovs dog

something we associate with a desired end, based upon past experiences,,, conscious and sub conscious


I have an attraction for taller men with broader shoulders, Ben Affleck, Denzel Washington, Tom Selleck, Morris Chestnut physiques

maybe because I respected my dad as such a good man and he held those qualities physically, there may cause a sub conscious correlation?

who knows?

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 02/12/17 11:50 AM
Attractions are attractions. It is what is what it is. People try to validate or explain negatives of what someone is attracted too. It is what it is

Funzy65's photo
Sun 02/12/17 12:33 PM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sun 02/12/17 12:44 PM


if bbw women are your preference then thats really cool, so many men just want a stick thin woman, its nice to read there are guys like you out there.
there are plently of us bbw's out there :blush:


Ohh I so love BBWs . I can't resist their attraction , no matter how big they are love love


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I lied once on a King size WATERBED in a showroom.
I got SEA SICK. blushing

I also lied on a wooden board ( No mattress )
Boy it felt WEIRD. blushing

Now I have a bed with 2 zipped different mattress.
It's called HIS and HERS side.
One is Soft, the other Hard.
I find it very practical & handy,
regardless of a woman's size or choices of wrestling :tongue:

Perhaps you should try it also, ( King size WaterBed )
it may cure your OBSESSION.

Good luck :thumbsup:

trudds's photo
Mon 02/13/17 11:29 PM

We prefer the term SBW waving

forgive my ignorance but whats the definition of sbw?



Hey don't feel bad I was wondering what thick women were....lol

lol it took a while for me to realise they didnt mean stupid (im a kiwi)

Samuel1141984's photo
Sat 02/25/17 06:16 AM


Maybe because you really like the female form with all of it's curves. There were certain times in history when a big women with a lot of curves were considered beautiful & very sexy. ( look at Ruben's paintings - you'd love them big beautiful women) I went to art school and when it came to life drawing we all agreed (that we'd much rather draw women than men - so many interesting shapes & curves to their body whereas the male body is more angular & linear


yes i once read that , and even fashion models were fat women which is totally not accepted now .
I am going to search for Ruben's paintings , thanks for the infos

Samuel1141984's photo
Sat 02/25/17 06:16 AM


Well your in Luck. there is a "Victoria's (Big) Secrete".. opening in your area soon.

thanks

Samuel1141984's photo
Sat 02/25/17 06:17 AM

I think attractions are just a 'bell', as in pavlovs dog

something we associate with a desired end, based upon past experiences,,, conscious and sub conscious


I have an attraction for taller men with broader shoulders, Ben Affleck, Denzel Washington, Tom Selleck, Morris Chestnut physiques

maybe because I respected my dad as such a good man and he held those qualities physically, there may cause a sub conscious correlation?

who knows?


convincing enough . thank you

TMommy's photo
Sat 02/25/17 07:32 AM
naive
prey on self esteem issues
ignorance
easily manipulated
maybe she will cook for ya
you don't have to bring your A game to table
she will fawn all over you if you give her an ounce of attention...



need more? I could go on

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Sat 02/25/17 09:20 AM

hey every body and nice to meet you all .
I have always liked big beautiful ladies . I can still remember when I was a pre-teen and I saw a big naked woman laying on the ground on a TV commercial , I totally shivered and panicked , later on I knew I am BBW lover .
my ex girl friend is a thick blond girl , and I still have fantasies about her as I would never ever forget our romantic moments ..unluckily we broke up for that she was very demanding ! very needy !
I am happy im talking things out on here . after that relationship I can't picture myself with a girl nextdoors , i prefer big ones , I am looking but I know that it's not easy to find some one who is attractive enough both mentally and physically .

question is : why would I always seek BBWs ,is there any main reason I would love to have sex with them ?
All opinions welcomed ..thank you


I can't see any problem here. Different people have different preferences. It's good to know that there are men who like bigger women despite all that model body-type promoting in social media. As long you are happy together, it's all OK. For example I consider 3-5 day beard super sexy. That kind of weirdo am I. And I don't care...biggrin

Provbs31's photo
Sat 02/25/17 09:54 AM
I am a BBW and am confident in myself...it is when I start thinking that others are judging me do I become my own worst critic. It does help to hear a man tell me how much he loves me and desires my body and my touch. I know that guys are turned on by sight, we'll I'm turned on by words...but they HAVE to be the TRUTH. As a BBW,I want the world to know that I will do just about anything for my man. I don't want a man thinking about having a warm body to come home to after he has been out all day window shopping. I want him to fantasize about me as I fantasize about him. I believe in PDA and think that there should be more of it between a couple. Let the world know we're in love, not because of our size or sexual preference, but because having someone to love and being loved is the ultimate feeling.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 02/25/17 11:31 AM
Gigglesnort

comfort89's photo
Sat 02/25/17 12:12 PM
Wow!! Really? ??
Sad you think bbw women are all
So insecure and desperate

comfort89's photo
Sat 02/25/17 12:14 PM
@Tmommy

Wow!! Really? ??
Sad you think bbw women are all
So insecure and desperate